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How on earth do golddiggers still land a man? (Page 2)
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Simple. They know how to make themselves desirable and desperation is easy to spot.
A person's mind goes to shit as they get older, so eventually a man forgets that women only want his money.
It happens because of very, very insecure guys. The first thing they do when they get a woman younger than them is show her off to everyone.
Hot body, beautiful face and great enthusiastic sex from a woman who "is" in love with you is hard to come by and even harder to resist 😗
its only hard to come by if you're not hot.
It's hard to come by because it's like 0.1% of the female population 😗
And for some reason i don't think you qualify
Hot guys get laid really really easily. It’s only hard to get laid if you’re not hot.
But what is The point of dating a man who will only dump you at 40 for an 18 yr old girl?
@Ayanna240 yeah sounds like a trash man
I think you are missing the point. There aren't many hot women with attractive personalities.
So guys really jump on those opportunities, even if the dangers of a possible gold digger is high.
Nothing to do about the ease of getting laid. A lot of not so hot looking men have hot wives, money, confidence, charm etc are worth a ton too.
You seem to want to turn it personal? Or it seems this way anyway, even to that Tiki user.
I get approached by women almost everytime i go out, i'm fit, groomed, well off and interesting. I'm in a relationship so i obviously try to turn them down politely. So i have no problem in that regard, while you two just hide behind anonymity.
Who said to dump their partner at a certain age?
My girlfriend of 10 years is almost 37 now, hasn't crossed my mind.
Maybe you are just bitter with your own life 🤔
@k-i-s-s
From my experience, men who say things such as “I only date women who look 9/10” tend to be the guys who will start cheating on their wives once they lose their looks. It’s kinda like a woman saying “I don’t date guys that aren’t rich”. What makes you think she will stay with you once you lose your wealth?
Sure everyone wants a good looking partner but we don’t set it as a strict requirement.
Hot girls are not hard to come by. I’ve met quite a few over the years. It’s just that if you’re not a hot guy , you’re not gonna be attracting masses of women. Trust me, hot girls hit on hot guys too. I’ve seen it
@k-i-s-s
I think you’re over valuing yourself. Only guys who don’t get hit on , tend to say that hot girls with attractive personalities tend to be hard to come by. I’ve known many hot guys throughout my life and trust me, they DO get hit on by girls.
@k-i-s-s
Hot girls are definitely not hard to come by and many of these hot girls in fact don’t even have bad personalities. They are just the same people like you and me. The stereotype that hot girls have bad personalities is just a fake way for less attractive people to feel better about themselves
A lot of guys who have average women cheat, and so do women. Shitty people are just shitty.
As a guy, who dates women (actually lives it) and somebody who knows a lot of guys who date women. And especialy if you think of it logically, there aren't many women who look hot (face and body) and among them with a great personality.
Same way as there isn't a lot of hot men with good personalities.
Obviously hot people hit on other hot people too, kind of obvious.
Dude i don't think i'm all that while i'm no 💩 either. Just last week i got approached by two 8s, one at a gas station with her friend, other one in the electronic shop. Something seems to work.
So your "Only guys who don't get hit on" line doesn't really hold water. Yes there are bitter people on both sides.
Attractive people tend to have personality issues because they are more used to getting what they want, live life on an easy mode for most of the time.
Obviously not all, but a great number. Stereotyping also happens for a reason. Also the hot crazy scale is suprisingly accurate 🤔
Most attractive people with great personalities don't stay single for a long time, thus limiting the access even more. While more average or hot with shitty personality people roam i large numbers.
Nothing wrong with a more average looking woman either. My current girlfriend is about a 6, or a 7 with a glowup. But she has one of the best personalities. My ex was a 9, a model, but a bit off personality so i ended it.
Don't make sound like guys only care about looks. Yes we are visual, we like cute/hot women more, but we do value other traits too.
@k-i-s-s
And what makes this entire thing more funny is , you claim you are madly in love with your girlfriend of 10 years but yet you come on here and claim that “it’s so hard to come by a beautiful woman with a great personality”. Shouldn’t your girlfriend already be incredibly beautiful to you?
