Main reason is cuz they are selfish and only really care about themselves and they don’t really know the true meaning of marriage and commitment , so if she chooses to walk away let her go , Love can not be forced it can only be guided , She might have her reasons as to why she fell out of love with you that she is afraid to admit and yes it’s wrong cuz it’s a selfish move on her part cuz she is only really thinking of herself , instead of communicating with her partner the reasons she isn't happy and try fixing it instead of blaming him for her actions but whatever the reason , you can’t stop her , if someone is going To cheat they are going to cheat, Guys do the same shit to their wives , Why it’s best to value yourself worth and realize that you are a beautiful person , never blame yourself for someone else’s actions , A cheaters actions are selfish actions , Love only grows when 2 people remove selfishness for each other and accept each other’s flaws , and commit to each other a cheater will blame their partner for their actions and whatever the reason is just agree with it , because their day will come when a big load of shit is dropped on their face , Girl’s that cheat will realize her new man just wanted to fuck her and doesn’t love her what so ever , A guy will not be in Love with a girl that cheats on her husband or boyfriend but he has no problem fucking her brains out and getting off on her and telling her what she wants to hear to get that pussy and then eventually toss her to the side when a new girl comes in the picture that isn’t labeled a cheater Girl’s are dumb as shit when it comes to that, Saying oh No he loves me , He says the sweetest things , all Bullshit things , When a guy cheats on his partner , he is more than likely making his move to be with that new girl , a guy will cheat when he doesn’t feel loved or valued or wanted by his wife , when sex dies down he will start having a wandering eye when she is constantly nagging and bitching at him for not being a man in her eyes , When a girl cheats she is attracted to a guys status, she feels her husband is a piece of shit and not a real man , she will spread her legs to a guy that she feels she can look up to and that others look up to, as well she loves his status, the money he makes the car he drives , the clothes he wears , his physique his sense of humor etc. that’s what girl’s are mainly attracted to , where guys don’t give 2 shits about her status , they are all about beauty and a girl that loves to fuck and makes him feel wanted and valued , she has a heart and shows signs of loyalty. He will leave his partner for her if she tops how his wife treats him , if he doesn’t then he was just looking for a piece of ass , All and all cheating is wrong period , if you are going to cheat you are best to just leave your partner and not go back to them , cuz you already proved to yourself that you do not love your partner if you can cheat on them , so why waste your time with someone that you really aren’t in love with? Most people will say financial reasons or they have to much invested or for the kids sake but whatever the reason that person is dumb as fuck and just wasting their time missing out on true love
They get bored. Among other things, but that's the primary reason.
A woman's brain runs on feelings and emotion. Which are subject to change at any given moment. If she decides she's just not happy with her man, she'll shut down sexually, cheat bail or any combination of these. She'll wander off looking for CHAD THUNDERCOCK.
Women love opportunistically. As long as they think their needs are being met then they're all happy in love. But if they change their mind, all bets are off. And you'll hear the famous "I love him but I'm not IN love with him anymore." The vag-tingles are gone and they're never coming back. EVER.
Men love idealistically. They'll tend to hang in there just hoping things will improve. So 75-80% of divorces are initiated by women. They are much more inclined to throw in the towel and move on. This is a bazillion years of biological programming - adapting to change for the best outcome for themselves and their offspring. Also known as solipsism - to protect themselves and their offspring.
You never get to possess a woman - you only get to use her for a time, have benefit of her love for a time, then she moves on to the next guy - he gets his turn. And why you NEVER put a woman on a pedestal. EVER. She instantly loses respect for you if you do that.
The ONLY way I know of to keep a woman connected to you, over my over fifty years of dealing with them, is to simply be SO fucking awesome she couldn't afford to lose you. You have to entertain her, make bank, stay healthy and fit, or figure she'll wander off. The burden of performance is ALWAYS on the man. ALWAYS.
If she won't feed you and sex you, doesn't respect you, you find one who will.
