How can I get my new boyfriend to be less shy?

[WonderMLF]

He’s very sweet with me and fun with friends but mostly shy around girls. Def not as curious and affectionate as me. Is he just not that interested? Or does it come from being an only child? Or am I expecting too much too soon?

[ohshee]

Growing up I was the same way I always felt like people were looking at me and judging me and that is because of the things that I would feel inside I didn't know it at the time that I was an empath and all these weird feelings that I was getting I thought I was something was wrong with me I thought I was weird weird weird and it wasn't until later on in life did I found out what was going on and all those feelings that I felt we're actually feelings that I was feeling from other people I was 1 years old my parents got divorced I was two and a half three when my mom remarried but when I would go to my step dad's mom and dad's house my grandparents and I had aunts and uncles there I would get so shy so quiet because all these things I felt from my own family and I kind of always do it in the background I would always just listen and pay attention never understanding why I felt the things I felt inside and it was because I was actually feeling what other people were thinking or feeling if you want him to open up just be yourself don't worry about him he will open up when he wants to when things are going on vacation the part of it if he's trying to stay in the background bring him to the Forefront and make him a part of it the more confident he gets around your friends our family to better he will get

[caring__1]

Introverts don't become extroverts just because extroverts believe they should. It isn't a choice. If you want an extrovert, choose one. I don't care how much you tell you cat to bark, chances are it will never happen.

[SunnySensei]

It's not necessary that he is not interested Miss, I am still shy around girls but that doesn't mean I don't like someone.
He might just be unsure what the right thing must be to do and he doesn't wants to hurt you.

[Vikkrram]

As an shy person i can tell you that if ur boyfriend is shy and he is having a girlfriend... is a biggest achievement till now 😅. Coz for shy guys it's hard to get girls. So take his time to settle down a bit.

[sawno]

Since you are 15 very likely the latter, are you his first by chance? He may be shy because he doesn't know how to react around you. Take the lead gently so he can take your lead and ease in to it.

[Levin]

It's probably from the way he's brought up.

Honestly, just be there to support him and he will slowly but surely open up, when he realises it is safe!

[DumBear]

Does he know you're wanting him to flirt with other girls? Or did u mean be social with other girls?
Just tell him clearly you would like him to if he feels comfortable with it. Dont force him.

[PositiveNote]

Acceptance of who each other is really is the answer.

[Wise4myage]

I'm sure he's interested, you just need to be a bit a bit patient with him. Making him feel comfortable would help too.

[Anonymous]

He's just shy. Just get him more comfortable with you

[IncognitoBandito]

Be openly affectionate with him and in time he will reciprocate

[Gnome0]

Shy people are less touchy. You might be expecting too much.

[MarkyMark77]

@wondermlf are you still with this guy?

[BigManSAB]

He’ll eventually unfold

[In_Trance]

Expecting too much too soon