What kind of man who is madly in love wouldn't think that his own girlfriend is beautiful with an amazing personality?
Anyways you don’t sound like a very devoted boyfriend. You sound like you still have your eyes roaming around for hot girls with attractive personalities. A man who is dedicated won’t care about looking for hot girls with great personalities
@k-i-s-s
What you don’t understand is that hot people are just like you and me. There are hot people with shitty personalities while there are ugly people with shitty personalities. Just because you’re hot , it doesn’t mean you have a shitty personality.
From my experience, I’ve met my fair share of hot folks with average or even Very nice personalities.
But of course if you’re a below average looking dude , trying to go for a hot girl , of course she will seem standoffish or not pay any attention to you. But it really doesn’t mean she has a bad personality. She’s just not attracted to you or just knows she can do better.
You may be living in a fantasy world if you think that your spouse should be perfect in every way or that somehow you should fool yourself into believing that they are.
Everybody has flaws along with great qualities. I love my girlfriend as she is and she loves me as i am. We both have eyes that work, but we chose and love each other.
We are not looking for hot women or men.
The question was why guys still fall for gold diggers? And i gave a general answer as to why, you seem to want to make it more personal.
You are still young, try a long term relationship first. Grow a little, experience life.
You seem to have this abundance of great candidates mindset, it's flawed.
Regardless who is looking for them. There are less hot people. And most of them aren't with a decent personality.
Hence harder to find, in general, again regardless who is looking. Now if you take into account relationship status, the numbers drop even more (and it's especially for hot people).
Location and age can also be very limiting. More single people at around 18 and also boxed together on a small area, make it seem more plentiful. But not everybody wants somebody immature, most young people are. While 25 plus men/women are more taken, more busy working thus harder to spot and approach.
You are like the only person who thinks that more or same amount of hot people than average people, because it's wrong and so easy to see.
Go outside for a change, even travel a bit and count how many hot men you see and let straight men count how many hot women they see. Then check their relationship status and for great personality.
Then you would finally see your error.
@k-i-s-s
I've worked with multiple "hot" people at work and studied with many "hot" people at school. Trust me, they are not the bad people that people stereotype them to be. Now it also depends on where you meet them. If you're only meeting hot peolpe at the night clubs, strip clubs or bars. Then yes, those predominatly will be assholes. Actually decent people do not tend ot visit bars, or clubs. You're better off finding someone attractive and decent at work or school or even at your local starbucks.
I worked with an incredibly beautiufl lady at a cafe when I was in college. She made minimum wage and was struggling to get by. She was single and rarely ever had guys approaching her. She was a good person just like you or me. Never gave an attitude to her supervisor or fellow coworkers when things got difficult on the job. She split the tips equally amongst us even though there weren't that many tips. We joked around whenever there was down time and got along really well. she's just an honest person like you or me.
There was also a professor that I had who was incredibly handsome. He had girls hitting on him left and right. But honestly, he's the sweetest, most romantic guy ever. He knew I had a huge crush on him and every time I look at him, he would blush so endearingly and sweetly. He had a soft spot for me. Many people paint hot folks as some super arrogant entitled prick , which some of them can be, but there are also A LOT of them that are not like that.
There was another really hot girl at my internship. Even though she can get guys to do absolutely anything for her. She was still a hard worker, super ambitious, loved to learn, never ever gave a bad attitude to anyone, was never snobby to other girls just because she was the prettiest one in the room, she even complimented me on how cute I was.
@k-i-s-s
And even after I graduated from college, there was a great beauty who worked at my job. Trust me, she got along with the other plain average looking girls extremely well. She didn't seem standoffish , or snobby or arrogant at all. She even smiled and said hi to me.
Quit the stereotypes. Just because a great beauty ignored you when you hit on her , it doesn't mean she has a bad personality. Maybe its just because you didn't measure up so now you're calling her a snob
@k-i-s-s
At my current job, there's a really really handsome guy who always smiles and greets me as he walks into work daily. Once he even offered me a cup of coffee if I wanted one.
