Are men who cheat worse than the person they use to cheat with?

[Anonymous]

I've been told that if a guy cheats on you but always comes back home and is otherwise loyal and supportive of you, that it's more or less just part of how men are. Also, I have known people who excuse the behavior because a man will be a man and ultimately it's the woman whom he cheats with who is the problem. Often times the woman who the guy cheats with is seen as a hoe or a side chick and less than his primary partner or wife.

I tend to feel like both the man and the woman are equally to blame assuming the woman being used to cheat wasn't mislead by the guy. But, I always hear more weight and anger be put onto the woman. Even it she did find out she was being used to cheat, I feel like the guy has more responsibility especially to his primary partner or wife.

What are some your thoughts about this?

[Finchie40]

Cheating is wrong period considering it is a selfish act from a Guy or Girl , Going back to a partner that you cheated on is just a waste of time , because the cheater is not truly in love with their partner considering something occurred for them to cheat on them , if you cheat on a partner you are best to stay with the person you cheated on or end it with your partner immediately, if the non cheater is willing to take the cheater back into their life and try to work things out then the non cheater has to make changes as well Depending on why their partner cheated on them in the first place , Most people cheat because they feel their partner doesn’t love or value them and feel that their partner is just using them and feel things are one sided , the non cheater only c’s themselves as always being right and their partner is always wrong leaving the relationship one sided , Just because you stay loyal to someone doesn’t make you a good person , If the non cheater is prioritizing everyone over their partner they are digging their own grave , for a relationship to work you both have to remove selfishness and sacrifice for each other , avoid temptations make each other your number 1 priority , accepting the fact that you can be wrong , if you can’t do that for your partner then you are best to not get into a relationship period or you will just keep continuing going down the same road with every new partner you meet and never experiencing true love. You are best to just stay single if you can’t remove selfishness, most people don’t grasp what it means to remove selfishness because we all have selfishness in us , Just because you don’t agree with something your partner believes , you compromise with them not cheat , No one is going to save you , the only way you should leave a relationship is if you are being beaten or threatened or constantly being denied love and affection , by you with holding intimacy and affection like it’s a bargaining agreement is cheating on your partner

[MystiKaL]

Who told you this rubbish? If the man cheats on a woman, he is a scumbag. Anyone excusing the man to blame the woman is just a moron. If the woman he cheats with knows the woman being cheated on, she is equally a scumbag.

The exact same rules applies if a woman cheats on a man.

[NotTacocaT6969]

The woman the man boned behind your back is not the one who made you a promise.


For this reason I always find it hilarious when women who were cheated on attack the other woman rather than the man who broke their trust.

[Guy13]

Exactly. Most men that cheat want to return to original girlfriend

[boggboss]

No the person that cheats should have most the blame not the person they cheat with as that person holds u no loyalty

[SiberFox]

If he cheats on you, he is neither loyal nor respectful of you.

[Luckycharms12]

Always going to return to his girlfriend. The cheating was just bit of fun