Do you think its weird to live with an opposite gender roommate?

Xper 5 Age: 19

I think iy should be normalized. I personally live with my boy best friend, never had crush or anything to eachother in 3 years and i ve known him for 7 years. he's like a seconf brother to me. and i feel much more safer living with a guy rather than a girl. What do u think?

Do you think its weird to live with an opposite gender roommate?

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Xper 6 Age: 21

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exactly, like I have two male roommates that i'm literally besties with, and it's like having two brothers. I would say that I feel safer with them as well, but I don't think that has to do with gender. I have a girl roommate too, but she never talks to us lmao

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- sassieequeen_
  
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  yes literally people dont understand lol
  
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- _deeznuts
  
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  ikr lmao
  
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MrPickles13 Follow
Yoda Age: 24

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Not an issue there at all I don't think. I would say some boundaries should be set is all. But I don't see the issue. I would be okay living with my best friend. She's the only person I think I could live in the same house with. I struggle with people as a whole and she's more like family to me then my own family.

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OlderAndWiser Follow
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How is it that you are 17 years old and have lived with your male friend for the past three years?

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- sassieequeen_
  
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  im studying abroad. Everyone has to stay with their friends in the program
  
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  OlderAndWiser
  
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  For three years? I thought that study-abroad programs all lasted just one year.
  
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- u
  
  OlderAndWiser
  
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  And wouldn't you be living with a family that has school-age kids, and not with a single male?
  
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- sassieequeen_
  
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  basically im an excahnge student for highschool and no u can choose how long u’re gonna stay. Also the place we’re staying is an apartment connected to school and all students staying here.
  
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  OlderAndWiser
  
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  I have never had an opposite-sex roommate unless there was also some romantic involvement. I guess it would be okay but I like to walk around the house in my underwear and that might bother some girls.
  
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Dinklex3 Follow
Guru Age: 30 , mho 35%

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Not weird.
I prefer female roommates as I love "girl talk" and like walking around the house naked. The only thing I was afraid of was moose and bears.

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Kaneki05 Follow
Master Age: 23 , mho 30%

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Nothing wrong with it and it is normalised here.
Myself would probably find it hard not developing a crush on her though, I get limerence quickly.

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Sour-rose Follow
Guru Age: 29 , mho 43%

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Not weird. Maybe nerve racking knowing some guy could be a total creep... but I don't mind it

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Mia-Wallace Follow
Yoda Age: 30 , mho 39%

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I could do it. But I only fall in love with my friends. I would approach him if I was single.

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Th3ft Follow
Explorer Age: 34

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That’s really cool! Hopefully it stays positive! Most people don’t have as good of an experience.

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TheMajesticKing777 Follow
Yoda Age: 23

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It's not a bad thing, mostly if that person can make cookies

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D_Bone_Steak Follow
Guru Age: 41 , mho 42%

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It's normal... if there's sexual tension there though I guess it could get weird.

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Phoenix98 Follow
Master Age: 31

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I don’t really find it weird. I guess it just depends on the situation.

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FilmGuy93 Follow
Guru Age: 31

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I could see it being somewhat awkward, but it doesn't have to be anything crazy.

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In_Trance Follow
Master Age: 25

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only a matter of time until he rails you. unless he's gay

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- sassieequeen_
  
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  he didn't rail me for 3 years. he's not gay. Not all guys do that.
  
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- In_Trance
  
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  All guys do that
  
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- sassieequeen_
  
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  well u’re wrong apparently lol
  
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- In_Trance
  
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  Yeah? Prove me wrong.
  Ask him
  Ask him if he's dtf
  Ask if he'd take a BJ
  
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Zeus_66 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 46

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I rather enjoyed it. Kept a nice balance. Plus, she stayed on our butts to keep the place clean.

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KrakenAttackin Follow
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I would not tolerate my SO living with a man.

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Moonshae Follow
Xper 3 Age: 22

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It's great if it works for you

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DevinAM Follow
Xper 6 Age: 23

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Only if one of you makes it weird.

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LimitedBenefits101 Follow
Yoda Age: 27

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No thanks.

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- LimitedBenefits101
  
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  read ur question wrong, YES its weird
- sassieequeen_
  
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  why?
- LimitedBenefits101
  
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  str8 men dont roomate females
  only gay men do it
  and why don't you feel safe around yorúr own gender?
- sassieequeen_
  
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  there are a lot of burglary from where i live so a guy can protect better
- LimitedBenefits101
  
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  so what does he do when u have boyfriends or fuck friends around? let me guess hide like most beta males do
- sassieequeen_
  
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  bro wtf? this is so funny. He basically goes out because he has respect and i do the same for him.
Bigjake1019 Follow
Yoda Age: 28

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I don’t see a problem

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enocheli Follow
Xper 3 Age: 32

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yeah its fine

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