4.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. The guys your age want to just have fun and freedom. They'd love some casual sex from you, but they don't want to be tied down by a relationship. If they want to stay in all weekend and play video games and drink, or take off camping or dirtbike riding or whatever, they don't want a girlfriend saying "spend time with meeeee" as their friends all go. And they don't want to be dragged around to farmers' markets and candle stores with you while they're missing the game, or need to change the oil on the car.
Older guys will be more interested in relationships, and they are looking for potential wives and mothers of their potential kids. Guys your age want to smoke weed and BBQ and listen to loud music, but they're not looking to take on responsibilities. They know that they have a limited window of time when they are young and have no responsibility, and they know that once they start their careers, they will essentially have nothing but responsibility for the next 40 years.
Guys your age sense that you aren't a party girl who will have a lot of drunk sex with them, but instead are probably looking for a relationship. They aren't, so they stay away. The men who ARE looking for a relationship are the ones approaching you.00 Reply
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It's probably just a case of what your bringing to the table. I've noticed as people get older what they look for in a partner change. My guess is that you are no nonsense but kind, nurturing but firm, and beautiful rather than hot additionally you are probably a but if an "old soul". These are the types of traits I've noticed guys tend to look for in a partner as they get older. It's just a bit weird because of your age difference but give it a year or three and that problem will largely fix itself. If it makes you feel better my sister was the same way and she made bank bar tending for older guys.
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- Anonymous(18-24)+1 y
I've experienced this too when I was around your age but it was mostly younger creepy guys who liked me and sometimes they would keep asking me out even after I said no. I now have a boyfriend who is my age and he's cute, respectful, and not creepy in the least. I'd say maybe it just has something to do with your personality, because usually guys like that approach girls who they think would be nice to them. Some girls who come off as intimidating or have the "resting bitch face" haha would be mean to these guys you mentioned. Hang in there a hottie your age will come, but you may have to make the first move don't rely on them to do it.
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- Anonymous(25-29)+1 y
old guys are pervert, while young guys prefer slutty girls.
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There’s a huge difference between 20s 30s and 40s LOL but maybe because you’re active online which tends to bring on the attention of a lot of pervs unless you mean real life then I don't know
10 Reply 861 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. That's a hard question, so I'll use a bit of logic to attempt to answer.
One, displaying attraction actually makes a person way more attractive, could be that.
Two, you signal an older age.
Three, you are in tune with them culturally.
None of those answers sync well with all information provided, only some.
But I'd bet on the latter over the age range.00 Reply951 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. because older guys have a different outlook on girls and relationships then do younger guys. personally I think your are a beautiful girl and I wouldn't mind going out with you and getting to know you. But I am also looking for sometime serious where younger guys may not be.
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Depends on where you are on the internet. Seems there are a lot more grown adults here than Tik Tok for example, which would be mostly teens. I'd say older guys aren't as afraid to be blunt and upfront as younger people, maybe becuase they have been rejected so many times they dont care anymore, or they're just creeps who slide into any young girls DMs.
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You have a serious face and a conservative look and might be intelligent or mature for your age which could appeal more to an older crowd.
10 Reply I would say because you're strong minded, your independent you confident and very mature and your beautiful
00 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Because younger guys have no idea what to do with a smart woman. Not all older guys do either, just to be fair. And "what to do" can also mean "how to treat" because you're a person, not a thing.
00 ReplyYoung guys are immature and just want women's bodies (most of the time)
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The same is true of some older guys in my country.
Liking has nothing to do with age. You could feel attracted towards anyone. I understand you are anxious have patience you will find the perfect guy for you.
00 Reply2.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Maybe you seem mature beyond your years or maybe you have an old soul.
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It could be the way you come off. Do you feel like you're more mature than those your age?
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You may be more mature for your age versus a girl that goes out all night partying and or drinking, etc...
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because older men have the confidence to approach you. if you want to date men your own age... approach them yourself
00 Reply Guys tend to look for girls abit younger, and girls in their teens look often for guys who are 2 or 3 years older.
00 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. single, lonely, sex usually, most older men don't like older women due to stamina, looks and yea
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We see your potential of good a long term relationship.
00 Reply - Anonymous(18-24)+1 y
I think it’s a easier to control younger girls that why they do so. I mean 20 and late 20’s is fine but you should be careful if people in 30 and 40 like you maybe they want to use you just for sex.
10 Reply - Anonymous(36-45)+1 y
Because You last longer in bed and they treat younger woman as trophies.
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If you like sex. Go for it.
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Babygirl age is just number. No?
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Ans you look intelligent ❤️
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🙈🙈 Yes i guess age is just a number
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Babygirl 😘❤️
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Can we continue on message? 🙈🙈 I have things to ask
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Younger don't know how to express their interest.
00 Reply 396 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Keep strive, will get one day, be optimistic.
00 ReplyI don't know what to tell u 🤷🏽♂️
00 Reply990 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. too many available women your age now
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It because of the way you carry yourself
00 Reply Because they find you attractive and sexy
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You're likely an insufferable c u next Tuesday
00 Reply - Anonymous(25-29)+1 y
Maybe because you act and look mature?
10 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)+1 y
You like younger guys or elder guys?
00 Reply I like you lol
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