It’s unusual, but if you both enjoy living like, I don’t see a reason to be so worried about what other people think or perceive!
Thats amazing, wish more men were like u
Guys and girls can be friends (yes, and even live together!) without having romantic feelings for each other.
No. I lived in shared house type situation all throughout my 20's and mostly with females.
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I mean... Just look at the Offline TV house from Twitch. Mixed gender house of streamers and content creators. Good friends and they aren't dating or anything.
I don't think it's weird to live with the opposite sex if they aren't your family. If they are a friend, or someone that you happen to share a space with due to other circumstances, it's just a part of life. Not every situation or instance that occurs between men and women have to do with sex. I understand that humans are amongst a very small fraction of creatures that have sex solely for the enjoyment of the act and not procreation, but still we are able to control our actions... Most of us are.
My roommate is female and has a dog (also female). I pretty much consider the dog a roommate too somewhat. I'll even watch the dog while she's away on vacation. I treat my roommate great. We talk, sometimes watch shows together. We're just like good friends. No intentions, other than being kind. I expect nothing back. I never thought about sex, nor would I want to. We never even discussed bounderies before living together. I guess we are just naturally on the same page. I honestly don't see the big deal. Do I find her atteactive? Yes, because she is. Am I attracted to her? No. We just have different physical anatomy. Doesn't mean there needs to be romance or lust. *shrug*
It’s not weird at all honey. Please have gender expectations and when people don’t follow that stereotype or tv or wherever they think it’s weird “why isn’t he doing what we think he should be doing, why is he proving us wrong?” It’s your life don’t let other people dictate how you live it
I am getting a new roommate, and its gonna be a lady. She is really cute
She moves in on June 1st.
She is going to be living with 3 guys. Me and the guys made a pact not to try and flirt or develop feelings lol. We dont want to ruin dynamic we already have.
I've found it's more of a social faux pas in some places and less in others. For example, I live on the West Coast with my wife and a female friend in the same house. We often have another woman there who we used to live with, but she moved out and now she's over so often she has a key to the place. It's pretty normal for our city (Portland), but when I talk to friends and family back home (Kentucky), they all think it's weird. Except for my Aunt, who lived in NYC and LA for quite some time.
I don't see why it'd be weird. In my third year of university I shared a flat (three bedrooms, all separate) with two girls, one was a friend from our uni's film-making society (as we were both on the committee) and the other was her course mate. We all had enough privacy and boundaries and it was perfectly fine.
Not weird. I lived with three women in college. (All at once.) It worked well. They were tidier than any guy I’ve ever lived with. The only downside was dealing with judgement… from guys mostly. I’d get random high-fives like they thought it was a 24/7 FFFM orgy or they thought I would end up hen pecked and buried in used tampons. Both are stupid notions, of course.
i have 2 girls as roommates (we share a house with one of the girls boyfriend, one of them is single too). the opposite sex are people too and its only weird if you make it weird.
You aren't sharing a bedroom, so there's nothing odd about it as far as I can see.
My girlfriend has a male flat mate. Nothings ever happened between them (as far as i know). He's a good guy, we get along well enough.
If it works for you its fair enough
Unusual, but not weird if you respect each other.
Weird for a different reason. Most women ask for a female roommate and insist on that. For safety reasons and to make things less awkward.
Why would that be weird? If it works for the 2 of you, then go with it.
If it works for you.
For me, if I'm living with a woman, I'm banging her too. ;)
Nah it's only weird if you make it weird..
If it's not the same room it's not too weird
No.
That's normal.
That is really cool.
It's weird for white mans to live with girls who aren't there own. Stick with white women please
Not weird.
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