Attractive people are just like you and me. Its so sad that people always have all these negative assumptions about them. Not all of them are like that.
Men are nest builders. They bust. Ass to make money. Their wives sometimes move into the nest and don’t put out. The men happily Iole another nest for a gold digger who puts out
Id rather have a pretty young girl who fucks my brains out over some old chunky chick who schedules sex once a week. Most men would agree. Only rich men have the option 🤣
not all rich men have beautiful wives
@Ayanna240 and?
Not every man is a perverted sex digger like you who dump their wives by the time they turn 40
@Ayanna240 yeah he sounds disgusting. Like all a woman is good for is sex
the used simple bodies of these ordinary golddiggers make them good money. and there is never a man on earth who would say no to these perfectly used bodies. You can conquer a man with a simple woman body.
And by the way, the man who believes, trusts and falls in love with such dirty women deserves all the trouble that can happen to him.
And the woman who believes, trusts and falls in love with an asshole guy who cheats, abuses and dumps her with a kid, deserves all the trouble that can happen to her?
Easy to blame victims in everything.
Most gold diggers are actually "regular" looking women. Get married, have a kid and divorce, get 50% and child support and move on. They retire after 2 or 3 rotations, or about 10 years.
I will not advocate for women at right now. If you men do not show interest in such simple women, these simple women will not dare to hunt for money again.
They never do land a (man). Those guys are just males.
The reason I call it landing is because some of those golddiggers have gotten the man to even marry and have kids. If that's not landing a man then I don't know what to call it.
Maybe , just maybe not everyone who recites your discription of a golf digger is actually a gold digger. Then again never met a woman in my life time that would pass up an opportunity as that if they could.
@Danielle93
some men do not mind marrying gold diggers. Just look at donald trump. Their marriage is dry and fake
Aynna240. How do you know?
@Djaay
because i have lived and experienced and seen many of these gold digger marriages. The man with money usually KNOWS if a woman is a gold digger. Trust me, he KNOWS especaily if they have dated for a while prior to marriage.
These men pick gold digger wives that are SIGNIFICANTLY YOUNGER and usually above average ATTRACTIVENESS. Now why would a 50 yr old man be married to a 25-30 yr old woman? Its quite abnormal in contrast to the rest of society.
have you ever seen a rich man marry a gold digger that was a plain jane or less attractive? NO! if you would buy a wife, would you buy one that is attractive or less attractive? Love clearly is not a factor in this. Looks are a factor.
Ayanna240... You have NO idea what your preaching. This factor your mentioning is only your own factor.
Danielle93 Gold diggers and the suckers that allow this correlation to happen are one in the same as it always takes two. Same with who cheats the most... where there's one , there's two at the same time together cheating on two others usually. Goldiggers aren't any different regardless of they're excuse. It take two to agree upon the arrangement together. Unfortunately tho women have damaged quite enormously the attraction and committal prosses of relationships between the two. And now complain about how to acquire a commitment from a man addressing themselfs as good women. Actually permissing and gavelanting the idea that goldigging might be they're only route to being invited at all. One will always live according to the standards they themselfs set for others.
@Djaay
I KNOW that it takes two to tango. What makes you think I don’t know that? From my experience, if the man loved the gold digger , he wouldn’t marry a woman who doesn’t love him back. In all gold digger Marriages , both spouses do not truly love each other. It’s nothing just a financial arraignments for narcissistic gain
@Djaay
Do you really think I know that little about gold digger marriages?
I'm very sure u know all about gold diggin. But you've failed to convince me otherwise that your appropriations concerning love and relations between two interested people will be only as you profess. ike you said ; A man with money usually knows if a women is a gold digger.
@Djaay
I have not failed to explain anything to you. You have not proven that I don’t know anything either.
Your right , I mentioned that already. The first sentence. And by the way , prove what exactly? I don't have the burden of proving , you commented on my post. Im disinterested in your demeaned.
