How do I know if someone really loves me or they ONLY love me for sex?

[Natcha]

[ohshee]

You have to look into his eyes as he speaks to you you have to hear what it says but you need to hear what he doesn't say that's the most important a guy that likes you was going to make it all about you you going to hold your hand he's going to hold you he's going to be with you day in and day out he's going to do whatever it takes to make you happy guy who just wants sex yes he's going to want to kiss you hold you blah blah blah but when you say no he's going to say okay I got to go he's going to try to guilt you all the time into having it it's always going to be the poor pitiful me routine that's the guys you want to stay away from

[0112358]

You can't know 100%.

however most players are not actually that good at pretending to be caring, and rely on the fact that the girl makes excuses for his behaviour because she likes him.

if you were a friend of yours observing this relationship, what would you say? Does he seem genuinely caring in love or like he just views it as a conquest?

[HOAAH]

Do they get to know you and value your feelings? If not it is just sex

[h0rnyassbjtch]

Say no a couple of times in a row and see how he reacts.

[Vikkrram]

You don't have to put efforts knowing that their behaviour and vibes will tell you all regarding them.

[DWornock]

If you are the best he can get, he loves you. Guys date down for sex, but they don't marry down. Therefore, if you are not the best he can get, you are just a fuck.

If he is desperate to keep you and acts like you are the living end, he loves you. Like taking a crap in the woods, if after sex, he can't wait to get away from it, you are only and easy fuck.

[exitseven]

This is why you don;t have sex on the first date. You have to get to know somebody , then make up your mind after a while.

[Dchrls78104]

One way is to look at how fast or how often sex is mentioned; if he pressures you for sex or brings it up in every conversation, he has already told you that's all he wants and that he doesn't love you.

[In_Trance]

you keep your clothes on and see how long they stick around

[Natcha]

For how long should I keep my clothes on?

[In_Trance]

Until your question is answered by his actions

[Natcha]

That’s what I thought so too. I talked to him about it before though. He said he want me to be ready. So I just asked him what if I still wasn’t ready in our 10-day dates (we’re not living in the same place and we planned to have a trip together), he went crazy and said things like he’s not willing to wait for that long. Cause he has been waiting for me for months already. And if we won’t do it next time, he has to wait for a few months again and expect I’ll do it with him again next time. He going crazy like that confuses me a lot... does he only want me for sex?

[In_Trance]

It's pretty simple if you're not ready don't do it. If he can't accept that then he's not accepting you

[Pj1981]

Are they only nice when they want some or does it feel like they enjoy spending time with you even when sex isn't exactly on the table at that time.

[Anonymous]

If there was a way to do this, it would spread through the women of the world like wildfire and mothers would teach all their daughters how to do this.

There is no way to know.

[genericname85]

only time will tell. cause you can't possibly know when they don't even know.

[demonics]

We called it "marriage" back in the day but y'know empowerment and all. Guess you have to just guess now. >_>

[Surely]

Which seems to be more important to him. Just being in your company and spending time with you or getting you on the sheets?

[Nick473]

just go cold turkey on him and see how he does. Maby he will enjoy his time with you or maby he will turn into a raging man child and demand sex

[Shy_Steve]

Probably when they do really caring things for you even when your not with them or they aren't expecting anything from you.

[REDHOTLINE]

Dont make sex with him. if he loves you than and same behaviors... he loves you. If no he dont loves you

[Somebodyyys]

if he keeps saying, "We're gonna get married, I'm serious," if he doesn't introduce you to his close friends and family, he's just looking at his body, he's only with you for sex.

[TheFlak38]

If he makes the area between your legs wet then he only wants to fuck you.

[Anonymous]

if they still want to see you and talk to you for more than just sex or as a cum dumpster then you know you're with someone who wants to be with you for you

[Anonymous]

If you asked him he'd let you stick a dildo up his ass

[jeffryrobertbabb]

It is impossible to marry someone you are not sexually attracted to.

[Natcha]

But what if ONLY for sex?

[jeffryrobertbabb]

I think if a girl was really hot, I'd marry her anyway.

[Somebodyyys]

how disgusting

[jeffryrobertbabb]

@Somebodyyys lol, if you only marry for looks, you will be disappointed

[Somebodyyys]

being a good man? honesty? it's important to you, isn't it?

[jeffryrobertbabb]

@SI think it would be ill-advised to marry only for sex, but men I've spoken to say they had more sex in the first six months of marriage than they have had before or since. As they say, it takes two to tango. Some men have trouble keeping up.

[Caliguy88]

Probably if they want to hangout without sex.

[Iron_Man]

Don’t put out and see if he sticks around

[888theGreat]

Sex only and it won't last long

[he-takes-a-part]

For the reason you love yourself

[Anonymous]

“Only”?
I don’t think that’s ever the case.

[Slim57]

If you're worried about it don't put out easily

[Anonymous]

Ask them to borrow a lot of money

[Pterodon]

Stop fucking

[MudRucker]

Sex is good