Why do you want a woman that doesn't give of herself to her man? Who isn't in awe of you. Who doesn't want you sexually.
You just want a roommate?
oh bro I know that. I've said no sex and infidelity is the reasons I'd leave. even in Christian doctrine both spouses are to please each other when they want it and BOTH are responsible for making sure the other is taken care of in that regard. At the same time infidelity is the one grounds in scripture it's okay to divorce. So believe me, I'm good lol
Bible = the owners manual on the human species.
It's popular culture to reject the bible, but ALL morality, laws, come form the bible. The ONLY book with dozens of prophecies that actually came true.
Raised catholic. Dad was an atheist. When I was a child the women would take the children to church while the men stayed home. This creates confusion.
As a teen I went away from the church, my faith wilted. But about every couple of years someone would come into my life and invite me back to the church. God works through his faithful.
When my third child was born, my wife suggest we at least find a good church and expose him to Christ, faith, so that he could decide for himself, that he would at least have that benefit. So we joined a protestant church. Being curious of the differences in the religious sects, I did a substantial study on the history of Christianity. Very revealing indeed.
I'm not a 'practicing' church person, but I have faith. I think too many people confuse faith and spirituality with the physical world. The former is about your soul, your spirit, not your body, or the people of the world. Our time here is finite - no one is getting out alive. Faith says your soul lives on.
yes this similar to what I grew up in. My mother was not a nice person at all. She was happy for me to go to Catholic school in my early formative years, she was happy to go to Church on Sundays, she was happy to send me off to 6 years to CCD. She was also happy to get hammered behind my dad's back and cheat on him with numerous women like a whore. When I finally found out my mother was not only cheating on my father but was gay after all she had taught me... imagine how absolutely mind fucked I was. Add to that a year later my parents divorced, had a custody battle on the same week as my birthday, then she moved her lesbian lover into the home, gave her son my bed and told me to sleep on the floor somewhere. When I told my dad she threw a fit and abandoned me in a liquor store parking lot in the rain. I was 11 years old. Imagine that mind fuck.
I cannot imagine. And now you know the bald truth of women. NOTHING any of them told you about what women are was the truth - it is ALL lies. Women can be loving, nurturing, wonderful creatures, or they can be evil, worthless, despicable.
I don't really have an answer on what determines that. I do know that it is extremely difficult to get young men to accept RED PILL doctrine, unless or until some bimbo rips his heart out and stomps on it. Usually it's someone they have romantic interest in at a young age, but surely it can be a caregiver, parent, as well.
We've had girls on here heart broken because their mother fucked their boyfriend. Or guy's whose girlfriend fucked their dad. People are truly despicable.
You are not obligated to keep toxic people in your life, friend or relative. PERIOD.
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Apropos still today.
I tried to make things work with my mother. I reached out to her 7-8 times over the years but she doesn't care. I didn't do it because I loved her, I dont anymore. My love died for her when I was 8 years old. But I felt obligated by Christ to try to make it work. And believe me deep down I hope it never will because there is nothing left between us. I would actually be upset if my girlfriend insisted on inviting her to our wedding if/when we actually get to that stage. I think the aside from cheating on me the most hurtful other thing she could do was try to insist my mother be apart of my life again. I can't do that. My last girlfriend tried that and it got even uglier. I had my heart ripped out at 22. She cheated on me with her ex drug dealer boyfriend and dumped me at my grandfather's grave when I was resting flowers on his tombstone on the day before Easter. I wanted my Grandmother to be happy when she came to visit the next day and surprise her with flowers on his grave at the Veteran's Memorial Cemetery near Bear, DE.
Women can definitely be evil. That's for sure. I was nearly fifty before I was awakened. Rollo has unlocked the mysteries of women - would be well worth your time to do some reading here:
www.therationalmale.com
Yes, some of it is derrogatory, and there's a lot of PUA - pick up artistry - that I just dont' subscribe to, but the reasoning of why and how women carry on as they do it enlightening. With understanding comes acceptance. I love women, but I also understand what drives them, and they are very predictable.
