My boyfriend said “you’re lucky I love you”?

Question

My boyfriend helped me move things around in my room because i was struggling and he said “you’re lucky i love you” What does that supposed to mean

NicoletteXO · Accepted Answer

Why are you posting multiple times per day asking strangers what every little thing your boyfriend says means?

If you find basic statements so difficult to understand, it seems you are too immature to be in a fulfilling relationship.

These are the kinds of behaviors I would expect of a 10 year old girl - not a 25 year old woman.

MzAsh · Accepted Answer

He may have meant it jokingly. Say it back when he asks for something and see how he reacts.

DumBear · Accepted Answer

He is joking with you most likely.
He is saying you're lucky he loves you so he will help you move things around. Because he wouldn't do that for anyone else who asked for help.
He was being silly, though honestly he shouldve just offered to help since you're his girlfriend.

Ghostlock · Accepted Answer

That simply means that he would not tolerate the things he tolerates with you if he did not love you, it's okay. He is saying that you get away with a lot more from him than he would let anyone else get away with. From his perspective, it's a good thing.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

It means that he would not be helping you if he didn't love you.

Keyboardkat · Answer

I've said that to my wife in the course of joking banter, and she understands that. Don't take this too seriously and don't lose sleep over it. Although he probably shouldn't have said it unless he was 100% sure you would understand it as a joke.

Tarifa · Answer

I think it's a slightly arrogant and selfish way to put it. He may love you, but what does that have to do with the situation you describe? These are two separate things.

He might as well say 'You're lucky to have me around'. Like if he's doing you a favour by being your boyfriend.

Koppi00 · Answer

It sounds like a joke. Like he wouldn't help anyone else move in their stuff, but because it's you.. he is willing to help. So -> you're lucky I love you. It's something my family jokes with when one of us ticks off the other.
But if you didn't hear it in a cute tone... girl.. you better watch him. He may be rude.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

He's only doing that bullshit because he loves you... duh!!! It's a common expression of doing anything you'd really not like to be doing and only because you're doing it because you love the person you're doing it for.

Interstate · Answer

Some guys use this phrase as a way of saying, "I wouldn't do this for just ANYBODY. But because I love you, I will.". But it is a compliment, so have no fear.

I AM HOPING this isn't the same boyfriend who invited his ex to his party!

ohshee · Answer

It means since he said that he has to give himself a pat on the back and now he wants you to show him how much you love him by doing something for him instead of just doing it for you and leaving it alone

MrOracle · Answer

What matters is HOW he said it. If it was with a wink and a smile, it means he was kidding around. If he was serious, then it means that he felt like you were asking a lot of him, and he'd have declined your request if you weren't his girlfriend.

Starman5 · Answer

has the following meanings. I don't know for now which is the correct answer.1- You are not a very lovable girl. however i love you2- I don't like every girl. that's why you're lucky that i love you3- Not every man can give you what I can give you. so you are lucky.

hahahmm · Answer

It means he's only helping you because he loves you. Sometimes my wife wants something I think is ridiculous and I say something like, you're lucky you're so cute. Same thing really.

Screenwriter · Answer

He's digging for a compliment! Sure, you're right! If it wasn't for you, I'd never have gotten this done! You're the greatest!!! Just flatter him. For some reason, sounds like he needs it...

Azura_88 · Answer

He is saying he's superior to you and you're just an ordinary woman who just got lucky.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

That means that it was a pain in the ass to do it. He's basically indirectly saying you're worth the pain in the ass

lonestar_01 · Answer

He probably said it as a joke. That usually means, wouldn't usually move all of this stuff around but I love you so it's okay. Stop overthinking

TangBang69 · Answer

Dryly humorously it was saying you're lucky he loves you or he likely would not otherwise help you move your room around.

Starrisunset · Answer

He was jokingly saying it because he helped you do something and he loves you. Meaning he helped you because he loves you.

cloudspy · Answer

Why don't you know what this means? Why didn't you ask him what he meant? Is English not your first language?

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Probably because he thought it was tedious, boring or something, and only helped you because he loves you.

YollyM · Answer

It means that moving things around was tiring as hell but because he loves you, he'd rather take the load of your shoulders instead of watching you suffer. It's not that deep🙄😂

Anon621 · Answer

I agree with what other guys are saying. He's basically saying he wouldn't help if he didn't love you

MotorcycleMan · Answer

I'm sure it was said in jest, but he is referring to the fact that you just got a lot of labor out of him for free.

spartan55 · Answer

The same boyfriend who invited his ex to his birthday?

Slartybartfast · Answer

He probably hates moving things but did it anyway just for you, but would not for someone he felt less about.

Lillie_xo · Answer

I think it was just being a bit playful but  what would i know ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

exitseven · Answer

Just sounds like a cute way of saying that you are a pain in the ass sometimes but totally worth it.

Iron_Man · Answer

That means he's very lazy if he didn't love you he wouldn't be helping you out which raises a red flag because he probably won't do much in the future to help you

serious · Answer

That is just an overconfident sentence. Shows some arrogance in his attitude as well.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I think it's just a sarcastic meaning and other words, oh well be lucky I love you in other words he wouldn't have done that if he didn't love you

slatyb · Answer

That was an asshole comment. He's lucky you put up with his bullshit.

shade_19 · Answer

I'd say you should make a story of urself on reddit on subreddit bout relationship  From start of friendship to date to this part

Browneye57 · Answer

You should appreciate him more. If you don't, cut him loose and find one you can.

Waldoe · Answer

it means that if you and he were not in a relationship, he would not have been willing to Help you... he was "fishing" for a compliment or at least a "Thank you kiss"

rcljr · Answer

The same thing it meant when you had a flat tire, you need to go to a different line of questioning

JosyJosy · Answer

Maybe he said it after you did something annoying or silly? and he joked?

Shamalien · Answer

Try to judge people by their actions rather than their words. He is helping you move because he loves you. There. Simple.

EssenceOfLight · Answer

add "else" on the end of his comment and think what could happen if you aren't so lucky in moments where he gets bad mood.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

That means if he didn't love you he would've let you move all that shit by yourself

Anonymous · Answer

It means you better stay in line if you want to continue to be in his good graces.

zagor · Answer

He was just bitching about being drafted to move stuff.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

He thinks you are an annoying, insufferable cunt. But he likes fucking you.

msc545 · Answer

Maybe he thinks you are not sufficiently appreciative?

Nazgol · Answer

I would be offended, unless it's a joke  It's offensive

Anonymous · Answer

It sounds worse than it is. I promise you. It's a playful thing you say when you just did something you didn't wanna do for someone you love. It also means they would do anything for you. So you can relax. He loves you.

krin_m · Answer

Depends on the context. As a joke it probably is OK. If he is serious, he is full of himself.

Anonymous · Answer

oh i say that to mine once in a while when i let them get their way about something i generally don't want to do

JBlade · Answer

It means he wouldn't help or do it otherwise.

electromagnetic · Answer

You ain’t shit without his love. Goodluck.

Blackcupcake · Answer

He’s basically complaining.

DCooper · Answer

Aww that's so sweet !

NathanDavis · Answer

This is not what luck or love means...

VIVANT · Answer

Was he joking or serious? Important. Very.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

He doesn't love you. WTF

karaspara · Answer

It's just a figure of speech

Massageman · Answer

His help is only offered to those he "loves".

888theGreat · Answer

Means hire Uhaul next tiime

TacosRAwesome · Answer

That he's a little bitch.

red324 · Answer

He's just being a smart ass.

Clarke498 · Answer

That you're helpless/useless

G5TWA1 · Answer

he wouldn't do that if he didn't love you

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