Hi, in my first question I explained that my girlfriend is working and me taking care of the house because I am not working, I really thank the people here for their really kind post about it and without judgment.
I also explained in a previous question that my girlfriend had suggested to me to "break gender stereotypes" for example by wearing feminine clothes, makeup, heels etc, to be honest with you I am not good at walk in heels but i have plenty of time to improve lol. Me and my girlfriend are really happy like that, at the beginning I hesitated to accept to do that because I was largely macho but finally I do not regret it, it allowed me to discover another facet of my personality.
Even if me and girlfriend are happy like that, some people in my family took it very badly especially my brother who told me that I was no longer a real man, who called me a faggot, and finally of the couple's girlfriend. It was really sad to hear these insults, do you think my brother is right?
I'm the couple's "girlfriend", is that wrong?
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@elizamichame1 Poor guy doesn't even realize that his girlfriend made him a complete sissies 😂 Dude you're not a real man anymore, you have to accept this truth and stop hiding behind the fact that before you were manly and macho, it doesn't matter anymore. But I guess that was what had to happen as you had more work and your girlfriend bringing the money home
@melissabora @mynewsworld she actually did understand your situation darling but all she meant was maybe ur girlfriend is trying to exploit u n taking advantage of you in this situation
People tend to judge others from their own perspective. Whatever is different or not the social norm is seen as wrong.
If you're happy then that is all that matters. You're the only one who has to live your life. Don't let others have any control over your own happiness hun. If they can't accept you then it's their loss. Continue doing you!
He doesn't understand because that's not something he's personally into. It's sad but yes it's childish. It's hard to change someone's mindset. Sorry hun.
@crazyish Hi, actually I think when he lost his job and his girlfriend was bringing the money home, she must have stopped seeing him as a manly man and suddenly I think she He said what good is it that he continues to live as a man as he can no longer play the role. So I think she must have really pushed him to feminize. and he thinks it's just an experience, he looks nice but so naive. His girlfriend is making a wife of him lol, once the process was completed she surely leave him
A lot of lonely woman are willing to sacrifice money for unconditional love from an attractive guy or for help around the home, whether they sacrifice some or all varies from person to person.
No. You and your partner agreed to do a gender role reverse to try something new out. Whether you're masculine or feminine it isn't dependent of what makes you a man. You're a man because you are a man. And nothing can ever make you gay. The concept that certain things can make you gay is toxic and very immature.
Sure, but it's my brother who uses these words to put me down.
Honestly before my girlfriend made me change my behavior, I was horribly macho, but now I'm glad she got me to make those changes in me.
For me there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of about living as a "woman", in fact I am quite proud of how far I have come, and the love I have with my girlfriend.
If you're happy with the new change then that's all that matters. Most macho masculine guys would never do what you did. And because you did something new you have a different perspective. You found out that you like wearing dresses, cleaning the house, and helping with the cooking. There's nothing wrong with that. I know some people think being a stay at home partner means that they don't have to do anything. When in fact they do have to do things. It's all about helping each other out when you have one work and the other at home.
Hi, actually I think when he lost his job and his girlfriend was bringing the money home, she must have stopped seeing him as a manly man and suddenly I think she He said what good is it that he continues to live as a man as he can no longer play the role. So I think she must have really pushed him to feminize. and he thinks it's just an experience, he looks nice but so naive. His girlfriend is making a wife of him lol, once the process was completed she surely leave him😂
@melissabora I don't think she would. Most likely his partner makes enough money for them to live even without the other person working. For all we know, the house could've been a mess all the time so she might've thought "Hmm... Maybe role reversal would be a good thing to try out." I think leaving a partner because they're fem is silly. She probably is attracted to femininity too otherwise she wouldn't have suggested such a thing.
@melissabora No, he still is a man. Femininity and masculinity are gender neutral traits, believe it or not. If it was true that fem equals woman then that means I'd be less of a woman for not wearing makeup often. But we know that idea is toxic and shouldn't be forced on people. But it'd be more accurate to say the majority of woman are fem and the majority of men are masculine. Even then it wouldn't matter because traits are neutral.
Whatever floats your boat I guess. Not my business.
Of course, if it was a man in my family I would tell him to try to see and think whether he's going to be happy in the long run. Especially think about and see whether the role reversal would increase the chances of cheating and cuckolding by his girlfriend/wife in the long run. That is, if you are not a cuck. If you are then that's a different story.
I didn't say she would. I said I'd advise him to be careful. Women, at least the hundreds of them that I've seen so far, aren't sexually attracted to sissies. Even a few bisexual ones that I know choose manly men when they want to have sex.
Well just to let you know, I was a manly and macho man before, when I lost my job I had to start taking care of the house and that's when my girlfriend told me to wear makeup etc
Lol okay. I didn't want to imply you wear clothes like that. It's just a random photo of a sissy. But makeup gets you half way there and coupled with role reversal (and maybe pegging?) it does make you a sissy.
Yeah, I don't think you need to be a weak man in order to turn into a sissy.
omg no peggings either. She actually makes me wear make-up, skirts for example and heels, but not very much heels because I don't know how to walk properly yet.
But I mean it doesn't make me an inferior human being and it doesn't deserve my brother's insults either 😔
Well, no. I don't think it makes you an inferior being or deserving of being insulted.
As I said, if you were in my family I would only warn you about the danger of being cuckolded or pressured into a cuckold lifestyle after a few months or a year. Generally speaking, I'd just tell you to be careful your relationship doesn't become dysfunctional and simply end because this choice. Because I assume you do plan to have a long term relationship.
Yes I see what you want to say. Well, it would be weird if she cheated on me because it was she who pushed me to this femininity. But yes I fully understand what you mean.
Yes of course I want a long term relationship with my girlfriend 😊
Poor guy doesn't even realize that his girlfriend made him a complete sissies 😂 Dude you're not a real man anymore, you have to accept this truth and stop hiding behind the fact that before you were manly and macho, it doesn't matter anymore. But I guess that was what had to happen as you had more work and your girlfriend bringing the money home
I agree, but I find it ridiculous to be angry with someone over clothes and makeup. If I were a criminal I would understand but the only i that wrong that I do is put on heels and skirts🤷
Yes exactly, I understand that at the beginning it could have made him weird to my brother because I was a really macho man, but my girlfriend made me evolve. Everyone changes during their life
@Account Poor guy doesn't even realize that his girlfriend made him a complete sissies 😂 Dude you're not a real man anymore, you have to accept this truth and stop hiding behind the fact that before you were manly and macho, it doesn't matter anymore. But I guess that was what had to happen as you had more work and your girlfriend bringing the money home
grew up with brothers being the only girl and i am tomboy, i do home repairs like stuff normally a guy would do and been called a faggot by my brothers. i just don't care anymore. i look at all the stuff i can do and have done that they have/had to hire people for. can't dwell on it
Yes you are really right, I find that reaction so childish. Why he considers it humiliating to dress like a woman, it doesn't make sense to me not to like someone because of it. Me and my Girlfriend are very happy, and I thank my girlfriend for having introduced me to femininity 😊
I stopped reading when you said you wore women's clothes. You are fucking weird and so is your girlfriend. I mean what the fuck, you don't like your assigned sex?
Hi, actually I think when he lost his job and his girlfriend was bringing the money home, she must have stopped seeing him as a manly man and suddenly I think she He said what good is it that he continues to live as a man as he can no longer play the role. So I think she must have really pushed him to feminize. and he thinks it's just an experience, he looks nice but so naive. His girlfriend is making a wife of him lol, once the process was completed she surely leave him😂
