I'm watching this show about two couples who each have an affair, it isn't your usual sappy romantic drama but it actually has a lot of emotion and reason in it and it really made me think, if having an affair can be justifiable. Obviously, I'm not married so I wouldn't know on a level like that.

I mean there's always a reason. Is it always valid? No. In some cases might be.

There is never a reason or justification to cheat. Ever. Those that do try to justify it, are narcissists, incapable of loving anyone but them selves.

no. "affair" is just the word woman use instead of cheating. cause it makes them feel better about being cheaters somehow xD

I have been lonley for so many years. My body count is embarrassingly low. I am willing to have an affair to make up for that lost time and fill my life with what should have been.

Yes, you’re a horrible person that wants to break your partners heart instead of trying to find a wayy to improve your relationship ; )

The show is just entertainment. Do not look for life philosophy in there. No, not justified. Break up and quit wasting your/their time.

They think they won’t get caught. Or like Financial/domestic needs met but their physical needs met else where. Or in other words their cake eaters.

Not really, if you aren't into them anymore just end it

It's never a good idea to make decisions in real life based on what you saw in a movie

No, I can think of plenty of reasons but none of them is valid.

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I mean there's always a reason. Is it always valid? No. In some cases might be.

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There is never a reason or justification to cheat. Ever. Those that do try to justify it, are narcissists, incapable of loving anyone but them selves.

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no. "affair" is just the word woman use instead of cheating. cause it makes them feel better about being cheaters somehow xD

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I have been lonley for so many years. My body count is embarrassingly low. I am willing to have an affair to make up for that lost time and fill my life with what should have been.

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Yes, you’re a horrible person that wants to break your partners heart instead of trying to find a wayy to improve your relationship ; )

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The show is just entertainment. Do not look for life philosophy in there. No, not justified. Break up and quit wasting your/their time.

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They think they won’t get caught. Or like Financial/domestic needs met but their physical needs met else where. Or in other words their cake eaters.

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Not really, if you aren't into them anymore just end it

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It's never a good idea to make decisions in real life based on what you saw in a movie

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No, I can think of plenty of reasons but none of them is valid.

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If you refuse sex to your husband you are, by default, giving him permission to seek sex elsewhere.

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No, because if your SO approved it wouldn't be an affair

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Nope not to me and anyone that say it is is just making excuses to have one

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Yes when your wife has a baby and won't have sex anymore, you have a right to have an affair to get sex.

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Sure. If one of them isn't doing their job in the sack. Gotta get it someplace.

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There's always a valid reason. Some people think their partner's needs don't matter

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I dont know what to say profile picture iş it u un believable amazing beautiful

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Nope, my ex withheld sex for a year, I stayes with her.

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No. Maybe sexting with strangers is acceptable.

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- suisuiola
  
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  That still is cheating in many peoples eyes.
  
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My wife had an affair and then I explained why and I guess I understood

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Divorce, don't go for an affair.

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Nah learned that one the hard way😭

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No, it is never okay.

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Get divorced first. No exceptions.

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Divorce was created for a reason

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Definitely no!! Never

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karaspara Follow
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Personally no if your that unhappy leave not cheat

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No, it's worst idea. It destroys people.

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What we talking about is a 'harm' to a soul.

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If she cheats get divorced

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  That is totally ideal, of course as a man you may end up with alimony an child support due to your cheating ex. I suspect this is why so many men end up staying and cheating.
  
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No, but people are just naked apes.

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depends; validity is a situational perception.

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I'm sure there is but don't think it is right

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If the guy had a small cock

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its a no from me

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no. nononononnononooo

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NO. THERE ISN'T.

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No.. Break up

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- Clarke498
  
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  Still better to seek help with getting seperated then look for another
  
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Nope

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No never.

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Nope.

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No, I sure don't.

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Nope

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Never.

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So stupid

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No valid reason

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No I don't.

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nope

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None

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No...

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Yes, we're human

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Never

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No i dont want to

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Nope

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