Has this ever happened to you?
Has someone ever accused you excluding them - but they were actually excluding themselves?
Has this ever happened to you?
Has this ever happened to you?
No.
But I sometimes find myself excluding myself from people that aren't clear on whether or not I am welcome. As if they needed to be.
Which, might be an asshole-move towards both myself and others because it might seem like I blame them but I don't.
I try not to do this but I guess sometimes I just don't feel worthy of anyone's company.
I don't say it openly like in your (question-creator) example. But more act as if, IRL.
I also don't really block people unless I need to forget about them and in all honesty I don't think about anyone on here enough to let it bother me should we argue online.
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I'm usually the one that becomes the best friend of those that are the "excluded" type!
We kind of form our own group, and we welcome all the "outcasts" and we just get to know each other, and share things, and so many wonderful friends!!
Yes this girl kept thinking that me and some other girls were brutal and excluded her from hanging with us on the last day of high school. This was a long time ago but yea.
but she actually caused that by herself. We knew she was basically running around for days asking people to do stuff with them on the last day, she only ran to us last minute as she had no other opinions so we said no. She has no awareness of how we knew this so she just thought we were the assholes for rejecting her, when it’s like bitch you insulted us and asked like everyone before us, why the hell would we include you.
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Yes. People often fear the things they do to others will be done to them. I have been accused of judging a friend and I am about the least judgmental person I know. Turns out she was the one judging me.
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Yes. This is one of most popular strategies of people who try to manipulate you. "If you don't want play a game with me like I want to, then we won't play this game at all". I find this attitude tiresome and childish, I'm accustomed with this behavior since time as I played with other kids in a sandbox.
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No, but I've had an opposite type situation happen. I had some people tell me that it seemed like I wasn't having a good time when we would hang out. I just told them straight up; You guys never made me feel like you wanted me around. How am I gonna have a good time with you if you never invite me anywhere and make me feel like an outsider when you do?
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Yeah, I hate those kind of people the most. They act like they’re such a loner when in reality it’s them that’s just cutting people off by being rude for no reason than they wonder why they have no friends.
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Yeah, my 10yr old sister worked out pretty well how to get her own way with things (my mum and stepdad are sorting it out now cause my mum noticed pretty quick), so my 14yr old sister and I get told on a lot for excluding her. She was hanging out in my room with my other sister and I, then left on her own accord and 10 minutes later, my stepdads getting us into trouble for excluding her.
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Then they were just looking for an argument. You should tell them if that is what they are looking for, they better change the subject. But no I can't say I have had this happen.
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Nope, I always make sure everyone gets attention and is included in the conversation in the group because I know how it feels to be left out.
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Yes, some family member. I am pushing very hard to include them, till they can start healing and building trust I can only invite them to take part.
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Yes my first girlfriend got moody because i took her to Thrope park and not go on any rollercoasters.
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Oh goodness, yes! Covert narcissists are the number one for this type of garbage.
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I don't tolerate insults well. I can give as good as I get, but my block list continues to grow.
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YES... I don't wanna get into detail fot specific reasons.
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Nah I don't live around or hang out with communists.
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There is such a thing as being your own person in many scenarios
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Don’t feed the trolls!
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It’s all about opportunities. People in the us want to be a friend of someone with lots of opportunities. People here are opportunistic
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Yes one of my friends I went to town with today
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Fuck 'em
Do your thing and don't care about anyone else -
No never I’ve never been that important sadly lol
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So what you'll get over it.
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