Do you believe you have more than one Soul Mate?

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Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

" Me, who can't even find one guy willing to date me"  Am I joke to you coach? 😆 You're kidding right? Not to be a snarky, cynical smartass, but some of us can barely find ONE person willing to date us, much less more than one!  I never believed in romantic soul mates; let's start with that issue. If that's the case, why doesn't everyone wind up with "the one?"  To me, a soul mate is a person that accepts you for you, and you're willing to commit to them: emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually... With that being said, a soul mate can technically range from a family member to close friend, as  a soul mate doesn't necessarily have to be a lover or sexual partner. No really, they don't!  So is it possible to have more than one soul mate? Sure! But is it realistic to fall in love with more than one, much less wind up "happily ever after?"  NO.

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Accepted Answer

Absolutely. I also think more people need to realize that a soul mate is so much more than just love and romance. It's been dumbed down to that, but a soul mate is literally someone your soul connects to. For instance, I met my best friend when we were 10 years old and I believe that she is one of my soulmates. And I, one of hers. We just connect on a level that not too many people understand. And guess what? She is married and they are definitely soulmates as well. It's so much deeper than people realize. So yes, I 100% believe that we'll have multiple soulmates throughout our lives.

loveslongnails · Accepted Answer

Coach, by definition (spiritually speaking that is), you can not have more than one actual soul mate. There's only one ying to fit your yang, and then it gets a little complicated from there. LOL I believe there are many people who can fit together in a lifetime. People who feel a strong connection to each other may be experiencing a sort of "soul recognition", or maybe it's someone you recognize from a previous life (if you believe that sort of thing, which I do). I think people mistakenly believe that any strong connection means you've found your soul mate. To the best of my knowledge, finding your true spiritual soul mate is extremely, extremely rare, but it's nice to "think" you have.

Zer0Ghost · Accepted Answer

"Nobody gets a soulmate. Best you gon get is a mate, just a mate!" - Chris Rock
Adamn Ruins Everything had a alright episode on this too (Adam Ruins Weddings) but the gist is that there is no soulmate, it's something you convince yourself of to make sense of traditionalism, or starve hedonism. It probably sucks to hear for anyone who was convinced their music tastes are ultra unique but chances are there's several people who are just like you or into similar things within a 10 mile radius alone

ShadezMcgee · Answer

I don't believe in soul mates, but I believe in compatibility and individuals who are in your life at certain points to teach you something.

I know that my girlfriend is not the only one I am compatible with as there are millions of women and those that I have good chemistry with are ones that have expressed interest to a degree at one point or another. Point being, there is no "the one" or "soulmate" just people you click well with at certain points in your life.

beebella · Answer

I don't believe that soulmates are strictly romantic connections, so yeah. I think we can have several different soulmate connections in our lifetime.

lasher010 · Answer

The idea in itself is absurd. Even with God directing traffic why would he limit your bliss are your perfect happiness to one person. And everything working out with that one person. If it didn't or if something happened to them then you could never be made whole. Everybody has multiple so nights if you want to look at it that way. And many people have anti soulmates. I've had one or two of those.

FatherJack · Answer

No such thing as soul mates , everyone has flaws , and women & men are very differently wired , conflict is much more common than a blissful relationship. Sure they exist , but are exceedingly rare , one's in which both partners put in equal effort and are compatible at a fundamental level.

DiegoO · Answer

Yeah, I met one online (I think you know the story). I may have encounter more than one in person, but I probably wasn't awear.

There are many people we can perfectly match with, although we'll not know all of them, or be concious about their presence within our social circle.

IAmJewell · Answer

Yes, we all have more than one soulmate. People often think soulmates are strictly romantic but soulmates can also be family members, best friends, etc.

sage2021 · Answer

No I don't. The guy I am with now is my only soulmate. I have never met anyone like him, and I know I never will again. I do wish I could show him how much I do love him but I can't because he has also hurt me very deeply. I have never hurt him, so he doesn't have anything to hold against me. But I have to hide my love for my own sake. 💔

questionnnnn · Answer

Yes, I do believe in there being more than one soul mate for me... and me being more than one potential person's soulmate. Definitely. Beyond a shadow of a doubt. And whoever I end up marrying and settling down with, I'll love them with my whole heart forever, but that doesn't mean that there weren't other men that would have been just as good a catch with time.

Anonymous · Answer

The amount of soulmates people have is extensive, but there’s only one twin flame. These different soul mates vibrate on various frequencies and complement who you are being at the time. For example, when you’re being your best self, you will attract your soul mate who also vibrates on that frequency and you will be happy. On the contrary, when you’ve been through trauma and haven’t worked on your baggage, then you’ll be vibrating on a “lower” frequency and will attract people and soul mates, who are not radiating higher vibrations and you, possibly, will have a “difficult” partnership, unless you address what should be addressed.

So, there are absolutely more than one soul mate for you, but the quality will absolutely depend on your current vibration.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I have a hard time definiting what a soul mate is. Soul mate sounds like a perfect fantasy, that perfect person. So no I don't think it exists.
I do know, the man who will stand by my side through good and bad and me there for him is my soul mate in real life. That he will put up with me with my crap and me for him as well.
Those who can't seem to know how to compromise in a relationship and run off when things are hard... forget them.

rjroy3 · Answer

100%

I've always felt this way. There are a million "the ones", but the ones you come across is based upon the decisions you make. Like a matrix.

Went to this school instead of that school, the girls from the pool associated with that choice rises in likelihood you meet.

Gomezaddam51 · Answer

So in other words yes, I believe you can have many. If there was only one person in this whole world that is your soul mate the chances of finding him or her would be astronomical so unless fate brings the two of you together, you would never find your soul mate. I believe that one can have any number of soul mates.

