Please help what shall I do? Am I right or being just dramatic?

[Anonymous]

On our third date, i brought my roommate to hung out with me and my boyfriend. We had such good times toghther and they exchanged their facebooks and instagram accounts. it became some sort of habit that she hangs out with us and it doesn't bother me at all we express our feelings infront of her and i thought it was totally fine. But when we went back home she said y all just started dating don't you think like you both are exagerating i felt ashamed so stopped expressing infront of her and we started go out on dates the way we used to (without her) . But my boyfriend sometimes texts her to join us and he says that she is really friendly. And things went even far , he started sharing his life details with her and i was always the last to know about em.. he is not the cheating type and she always let me know about everything my boyfriend tells her and even showed me their conversation.. The fact that she became closer to my boyfriend more than me hurts as f**k and i can't complain about it otherwise i would look weird. Please i really need your advices

[oksaysme]

That seems pretty sketchy on your boyfriends part. It’s good that she is ok sharing with you, but she also could be sharing now to gain trust and then keep things from you later. I think this could very easily lead to feelings for either of them. If it were me, I would have a problem with it. If she is the one who seems to be more open, I’d bring it up with her first. Then I’d bring it up with him in case she tells him so he doesn’t think you are getting all paranoid/jealous behind his back. Just be honest and say you’d like to be more included in things, that he can trust you, and that you aren’t sure how you feel about him telling your friend/roommate everything first.

[Iron_Man]

how old are you exactly? Most kids under 18 don’t have roommates They live at home with parents

[Asker]

i am 21 actually

[Iron_Man]

Oh ok

[Asker]

So any advice for me please?

[Iron_Man]

I’m getting ready to have some food now and watch a movie tag me later and we’ll go over it

[Asker]

@iron_man

[Iron_Man]

Hi……

[Iron_Man]

I think it was probably a huge mistake you introducing your roommate to the boyfriend

[Iron_Man]

Is she pretty

[Asker]

She is not that much pretty but she is a bit slim and i am quiet chubby

[Iron_Man]

I’m not really liking the situation here Be careful

[Asker]

If you were in my place how would you

[Asker]

How would you act* and thanks in advance i asked you a lot already hehe

[Iron_Man]

I would leave the girl were you found her and not bring her along anymore on your dates

[Iron_Man]

That’s fine that’s what I’m here for

[Iron_Man]

And thanks for the most helpful award

[Avicenna]

You know her. Is there anything to worry about?

[Asker]

The fact that my boyfriend hides things on me and tell her about and me always the last to know about em and who knows maybe i never knew. i am afraid that if i would do any react i ll end up messing it up

[jeffryrobertbabb]

Introducing them was a bit silly.

[Asker]

I didn't know things would go in that way.. i am really confused.. what would you do if you were me like to fix things up and i don't wanna look like i am jealous or desperate or comparing myself with her

[888theGreat]

what is the real question?

[Asker]

i just need to know what shall i do about it