@Djaay
you can't just accuse me of not knowing anything about gold digger marriages if you can't prove it. you don't just around pointing fingers and name calling people for no reason. It means nothing without proof.
I said I'm sure you know all about gold digging. What part don't u understand? I really don't believe you represent those women who have kindness in they're hearts. The proof is in your characterized mentions back at me. Like I said earlier , you haven't convinced me yet.
@Djaay
you sound offended by something. why so angry? i don't have to prove anything to you. one thing that you need prove to me is why would you say i don't know anything about gold digger marriages.
Ayanna240...
Fuck off
@Djaay. There’s nothing more sexually Predatorial than a 60 yr old man being married to someone around his granddaughters age.
Ok... talk with her about that.
@Djaay
its sad how young girls have no options but to be forced to be married to sexual predators, just to survive.
Nobody being forced... fuck is your problem?
haha when you can't find a decent job to support yourself, no education, what are you gonna do to survive?
the only jobs for women in your country is prostitution, which still can't pay the bills.
What are you ranting about?
Neither one of us need to work... even tho we do.
i know u from a previous conversation long time ago
And?
you're a sexual predator.
Fuck you... No I'm not.
Some guys just don’t care. They know they’re being used. Still their is something in them that think they can change.
I don't think it's "gullible man still falls for it" as it's so COMMON a lot just ACCEPT it. Which is sad. But is the case with a lot of things.
Most gold diggers are good looking and good talkers
Cause obviously there's obviously customers for the service they're offering.
I don't know im not sure if i understand people much my self anymore
Probably because they make it easy for men and go after them instead of waiting for men yo do everything
Desperate and old or lacks common sense and thinks a pretty woman should have everything while she pretends to like him but never really cares
I honestly think at this point people have way too much money. I mean it's pretty much as bad as burning money
My ex is one, spent everything, ran up all the CC then cheated on me and filed for divorce. Nobody knew, not even our church.
Wow, I'm sorry
I knee her for 16 years before marrying her. Her spending habits, control issues and her extreme narcissism came out after. She ended costing me over $100,000 in property and cash. Al the while claiming innocence.
Wow! I am sorry about that.
Ofcourse you are confident and never thought she cheat on you after that 16 years being girlfriend. That's awesome long years.
Manipulation from their side and desperation from the man's side.
Men, like women, are stupid and not honest about what they want.
Cause some guys beleive that giving gifts is a form of love and it is but still yikes
They look good and they are willing to have easy sex.
Becouse golddigers are preaty lovers of money and other side like preaty womens and thats it
As long as there are men in need of sex there will be someone looking to take advantage of it.
They're usually very attractive and make guys think they want instead of their money
My friend told me that men like to show off their money to a woman so they spend it
I guess money is shit and they will enjoy spend on girls who is stupid making her even more stupid
there are still a lot of whor... I mean suggar babies out there
men are dumb and they would rather buy women then put the effort in
How do they do it? Without a gag reflex honey.
Because some men are desperate as fuck
because the men do not want to date
they know their role and the women knows their role
The simpocalypse is real
The same way abusive men get partners.
Because men still fall for it 😂
They're usually hot with nice bodies and big tits.
Aw! Ha ha ha
They're trying to attract men not women
They do what prostitutes do, Offer sex for money.
There are a lot of dumb dudes out there.
There really are
@TikiTook Thank you.
Do you fascinated about you being one?
Nope. I'm actually disappointed that some of us can't get a man to commit (by being down-to-earth, having our own jobs, our own house, etc) and form a family but those golddiggers get it easier than us at a faster time. It doesn't take the man 4-5 or forever to propose.
I'm all for fairness and equality (I always hated the idea of relying on someone's hard work) but certain days I'm wonder if maybe being a golddigger is the way. My frustration is kind of similar to the decent guy that sees all he jerks getting the girls. Anyone would get disappointed.
