Why do only older guys like me, not guys my own age?

[gildedbutterflies]

I'm 21 years old and can't find a guy my age willing to date me. no college aged guys ever approach me in bars, at parties, or anywhere else. I've asked out guys my age before and have been rejected every time. I also get called ugly constantly, and let's face it, college guys want hot girls.

but guys in their 30s seem to have a thing for me. they're always giving me compliments and trying to take me home with them. I turn them down because dating someone 10 or more years older than me seems creepy, but I'm starting to wonder if I should say yes. I'm not getting any other offers.

why is this?

[Anonymous]

If you're mature for your age that can be very attractive and it stands out. Maybe some of the guys your age still have some growing up to do. Not all though.

[mike5150]

21 year old single college girl alright. To bad you don't live closer by I would ask you out :P

[mike5150]

If a guy is asking to go home with him you shouldn't accept. Try going out in public with him and see how he acts if you really want to date him ...

[johari]

I've always had that problem and I don't know why I look younger than my real age and I'm too scared to hit on guys even if they are my age

[stillagoodgirl]

at least you don't have guys youngers than you trying to holla

[Godfatherman]

maybe they see something in you that the "boys" dont. Then again they could just be looking for sex. Be careful.

[Anonymous]

Just go on a date what's the worse that could happen

[kysalle]

you might be more mature. is that possible?

[Anonymous]

Older guys like girls too

[Anonymous]

Maturity thing