My high school sweetheart was the love of my life. A beautiful italian girl with culture, looks, a perfect body, absolutely gorgeous. I really loved her. And her family loved me. In fact, her mother was dying of a blood cancer, and asked me to be a paul-bearer when she finally passed. It didn't take long, it was very heartbreaking. And yes, I carried the casket with the rest of the men in the family.
That night my girlfriend broke up with me, was going back to her old abusive boyfriend. I was heartbroken, balled my eyes out.
I ran into her about fifteen years later, in our old stomping grounds. She had two pretty daughters in two, grade-school age, and still looked great. Said she was divorced. I just shook my head. Have a great life honey!
*... in tow...
Not 'in two'. :)
They're broken. Flawed. Imperfect. Self focused. Weak. Assumptive. Some are even evil. But I don't generally view people as evil, I actually think people try to be good, to do what's right. But lots of clouded judgement. Societal norms dictate a lot of unhealthy thought, perceptions, interpretation of what's real and valuable, worthy and worthwhile. People lose sight of what's real.
And there are some really crappy parents. Some people should just not procreate. PERIOD. My generation raised a whole crop of really crappy parents, and we're all suffering from that today.
No, the boomers raised a whole generation of people that are just rotten parents. We have a sociatal crisis now. Girls that think they're boys, boys that think they're girls, participation trophies, safe spaces, meaningless sex, confusion, depression, unreasonable expectations on what life is, what's for, what it's about. It's a general breakdown and decline of western culture. The pushing out of faith and Christianity just accelerates this decline. The US will simply never be the same as it once was. I predict it's demise, it's fall, in the next century.
I'm starting to realize that.
The only problem is the fringe-right is just as nutty as the fringe-left. The rest of us in the middle are at our wits end. I don't see anything improving any time soon. I'm going to retire soon, and simply motor off into the sunset, go completely underground.
It’s not always about whether he is “willing or able” to have sex! Sometimes you may love a guy, but he is doing something that is self destructive, or just against either his, or the couples best interests! Sometimes there is just a situation which makes staying together unhealthy, but that doesn’t mean that he is not still loved! Sometimes the love just isn’t enough anymore! I broke up with my boyfriend before we both left for college. I still love him very much, but although we went to the same high school, he is in a college on the west coast, and I am in college on the east coast! He didn’t want to end it, neither did I. But I just felt that regardless of how much we love eachother, it’s not fair to either of us, but especially him, to expect him to remain faithful to me for the next four years! I mean I know that if he had the opportunity, he would eventually sleep w/ someone else. So why stay together, and force him to either stay celibate, or lie to me and SAY he was celibate! Relationships are complicated, humans are even more so… who knows why it happens, but I just gave you ONE reason to break-up with someone you still love. I’m sure there are many more!
Yes, I did understand that from the word husband in the question, but I am 18 and likely won’t be married for at least 8. To 10 years. I figured that you might want an answer sometime before 10 years LOL 😂. But seriously, there truly are reasons that a woman can still love a man very much, but just not be able to remain in the relationship. It’s not the kind of question that only has one answer. (Like what is 4+5)! It entirely depends on the individual circumstances within THAT relationship! I gave you just one example. Here is another… My first boyfriend, we dated for exactly one year before we had sex for the first time. I was VERY much in love with him. I probably will always love him on some level. Love just doesn’t disappear overnight. But after we had sex for the first time, a week later I discovered that he had cheated on me, just DAYS after we made love! He waited an ENTIRE year, then he betrayed my trust. I still loved him, very much, but I had to end it. I simply could never trust him again! I did forgive him, and I did love him, but neither of those were enough to overcome the betrayal. So I walked out on a man I loved very much. You see? There are many, many reasons that a woman can love a man, but just not be able to be with him any more. You are so sweet, I thank you for your kind words. I truly believe that regardless of whoever broke your heart, you can still move forward with your life, and find another woman who will love you exactly the way you deserve! Have faith, it will happen. I believe it will happen for you.
