Do you think its weird to live with an opposite gender roommate?

[sassieequeen_]

I think iy should be normalized. I personally live with my boy best friend, never had crush or anything to eachother in 3 years and i ve known him for 7 years. he's like a seconf brother to me. and i feel much more safer living with a guy rather than a girl. What do u think?

[_deeznuts]

exactly, like I have two male roommates that i'm literally besties with, and it's like having two brothers. I would say that I feel safer with them as well, but I don't think that has to do with gender. I have a girl roommate too, but she never talks to us lmao

[sassieequeen_]

yes literally people dont understand lol

[_deeznuts]

ikr lmao

[MrPickles13]

Not an issue there at all I don't think. I would say some boundaries should be set is all. But I don't see the issue. I would be okay living with my best friend. She's the only person I think I could live in the same house with. I struggle with people as a whole and she's more like family to me then my own family.

[OlderAndWiser]

How is it that you are 17 years old and have lived with your male friend for the past three years?

[sassieequeen_]

im studying abroad. Everyone has to stay with their friends in the program

[OlderAndWiser]

For three years? I thought that study-abroad programs all lasted just one year.

[OlderAndWiser]

And wouldn't you be living with a family that has school-age kids, and not with a single male?

[sassieequeen_]

basically im an excahnge student for highschool and no u can choose how long u’re gonna stay. Also the place we’re staying is an apartment connected to school and all students staying here.

[OlderAndWiser]

I have never had an opposite-sex roommate unless there was also some romantic involvement. I guess it would be okay but I like to walk around the house in my underwear and that might bother some girls.

[Dinklex3]

Not weird.

I prefer female roommates as I love "girl talk" and like walking around the house naked. The only thing I was afraid of was moose and bears.

[Kaneki05]

Nothing wrong with it and it is normalised here.

Myself would probably find it hard not developing a crush on her though, I get limerence quickly.

[Sour-rose]

Not weird. Maybe nerve racking knowing some guy could be a total creep... but I don't mind it

[Mia-Wallace]

I could do it. But I only fall in love with my friends. I would approach him if I was single.

[Th3ft]

That’s really cool! Hopefully it stays positive! Most people don’t have as good of an experience.

[TheMajesticKing777]

It's not a bad thing, mostly if that person can make cookies

[D_Bone_Steak]

It's normal... if there's sexual tension there though I guess it could get weird.

[Phoenix98]

I don’t really find it weird. I guess it just depends on the situation.

[FilmGuy93]

I could see it being somewhat awkward, but it doesn't have to be anything crazy.

[In_Trance]

only a matter of time until he rails you. unless he's gay

[sassieequeen_]

he didn't rail me for 3 years. he's not gay. Not all guys do that.

[In_Trance]

All guys do that

[sassieequeen_]

well u’re wrong apparently lol

[In_Trance]

Yeah? Prove me wrong.
Ask him
Ask him if he's dtf
Ask if he'd take a BJ

[Zeus_66]

I rather enjoyed it. Kept a nice balance. Plus, she stayed on our butts to keep the place clean.

[KrakenAttackin]

I would not tolerate my SO living with a man.

[Moonshae]

It's great if it works for you

[DevinAM]

Only if one of you makes it weird.

[LimitedBenefits101]

No thanks.

[LimitedBenefits101]

read ur question wrong, YES its weird

[sassieequeen_]

why?

[LimitedBenefits101]

str8 men dont roomate females
only gay men do it
and why don't you feel safe around yorúr own gender?

[sassieequeen_]

there are a lot of burglary from where i live so a guy can protect better

[LimitedBenefits101]

so what does he do when u have boyfriends or fuck friends around? let me guess hide like most beta males do

[sassieequeen_]

bro wtf? this is so funny. He basically goes out because he has respect and i do the same for him.

[Bigjake1019]

I don’t see a problem

[enocheli]

yeah its fine