Men off late have grasped with their experience and evolution that once you’ve money you can get babes like that who dismissed you at some point. With that in mind hun the guy grows up believing all girls are same hence get rid of commitment coz when he went to it was refused.
But those users get them, that's the issue. Those guys would rather waste their money on users and even propose to them than on a real girlfriend. Those users get out of the ''forever live-in girlfriend'' status faster.
What’s the solution?
@Danielle93 I’m right there with you. They just want the young bouncy fun chick it seems
They means all?
A lot of men with money and insecurities that try to gain confidence and self acceptance through women and money, yes. It’s all for validation that they didn’t receive in their earlier years and now they’re mentally deprived and keep trying to find a fix for their emptiness inside.
They as in men of low value, not high value men.
Money can’t replace value.
You’ve Spent a lot of times with these types i guess
How can women be a benchmark or money 💰 for that matter to decide low and high value? They are themselves limited by their virtue.
Kinda.. I had something with a man this last year who ended up being like this. He became a lawyer and suddenly just wanted to find young hot girls to screw around with and not something real. (He’s 30, went after 20 year olds). I could be angry at him but instead it’s just sad because I know that well inside him will never be filled, and I feel lucky to not have to play part anymore.
What about the hole that he made inside you? Did he?
When I say low value men I mean men who believe that women, sex , money is what gives them value.
Men of high value don’t see this as adding value to their self. I don’t mean they don’t want a nice job and a woman who they can have sex with often. I mean they don’t attach it to their worth as a person.
Can’t them be called as different kind of a man rather assigned values to judge?
Lol no, in terms of what they have to offer me, it’s low value. So to me, they’re low value men. In other areas I’m sure they’re of high value (like spending money).
And I don’t have a hole inside me. I am complete.
God bless you
They're really hot and good at sex
That makes me think that being a hard-working woman, having her own house and car, believing in equality and fairness gets no where I guess. Those men that marry golddiggers propose at a quicker pace versus a man taking forever to propose to a normal girlfriend.
@Danielle93
do you realize that men who marry gold diggers, do not tend to be decent men? who would want to marry someone just for her looks and not for love?
@Ayanna240 people that don't view relationships as anything but a buisness arrangement
@Twalli
Rich men marry Gold diggers so they can have Something to show off. It makes their social image better.
Gold diggers obviously marry to live a specific lifestyle. Frequently these couples have very specific financial arrangements such as if they divorce, how much $ is the gold digger wife gonna get Out of it?
Melania trump just re negotiated her pre nup deal with Donald when he got elected for presidency , because now he’s in the public spot light and he needs her more to look good in front of millions of people.
On many occasions , you can see friction between Donald Ans melania in front of the camera. It sure wasn’t an intimate loving marriage. There was never any real affection between those two , and If there was Affection , it looked rather forced
@Ayanna240 point is, the marriages with gold diggers aren't for love. A wife being arm candy is a buisness arrangemeny.
@Twalli
And usually the people who chose these marriages are not decent people with the right priorities.
@Twalli
Men who only date and marry women 20 years younger are called sex diggers. Women who only date rich men are called gold diggers
Both are made of the same material
All girls are prospectors
Because men are stupid
They have hot bodies.
Because some men are stupid. Just that.
They are really freaky in bed
the men don't want more than sex.
Then how did a couple of them got a man that went all the way to marrying them and having kids? In those cases, that those guys wanted more than sex.
Desperate?
They know how to work it and fake it.
Hy James How Are You
@JuliaMoss Oh, I'm well like always.
That is the question of the day.
She wants money he wants sex 😏
it's men's naievity and uncontrolled sex drive
Probably their easy and agree.
depends on the man lonelyness
because they look good.
Cause they target weak men
Coz men are desperate too
It’s crazy
Yes indeed it's crazy. My mind start going in circles whenever I wonder how they got a man to go all the way through marriage with them.
In a couple horrible cases, a few golddigging wives even contracted a hitman to have the husband killed so she can get all the money. It makes me wonder how did the poor man missed red flags.
That’s awful
Usually daddy issues