What happens when I realize im not smart and have little to nothing to contribute emotionally and all im good for is being a sexy?

[Babygirlsweetheart1]

What happens when I realize im not smart and have little to nothing to contribute emotionally and all im good for is being a future housewife stay at home mom and helper and being a sexy doll for my future husband? All im good at now is being sexy.

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[GoldenAxer]

You can do whatever you want. Can work on the things you aren't good at. That's how most people become good at them. Or you can work on the things you're naturally good at, and that's how most people master them.

[Babygirlsweetheart1]

I dont think i can be as good as a man at things men are good at. I am only good for being sexy. And yeah i guess i can just focus on that

[GoldenAxer]

I think you got a lot more potential than you give yourself credit if you work on improving at something. It doesn't take much training to beat anyone, including the average man, at the 100m dash, for example. None of us might ever beat Usain Bolt but you can beat the average person without working that hard. Maybe you give up too easily at anything you try.

[Babygirlsweetheart1]

I am being serious. Why do i have to try to be like a man? I never will exceed. I know my place.

[GoldenAxer]

Well, that's a best of the best mindset, no? I also can't beat the best men at hardly anything. I can't beat the Olympian world records, or the best chefs, or the best artists, or the greatest musicians, or the strongest men on the planet. I can't even beat the best women at most of these things. But you know, I don't necessarily need to do that to excel in my neighborhood, or community, or job.

[Babygirlsweetheart1]

I mean even in the job place... I wouldn't mind being a manager... maybe... But a guy got promoted instead of me. I just dont have the qualities they want. But yeah thanks for your help and making me feel accepted xx

[summerfox]

I mean are you happy with that? If not then do something you want to do! It doesn't matter if you're not the best as long as you enjoy it and are happy!

[Babygirlsweetheart1]

I am happy with being a future mom and housewife thats my dream. As for being sexy i mean if it pleases people then yeah i guess its ok?

[summerfox]

I mean you shouldn't be sexy just for others, as long as you do it for yourself too you know! And also just remember you don't have to always make the effort make me happy and do what others like. Remember to focus on your own needs and wants and if you ever seem unhappy with a situation, you can always change it :)
Also there's a great person on tiktok that shares her parenting experience which i think is amazing if you ever want to check it out. she's's called @toriphantom