One day I really want kids and continue my bloodline too. I'm not sure how much my current girlfriend realizes how important that is to me but like she brought up what if we found out I wasn't fertile. After all he left I was so upset, so worried, I immediately scheduled and appointment to get tested and also went on discord breaking down without even knowing I am or not and no history of infertility in my family. In the last male heir to the family name and legacy. I can't tell you how stressful that is for me. If I am infertile I might never be able to fully come to terms with myself and will live the rest of my life feeling like a failure and less of a man. Thankfully there are ways around the infertility of men that can bring them back from the brink thanks to modern medicine and science.
Well, maybe that is your answer? We women can only safely have our first child before the age of 36 to 38. Many women (like me) feel children are something that is extremely important! Maybe she was scared that you might not be able to give her any children, and she panicked! I know I would if I was close to 30 and the man I was married to, or engaged to was talking about not being able to have children… especially if we had been trying without success! While that would not make me stop loving my man, I don’t know, it might make me freak out and leave. Especially if I need time to find a new mad, date him, get engaged, and then married! Perhaps that is why she left you. Even though she still loves you very much… she desperately wants children! However, if you ARE infertile, that doesn’t make you LESS of a man, anymore than female infertility makes females “less of a woman”. Seriously, I know that this is upsetting, but it is most definitely NOT the end of the world… its not even the end of YOUR world! As you said, modern medicine can do miracles these days. Look, in my eyes, you are a man because you get up every day, and you work hard to support your self, that is HUGE these days, where so many guys just don’t work! I believe in a good strong work-ethic! Trust me, you will have no trouble finding another woman. But remember your ex, just abandoned you before she even found out if yo even have a problem? She cannot be trusted to stand by to for better or for worse, only “for better”. You would do well to remember that! She betrayed your relationship, you deserve better, sweetie!
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The fact that you summarized relationships with, "I'm talking when the husband is still willing and able to have sex with her when she wants it." tells me that you do not understand the inherent emotional complexity necessary in sustaining them. Sex means little if the other aspects, such as trust, compassion, respect, etc etc etc are not present and strong.
Women have more complex emotional needs. It's one of the reasons they leave. A man thinks he can go off into the basement or garage every day and not talk, or connect, and things will be totally fine in the relationship. I just saw a comic talking about this last night. It's completely false.
It takes a hell of a lot more than "not physically beating the wife" to make a good relationship and husband. She doesn't give a fuck about sex if the other important stuff is not present.
It won't let me update again but what I mean is when the wife says "I want something new and exciting" while her husband works himself into an early grave or breaks up his body to bring home the bacon. We're talking the guy takes care of the kids, mows the law, makes money, buys her gifts, and gives her sex regularly. I've seen this stuff happen.
@t-8900 Familiarity and boredom is part of the human experience. Women don't leave good men out of straight boredom any more than men leave for this reason. There's a lot more to it.
The things you mention are base needs. They're not enough. People also want love, connection. Don't blame women for feeling unfulfilled when you are ascribing the way men think (simple men) and trying to apply it to how women think. Say she cooks. He mows the lawn. So? The argument is ridiculous.
@Ceslovas i mean we're not talking my girl. My girl is a sweetie but I have seen it time and again. they want more monetarily from the guy so the guy obliges and works more for them. All the while they go out and cheat. It's messed up. Hell they even try to pass of their lover's kids onto them with no shame. It's sickening.
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Sex isn't a good enough reason to stay married...
There could be abuse, whether physical or emotional, drugs/ alcoholism, plenty of legitimate reasons why someone would feel the need to leave, even if they still love that person, especially if children are involved.
1a. The words aren't the truth. