Are you afraid to love? Why or why not?

Question

ohshee · Accepted Answer

I think that there are a lot of us they have been through a lot of things and somehow we put a block up right in front of love because we don't want to be hurt again but I'm not afraid of it I look for it I enjoy it I want it I need it because I need to give it in the same depth as I feel it. The thing about love is there so many different levels of love until you can experience each one of them and understand unconditional love is the best no matter who it is and when two people can feel that way together it is the most beautiful feeling in the world people don't understand that we all are intertwined somehow and if we could get everybody on this planet to have unconditional love there is nothing that we could not take on it would be the most beautiful planet ever

AffectionKing · Accepted Answer

I am afraid of love because im afriad of being vulnerable to a woman and for her to see me at my weakest. I was brought up by the notion of man is supposed to be back bone and mr fix it. can't show emotions like crying ( i know now this is incorrect). Even til this day i have a hard time showing my emotions. For some reason i think being weak and vulnerable will give the other person power over you sort to speak.

If i fewl myself falling in love i create a small argument and i stop talking to her. can't miss something i never had.

Alyssa11 · Accepted Answer

I am afraid to love a man who doesn't love me back in the way that I love him. I. e. he wouldn't respect me, be loyal to me, attentive to me etc.

If I meet a man who shows me that I can trust him and that he really loves me and has good intentions only, I am going to love him as much as I can.

Tiptoetamm · Accepted Answer

No not with the right person. I take it slow, I will have sex but emotionally I keep things slow and steady if the person is right for you going slow won't bother them because you have time to get and known eachother

JackSmy · Answer

When there is a connection, after a few dates, I go exclusive, and don't date any others. Sometimes, it has been AMAZING, together for months, and other times, she isn't into it, and just disappears.
For the good ones, it is ALWAYS worth it! Months of closeness, cuddling, and great dates!! Those few times, though, all ended well, but things happen in life, and we go our own ways. I never regret any of the times I jumped in, both feet, feeling what I felt!

Novacane · Answer

In the past I was because the number of times I would get hurt from it and rejected was constant so eventually, I felt this hatred towards love. But today now I am not and I'm willing to love to the fullest extent. I understand that not everyone will love you and not everyone is meant to love you, there are times you might not love someone. But it seems like that's the game we are playing, to see who we can and can't love. We are only here for a finite amount of time, in the coming future we will be forgotten and be irrelevant, so love as much as you can.

Biancam13 · Answer

Yes I am/was before I met my boyfriend. I don’t trust men in general because I’ve been hurt so many times, but my boyfriend showed me different. It just takes the right person to show you that they’re not going to hurt you or let you down without any warning.

Wiredone · Answer

No I'm not afraid to love. I have a wife that I love very much

little_rose · Answer

I'm scared of not being loved back, and I know that I'm bound to get hurt if I love. I have also had terrible relationships in the past. I just don't want complications anymore.

razzmatazz21 · Answer

Yeah I am. I want love but I don't know if there's anyone out there I would trust my heart too. I was married and went through a horrible divorce because the person that I was a writer for betrayed me with somebody else. So if she would do that, the person who I trusted more than anyone else in the world than anyone would do it. So even though I want love I have trust issues.

genericname85 · Answer

i'm not afraid of love. i'm afraid of losing it, once i have it.

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

Yes, but in a very specific way. I'm not scared of love fading or of being left or a breakup. I know those happen and I'm okay with that risk. I'm afraid of trusting the wrong person and being abused again. I think if my trust was broken that way a second time, I'd never trust anyone again, and I don't want to feel unable to trust

Xitomyth · Answer

Not afraid to love, just afraid that I might not find someone to love me back.

Lynx122 · Answer

Hmm for a long time I was not even close to ready now I'm getting close and I really want to take more risks. My development in this area has been really slow and weird. Right now my life is very unsettled and I don't like that at all it's hard for me to focus and function well. So I think it'll take another year but I really want to do this! :) I pobably still have a bunch of fears but I'm going as fast as I can which is still really slow :D I'm doing my best though! :)

JoeyG_7048 · Answer

Am I afraid of love right now absolutely not. Have I been for you before definitely. Love is mysterious you don't know if you're going to get hurt or not you're afraid to take that step, find yourself in a situation or place where you may never have known which makes it scary.

OfDeath · Answer

To love someone is to take the risk that they won't love you back but as they say, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take (which isn't technically true since an attempt is required to result in a miss but whatever, I felt like being cliché). So no. I'm curious and bold. Not afraid.

Anon621 · Answer

I am currently in a relationship with someone right now and so far the relationship has been going alright but it is just beginning so no I'm not afraid to love because I know that love is powerful and I want to get some experience to learn more about my romantic orientation.

