We’ve been talking for a year now and still no commitment?

[Anonymous]

It’s long distance we talk everyday FaceTime everyday we fly out to see each other every couple months he even said he loves me and want to be in a committed relationship but we are not I don't know what to do my heart hurts because I want more out of this. I just don’t understand how you can say all these things but not want to move forward I need advice ASAP tired of cryin

[cryscrys1]

Is there any way you can be next to him?
If yes and he kinda doesn’t want you too then I’m sorry but he isn’t real or wanting a real relationship !!
I’m sorry baby don’t cry you seem young early 20s!!! How about you look into your area and find a guy who’s closest to you.

[Asker]

I’m 24 and sometimes I do offer to fly out more than him but he says it’s not a good time bc he’s busy

[Anonymous]

Have you talked to him about him? You can ask him “where do you see this going?”. I was also facing the same situation (minus the long distance) but it turns out that the guy I’m seeing was waiting for me to initiate the conversation lol he thought I was the one who wasn’t ready to commit so maybe you should talk to him about what you want ☺️

[Asker]

I did and he just s
Says he’s serious about me but he still acts single

[Opinion Owner]

Serious as in he wants commitment? Well he better come through and act like it, if not then just don’t waste your time and money on him anymore

[Dragonstarterplus]

Ok but have you actually told him you want to be exclusive?

[Asker]

Yes I used those exact words

[Dragonstarterplus]

And he said no?

[Asker]

He said he’s being serious and trying

[Asker]

What ever that means

[Asker]

This man is 27 by the way

[Dragonstarterplus]

"Trying" to be exclusive doesn't make any sense

[SamFromFL]

Because it’s LDR