Am I being dramatic here?

[Anonymous]

The guy I’m dating been seeing for 3 months he is out with his friends and opened my message 1 hoir ago and hasn’t replied yet and posted them watching the football and drinks and food and I’m really upset? Is this dramatic here? I think I have a problem. I always ask him for reassurance everyday and every second and he always reassures me and stuff but why open it if you can’t reply yet.

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I constantly need attention and it’s worrying

[Labokachulaa]

Well, how would you feel if it were the other way around? If you were ALWAYS reassuring him, would you feel like you need a break from him?

Sometimes we don't realize how overwhelmed other people may become around us because we're too focused on ourselves and what we're feeling. I'm not telling you this to be rude, I'm telling you because that used to be me.

He may need some space to have a mental break, and maybe his way of reassuring you was by posting that picture? So that you know where he is and that he's with the people he said that he was going to be with?

[TheSpaceGnome]

You do have a problem, but its not your need for attention, its your choice to date a guy who doesn't have the same hobbies as you.

It won't work out.

[Asker]

Yes you see he’s always out drinking with his friends and he dosent message me when he’s out and it just affects me but then again I don’t know if I’m too harsh since we aren’t official and he has a life too

[TheSpaceGnome]

There is no point ranting about it, if you had anything in common, he'd be with you, whether with his friends or not.

You have to be like him and his friends to be compatible with him, but you're not, so just breakup.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Ignore the other guys commenting on here, couples that have stuff in common are together for almost all of their free time.

[Asker]

I am like him and his friends that’s the h thing we really get along. But he ALWAYS goes out with them and drinks. He’s really close to my cousin so they always go out together too so it just makes me feel a bit sad lol

[TheSpaceGnome]

If you get along, why are you not going with him and his friends?

[slatyb]

You have a problem. You are extremely needy. He was busy doing something without you. What was so important that you had to text him?

[Asker]

I didn’t text him I haven’t said a word lol but it’s the fact that I feel this way anyway

[FilmGuy93]

That's pretty dramatic and unreasonable, yeah. You should probably take some time to do serious introspection and understand why you behave this way.