What's it like to have a roommate from the opposite gender?

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did you ever had an experience to have a roommate from opposite gender

PeacefulRainDrop · Accepted Answer

My experience girl roommates are the worst had 2 girls both disasters.. had 2 guys.. one started to like me awkward.. the other was my very best roommate ever! Besides being in a relationship but thats different... be prepared for people to just assume your sleeping together... both genders are slobs.. women are much more chatty if you dont talk to them they feel like something is wrong.. women expect you to know what your thinking.. mske sure you get the person to give you the rent directly so you dont get fucked over like I did! Women have more men in to sleep with louder at night and during the day and expect you to babysit their daughter for free when she's there every other weekend... Id never have another woman for a roommate again they complain more too and expect you to lie for them I didn't I told him she was cheating on him the poor guy deserved to know.. thats from my experience both women I knew before hand.. one of the guys was a stranger he other guy was my best friend were still friends today the other 3 I dont want anything to do with! It really opens up your eyes living with different people! Some people have no consideration for other people at all!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Pretty much the same as having a same-sex roommate. Each person is different, has different beliefs and standards, etc. It only becomes awkward if you base your roommate on some preconceived notion of what that sex should be like, instead of what that person is like

DrGrin · Accepted Answer

I had a lesbian as a roommate. I'm introvert so when her girfriend was there nearly 24/7, it made me uneasy. She doesn't even talked about her problems with me, so she just upsetted herself. One day she just didn't come home, found a new girlfriend, broke up with the other and left.

Our 5 months were okay on my side, except the crowd. She hated as I heard from others, because I often wanted to help her without asking and we worked on same shift so I usually asked them when we were leaving so we wouldn't be late for the bus.

One positive result: her ex-girlfriend is one of my best friends and I don't have much of them.

Adam1978 · Accepted Answer

They usually don't want to have a male roommate. So I don't know. Mostly because there is some really creepy guys out there trying to rent out to women and expect more then rent.

Sonorous · Answer

A major thing is how reactive they tend to be. I notice men tend to be calmer & not as dramatic.

SecretsofKB · Answer

I currently have a roommate that's a guy plus another that is also a girl. The 3 of us have been friends since we started college, so we all get along pretty well. He's probably the cleanest of the 3 of us. Definitely the most quiet. No complaints here lol

InferiorElegy · Answer

Horrible, females are disgusting and dirty and loud. An depending on your relationship with them it can make for a weird experience.

If you're not in a relationship with them, I'd avoid having roommates of the opposite sex. Also never live with friends in general, it could end the friendship. Just so much bad from being roommates with friends of the opposite sex

MCheetah · Answer

I had one. A 20 year old pink-haired Asian female with a cuck boyfriend. Girls are messier than guys, but she had her own separate bathroom and I had my own. It was no big deal.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Even though he owns the house I'm constantly telling him to pick up his shit and clean up after himself

jeffryrobertbabb · Answer

I was sharing a house with a sexy girl, we ended up in bed. This was a long time ago, it ended badly. There were no 'house rules' in those days, I wouldn't do it today.

Anonymous · Answer

You have to be comfortable getting caught naked or in your underwear or seeing him that way because eventually it's going to happen.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Stranger: Bothersome a wee bit Friend: Meh Beloved Variable: HELL YEAH

Anonymous · Answer

She liked to flash me a lot. She invented situations wear I would see her fully naked or partially naked and even masturbating.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah from 13-17 I lived with my best friend from school who was a girl and it was interesting.

Anonymous · Answer

If i get the opposite sex roommate i would just fill her holes day and night

Alyssa11 · Answer

Awkward I would assume.

little_black_dress · Answer

after college I lived with three male roommates

TheAfrikan · Answer

It will seem too awkward getting used to that.

jimmy2 · Answer

Thank God i dont know

Anonymous · Answer

don't do it

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