Qdbrown · Answer

Love is great when you're young. It's messy and dangerous when you grow old. Whatever goes up comes down. It's just action reaction. Have fun with while young. It's wonderful then...

candleteabrunch · Answer

I love my family more. I'm like as attached as an Italian family's mama's boy (my family and i are not italian). But i feel we are very close despite they annoy me at times and i'm almost 30 still living at home. I prefer to keep living at home, supporting my aging parents. It also means cheaper rent than today's day and age of pricing for homes.

Romeocuck · Answer

There is that saying that says:
It's better to love and lost than to never love at all.

I loved and losing it it's hurting. But be sure that fear of love ( or anything for that matter) is will hurt you more.

Remember,

Almsalways · Answer

No I'm not afraid to love I was in a 25-year relationship and gave all I could and still ended up getting screwed over in the end but she just wasn't the right one I know there's somebody deserving of all the love I have to give out there I just got to find her

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

There's no point in getting that close to someone who's just going to leave eventually

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No, but I'm having the absolute hardest time finding women who aren't.

menina · Answer

Yes I am. Based on what I know about myself if I fall in love I'll fall for a white guy and that might cause me some problems...

KrakenAttackin · Answer

"Afraid to love"... No, but I am afraid of being physically, mentally, legally, and financially, destroyed by a woman (again).

HereKittieKitty · Answer

Yes, very much. I don’t want to go through the pain of knowing I gave my all to someone and they turned around and threw it all in the trash. I’m going to work on me and get back to loving myself first.

COMMODOREII · Answer

To love no. But i think girls get scared of me because i feel my emotions passionately.

MCheetah · Answer

No I am not. The problem is, finding actual quality, committed, caring, real life, biological women who exist in this universe willing to love me. That is the impossible part.

Dontaaa · Answer

If you're talking about love in a romantic sense then I'm not afraid of it, I just don't like it. Been there, done that.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I'm not! Because I trust my own judgement. I won't pick anyone who is bad for me.

innerman · Answer

Yea... Its like a haunted house. U Enter when everything is calm but once your in... its not what was advertises. Its all scary and çğpagcl&$

burlen · Answer

Why should I? Love is the most cherished gift one could give or receive.

Omario2049 · Answer

Yes because modern women insist on being sexually promiscuous with a phobia for commitment and responsibility.

na2398 · Answer

Not afraid to love. Afraid of that being not reciprocated. I've never found a girl who loves me. I honestly feel melancholic and lonely but wouldn't date someone out of that.

scott04sa22 · Answer

Nope they always find their true love after me! 95% guarantee like the Covid shots

ChiTown33 · Answer

Yes. No woman has loved me to this point so why would now be any different? Because she has less options? Would you want to be someone fallback? 2nd or 300th choice? I'd rather be alone

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Love is inevitable. Sooner or later, someone will steal your heart and when that happens there's no going back. Who you decide to love is the most important thing

HiveBee · Answer

No. I've always been a lover. Hopeless romantic and all that.

MiriamDoremi · Answer

I'm afraid of Love, I fear losing myself because Hate is a strong word but so is Love.

A_Nihilist · Answer

Been there. Done that. Got the emotional damage. I'm happy to live and die single.

HairyPoppins · Answer

I have a love hate relationship with love. I think the way to love anything is to realize it may be lost.

Juxtapose · Answer

No. Love is just having deep affection for somebody.. why on Earth would I be afraid of that?

WalkingBassist · Answer

I pretty much can't trust women anymore. I know it works both ways or whatever. I just feel like it'll be a long long long time until I fall prey to the manipulation again.

Asianguy123 · Answer

Men are devil and women are demon. They deserve each other

Rok4bakAR · Answer

I’m not afraid of it but I’m not sure what it is or how to fall in love. Unless is a dog or a cat.

AmandaYVR · Answer

No. I love love.

JosyJosy · Answer

I'm not, it just doesn't come quickly

Willoughby23 · Answer

No I just dont want to. If you don’t love you don’t get your heart broken

TheAfrikan · Answer

Afraid because staying commited to one girl is not all that easy.

collie22 · Answer

i worry around getting hurt

darkteddy · Answer

No. I love myself so I don’t need to be afraid.

Shah11 · Answer

I'm afraid of being loved.  I'm fuckboy.

S_is_me · Answer

Because I am scared of completely trusting someone

Julielamar2 · Answer

In love you often end up being disappointed

Ryfyle · Answer

What sort of retarded question is this?

Iron_Man · Answer

We’ll see what happens

anylolone · Answer

Nope, because love is good.

Synikal · Answer

Wasting my time. The one thing you don't get back.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. Love is a very good thing.

sensible27 · Answer

Yesh

StrangerGirl12 · Answer

No im already in love

zagor · Answer

No, just haven't found anyone worthy of it.

EaterPeter · Answer

Yes.

NoLookingAtSoleil · Answer

Because she could fall pregnant with somebody else

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