Am I being dramatic?

[Anonymous]

It’s my 21 b day tomorrow and I have been literally talking about it for three months now, being one of those annoying people who count it down every day haha. Anyway today I got off work after working three doubles in a row absolutely wrecked but my boyfriend wanted us to go to the gym together. I initially said not but changed my mind last minute bc I knew I wanted to and I didn’t just want to lay around the rest of the day. Anyways we get to the gym and we beach off and do our own stuff, me occasionally checking on him ( 2 times) we go to refill our bottles and he randomly looks at me and says « you are the dullest person here right now » me because apparently me being super worn out but still trying to push through doing legs looked like I was being a drag even tho we weren’t even working out together 😐 being absolutely crushed I go sit in my car and cry while he finishes his workout. After we got home he first tried to defend himself but after I got out of the shower and he saw me crying lol he apologized. I really let it get to me tbh and let it kinda ruin my night. So while he was playing a game around 8 with his brother I texted him and said I wanted him to come lay down with me before it got too late so we could watch a movie and go wake me up if I was asleep because I was absolutely wrecked from work but still wanted to spend time with him and I also wanted him to stay up with me til 12 like a little kid I guess. Anyways he comes in around 10:30 and just lays in bed complaining how he is so tired from work and doesn’t say a single thing after that. I asked him if was upset and he replied « yeah I’m kinda annoyed you keep acting like "play with me talk with me" then tried to say he loved me and falls asleep. I guess I just wanted to know if this is even worth being upset about or I’m being a little (big now) kid hehe

Silly not worth being upset

Yeah I would be livid as well

Meh would bother me a tad bit

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh sis, no way are you being dramatic here! He was totally being a jerk to you.

First he insults you at the gym when you're obviously exhausted from working so hard. Rude much? Then he barely puts in any effort when you wanted to spend time together on the eve of your birthday! Boys acting like that don't deserve your tears.

You worked so hard and still made time for him, the least he could do is appreciate you. And falling asleep without a cuddle or convo is just lazy. I'd be annoyed too if I were you, queen!

My advice? Don't even give him the time of day on your special day tomorrow. Let him know his actions have consequences. You deserve someone who treats your feelings - and you - with respect. If he can't step up, drop his lame ass to the curb, sis! You're gonna have a blast no matter what without that drag. Happy almost birthday!! 🎉

[molonski2]

In my opinion you are being massively dramatic about nothings , its like the actions of a child , grow up , you are about to be a fully fledged adult , time to act like one , instead of playing games.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Who doesn't get a bit ratty when they're tired?

Anyway.. Happy 21st for tomorrow and I'm sure once you've both had sleep, you'll have a great time.. You've got no reason to worry..!

[Massageman]

I suppose I could mention that endorphins kick in after about 20 minutes on a treadmill, but you must have been way past that point after those doubles. He should recognize that. Maybe it's time to move on?>?