Flower7 · Answer

I don't believe that I have even one. I've never been a fan of the soulmate concept. It doesn't seem true to me.

MCheetah · Answer

Many people probably do, but I likely don't even have one. Not a woman out there (who isn't low hygiene or insane) would want to date me.

serious · Answer

More than one? No way. I don't have a soul mate and I know it. I also don't believe in soul mates.

Jaysonava · Answer

Yes.

We are attracted to people who match our worldview, experiences, age group.

Sometimes we seek out people who will teach us something about ourselves. Other times we find people who will confirm what we already know. Sometimes we seek enemies, other times we seek friends.

Shiningtempest · Answer

@coachtanthony Truthfully, I don't believe in soul mates because there is 0 evidence indicating the existence of soul mates.

Alyssa11 · Answer

For different purposes, yeah. A romantic soul mate, a platonic soul mate etc...

Anonymous · Answer

i dont believe in having just one, so if mine died today an weve not met, what? im just out of luck rest my life? i believe its not that we have soul mates, but that there will be many we connect with go well together with, its just finding them thats hard.

legalboxers · Answer

I think so. But do we put the energy into it. Do we put in the effort in the relationship in thinking that "they" exist. Its what you put into it. But "soulmate" at what level? high school? college? transition into adulthood? its all multifaceted

zagor · Answer

The concept of soulmate is kind of silly, though it doesn't require the concept of a soul, which some people below don't seem to get. If you mean more than one person you could be exquisitely happy with, than yes, sure, unless you're an ornery prick yourself. Over the years there have been at least a dozen women I feel I could have been happy with - unfortunately I never dated any of them.

No, I'm not talking about celebrities...

ohshee · Answer

Yes I believe that there is more than one soulmate for all of this there could be many soulmates there can only be one twin flame and they're both a little bit different from each other print plane is more intense the splitting of one soul

Adam1978 · Answer

I don't believe in soulmates, people are to flawed for that. I think there is plenty of people I could have a satisfying relationship in if both are willing to do some compromises. Ie has a positive mindset not focus on the other person's flaws.

Azaelia · Answer

I don't know. I can't predict what my future will be. Just follow the flow. If I'm destined to have more than one soul mate I accept but all this time I never in a relationship cause I don't know what is love.

mvpverona · Answer

Yes. There are many people who are meant to come into your life and stay and leave. Some you learn lessons with and some help you. We are all here to learn and he’ll each other out.

Interstate · Answer

Unless you married to the wrong person now, no. A soulmate is your future Spouse. Nobody can be married to two people at the same time. Therefore, there can't be more than one soulmate.

SlightlyEccentric · Answer

It seems cheesy, but look up the Red String of Fate. I believe everyone has that one they are destined to meet, no matter the distance or even circumstances between the two.

Ellie-V · Answer

Yes. Soulmates are not exclusively romantic, according to my spiritual/religious doctrine.

Saville_Row · Answer

Yes. And I hope is true, because otherwise I lost mine before I even started.

daddy_issues_69 · Answer

Not really I think we only have one that we w9uld live and die for

OddBeMe · Answer

dont fck your life up waiting for your soul mate. it doesn't exist.  we try people on like clothes and see how they fit. the best fit at the time is our true love. until they refuse anal.

Jlegacy · Answer

How can a man with one soul have more than one soul mate?

ChiTown33 · Answer

I don't believe you have one. That's some silly twilight b. s.

rcljr · Answer

No, and unfortunately mine died when we were 9 years old, from cancer.

dray995 · Answer

I don’t know. I certainly hope so because things didn’t end well with my last one. I’d like to hope I’ll get a second chance at a love life.

abdullahaasim · Answer

You can love multiple people in your life to the full extent, but there can only be one soulmate..

DaveToo · Answer

I used to until the last one ran off with some black guy. She's happy so I'm happy.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

There is no such thing as a soul mate

electromagnetic · Answer

Soul mates never. More like compatibility.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t even know if we have souls so I really don’t know

HajiaMariam · Answer

Yes... I personally think that it is possible to have more then one romantic soul mate

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I believe there are multiple candidates. But once a winner has been declared, the contest is over.

sexscientist · Answer

I think I personally have many, others may only have one but deep down we should all be soul mates I think

Unicorn_lover_2002 · Answer

I mean yes , we have friends soul mates and relationship soul mates (significant other)

MrJMM · Answer

I'm just gonna say that I don't believe in soulmates and that's it.

emmaheimer04 · Answer

There’s a difference between a soulmate and a twin flame. A soulmate can be multiple people whereas a twin flame is one person

Willoughby23 · Answer

I don’t believe in the soulmate thing. I think some people are compatible but even the best couples can grow apart

Anonymous · Answer

Sure. Some have a million and I’m sure some have none.

MJA2000 · Answer

You only have one soul, so only one person can be your soulmate

Anonymous · Answer

I don't believe I have a soulmate out there anywhere.

FreyaRed · Answer

No. Souls don't exists

Bluemax · Answer

I don't really think soulmates exist.

BlacklightShade · Answer

I don't believe in the concept of a soulmate.

Celtero · Answer

Bro, I believe that I have less than one soulmate.

IveGotNoName · Answer

I don't believe you have any "soul mate"

Subarugirl · Answer

I don’t believe I’m soul mates

DarkWinterNights · Answer

I don’t really believe in soulmates.

es20490446e · Answer

More than one potential soul mate.

clampfan101 · Answer

That goes against what it means to be a soulmate…

Twalli · Answer

I believe everyone only has ONE true soul mate

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