Is it true that love happens when you least expect it?

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Mollynotgemma · Accepted Answer

Yes! Because when you seek perfection or an idealisation you miss the most perfect ideal moment! Love comes when we least expect it and stop looking for it….
I’m more likely to fall in love sooner then when I find my phone… I can’t find it anywhere….
Always losing it!
In fact… that’s my next question to ask… where is my phone?

natured · Accepted Answer

Absolutely yes, in the meantime people should focus on themselves. If you hare happy alone you will be happier in a relationship... Focus on yourself, your career, your school, friends, hobbies and the right person comes without you even noticing and BAM it happens just like that...

exitseven · Accepted Answer

Yes, I was going to give up women for a while, maybe forever. I had been seeing somebody for a while and it was going nowhere and I was disgusted with the whole process. I was going away for a long weekend and wanted nothing to do with women. Ironically that was the day I met my future wife.

JSmuve · Accepted Answer

No, because that implies that you don't have to do anything and it just falls into your lap out of nowhere. So maybe it's true for women, but not for men. Men have to try. They have to put themselves out there and find women to approach, then approach over and over again until they succeed.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

The people I know who found husbands and wives said they meet them when they were not looking for them.

matthonker · Answer

Love doesn’t exist. It’s all about being in the right social circle. And you basically gotta drink your way in or do drugs to get into the circle. If you’re not willing to do those things, you’ll simply never find love. Girls don’t really give two shits about lions, personality, or confidence. They want a guy they can drink and do drugs with. It’s sad, but true

Chriscunning · Answer

It does. But it also doesn't mean you can sit back and everything will happen. You still need to brave it and ask her out and flirt a little. But yes, most often at the totally wrong and most unexpected times.

BeingAnzalKhan · Answer

The best part of true or real love is that you don't even know when and how it happens. Expecting love to happen is just like making a business move. Don't fall in love it's better fall for your love.

Tiptoetamm · Answer

Sometimes, it did to me, I wasn't looking for anything serious when I met my husband then we fell in love

lightbulb27 · Answer

yes, probably because are open to itat that time...

On_cloud_wine · Answer

Any hopeless romantic feels this way. I’m the opposite

na2398 · Answer

Spot on. I'm falling in love with a girl here. Brgan chatting as friends but she's the best girl I've ever come across. Fingers crossed. Imma travel half the world to meet her. ❤💕

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe, but you do have to put yourself out there. It won't happen if you don't get outside or spend some time on dating apps (dating apps have a bad rep but I have had some good experiences).

Chris423 · Answer

I believe so.. Seems like it tends to happen that way

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't say it's a general rule but it has definitely happened to me haha Imagine falling in love TWICE with the same person unexpectedly. It's crazy.

OutWestBandit · Answer

Yeah, its crazy. Comes out of nowhere, wish you had some warning too.

Antisocial_rebel · Answer

I mean it does happen but not everyone gets the same story. Some may or may not say it is true. It happened to me so i think it is true and i am very lucky.

blondfrog · Answer

Ah I mean probably but i would take that expression with a grain of salt.

dpy87 · Answer

Ya you just need to recognize it when it happens. Its amazing how hard you could try to look for it only to realize how effortless it is.

Shy_Steve · Answer

It hasn't really happened to me yet, So I think that might be why.

Shihab91 · Answer

When i met my ex i wasn't looking for a relationship

AnggieGirl · Answer

Nope. Been over ten years here, nothing yet

kkirk4442 · Answer

It can happen that way, but certainly not always.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

So far, with me, yes.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

It has always caught me by surprise.

dray995 · Answer

Yes. You never know when it could happen.

S3ntnl · Answer

True. I know it from my experiences

darkteddy · Answer

Hell yeah! Every day I walk outside I fall in love

InferiorElegy · Answer

No because it doesn't even exist.

Anonymous · Answer

It certainly seems that way

SphynxUK · Answer

I think it is true.

Alih93 · Answer

Don't know, still waiting for the moment

Aimée__LJ · Answer

I hope so

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Sometimes

ChiPaPa · Answer

Nah, it's bullshit

rorimaster · Answer

Probably not

EaterPeter · Answer

I guess.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

YEAH

Ryfyle · Answer

And so does death...

Mmia20 · Answer

I think yeah

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

Yeah!

Nice222 · Answer

Very true.

Anadrisel · Answer

Mmm yes

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Yes, it is

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