Yesterday I was sextexting a man few years older than me , he was very sweet n gentle. Today in the afternoon we sextexted again n then he asked?

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he asked me for my pic. But I refused n that's when he confessed that if u love someone don't tie them in limits. After that I said I understand ur feelings, hope u would meet someone who understands u better n sorry if I have hurt u in any case. After texting him this, I felt kind of relieved n sad.. Do u think what I have done is right?

Jennay8282 · Accepted Answer

Ideally, what I would do to someone who I was sexting and said that to me, is to immediately stop talking to him. He would be just a guy who I'm just casually sexting, and I get turned off when guys I'm casual with say stuff like they want more or do it if you love them.

For you I think you did amazing. You're not serious with him I'm assuming, so good choice on your part. You didn't have to end it of with him so nicely though, I don't think he deserved that.

Also if it's a guy who does not know your real identity or how you look like, and you're super horny, you can send nudes of your lady bits (no tattoos, no visible marks that others can identify you with). Only if YOU are 100% comfortable showing it to someone else and not being hesistant about it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Personally I don't get this "picture" aspect. I find it more a bucket of cold water.

Last year as an example was sextexting a guy and he was nice enough to ask about sending a dick picture rather than just send it. I said no... don't want any sneak peeks. In the back of my mind, it's if I am seeing his dick I want to touch & taste it. A photo's a cheap thrill.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

Yes you did the right thing look at it when you ask somebody for their picture and they say no you have to accept that yes you have to respect that from that person if they take it further like where that guy did I would click the block button to. S e x t i n g is supposed to be fun you're supposed to make the girl feel like she's ever felt before but in a good way lol not that way well if you need a good sex or hit me up LOL I promise I'll only ask you for a picture once and I'll probably send you one yes you did the right thing

Wiredone · Accepted Answer

I tell women all the time, don't ever send explicit photos to anyone over the internet. You had every right to deny him. I'm glad you stood your ground

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Sounds like he was a smooth guy trying to manipulate you. Wise up!

spartan55 · Answer

You did fine. Please stop with the u and r and all that crap. I know that's commonplace, but you probably saved 5 seconds... lol...😉

Stevefiveo · Answer

I think asking for a picture of your face is reasonable. X rated pics would not be. It could have been something more. In my opinion, I think you were too quick to cut it off with him.

Anonymous · Answer

Don’t worry, he’ll be fine, you’re be fine. If you don’t feel comfortable to share nude pictures, it’s your tight to not do so.

SamFromFL · Answer

It’s not right, guys are visual and if you felt pleasure you could have shared a picture

Anonymous · Answer

You did the right thing. Where you really at the "love" stage? LOL

Crazybeeguy · Answer

He is using manipulation techniques, it will start with photos and what next?

You were uncomfortable with sending nudes. It's your body do what you want with it. Be safe and it's good you habe boundries, keep them.

MrDaley35 · Answer

yes and no he was just wanting to see u after he sent u pics and vids. but no if u feel uncomfortable about sending stuff too him but understand he shared stuff with u and wants u to return the gratitude and favor in a away of speaking.

Wise4myage · Answer

In this situation, you were right because if you had sent nudes, he would know what you look like.

Sam_The_Savage · Answer

You're perfect don't worry...

boggboss · Answer

You two where being very dramatic

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, that was probably the best thing to do.

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