Do men cheat more often when their woman criticizes them too much?

[Italiano312]

I feel like men look to feel appreciated in a relationship and like they are fulfilling a woman in a relationship. Criticisms detract from that. A man will look for the gratitude elsewhere.

Yes

No

A total of 60 votes were cast: 18 girls and 42 guys. See detailed results

[litty]

I've never heard of a couple that doesn't fight. As for cheating, let's not forget to factor in a person's personality.

1. Requires constant attention or has low self esteem?
2. Has no regard for how others feel?
3. Thinks cheating is a good way to hurt someone?
4. Wants a challenge?
5. Wants the whole package of a relationship while also the thrill of dating someone new?
6. Sex addict?

Cheating because of being criticized sounds like points 1 and 3. People who don't cheat because they are criticized ultimately make a decision. Break up or work through it. What's the guilt of cheating worth anyway

[1EVDriver]

Two questions.


Q1)
Sounds like your acknowledgment of being overly critical is a start… Basically it tells him you do not value him as a person let alone a partner.


Is he cheating when he has no real value in a relationship?

Q2)
I think everyone goes through times they feel unappreciated in relationships. Worst mistake we make is not communicating mutually. Not the assumptions or, the story we told ourselves - what our partner is truly telling us.


When I feel unappreciated I open up that conversation with my wife before that feeling deepens to resentment. Something she does with me as well.


Monogamy isn’t natural to the human condition it’s a choice ultimately.

[JustAnj]

If guys can not leave a unfulfilling relationship, then they shouldn't be in a relationship, it doesn't justify cheating even if he thinks it's justified. That's extremely immature.

Relationships are tough these guy obviously need to grow up.

[Christine8]

I think it depends on the individual guy and all.
I think if it is a good guy with good morals he would not cheat but break it off if he is not happy.
If it’s a guy that lies about things and manipulates than he is likely to cheat.

[Robert123456789]

You are giving advice on cheating? You cheated on me for 9 months!

[backblueblack22]

He might cheat more or he might not be the one wearing the pants. Some men just grovel on at that continual punishment vs telling her to STFU. But the men who accept the nagging eventually more passive & whipped.

In those situations the woman is more prone to cheating. She got what she asked for (whipped husband) and she’s miserable about it. A part of her wants to be challenged and defied. She gets tempted to look elsewhere for that rush.

[t-8900]

Depends on the guy. If he's a player or has options and he's being disrespected he'll probably be out that door as fast as he walked in. I think people are getting into relationships for all the wrong reasons.

[SnakeBoop]

any man who cheats (same as women) are simply pieces of shit. trying to "excuse it" is irrelevant. not hard to talk to your partner.

[Browneye57]

Yes, of course.
Guys get with gals hoping they'll never change.
Girls get with guys thinking if they bug the shit out of them hard enough and long enough, he MIGHT turn into somebody she can stand to be with.
Yeah right... FAIL

[hahahmm]

I never cheated but if a woman becomes too difficult then other women start looking way more attractive so the odds of me dumping her go up a lot.

[Raperonzolo_Viv]

I think they don't like nagging and feel like they need a fresh air outside but any honorable man can break up rather than cheating.

[ThisAndThat]

I never cheated once, but I was cheated on. If it came to that point with criticizing etc, maybe it's time to end it. There is no reason for cheating.

[Yourfriend2021]

If it isn't working out, just break up, don't cheat. It won't get better anyways.

[fred_durst]

nope , men cheat because they are selfish and they have quality to make women attracted to him at same time

[Anonymous]

With the current state of relations between men and women I don't see any reason to be faithful at all. Fuck who you wan, when you want and don't apologize for it

[SenseiSeptred]

It can get very oppressive to say the least. However infidelity is not the answer either.

[Snakeyes7]

It depends on the guy, the way she delivers the criticism and if the criticism is even valid.

[Anonymous]

That or break up.. I would break up. who the hell want to deal shit like that.

[AngelMegumin]

Bang on the banana, my friend.

[Jakekk7634]

no one wants to date judgy b itch. just sayin XD

[Robert123456789]

Cheaters are so awful.

[Anonymous]

Especially when they criticize them about cheating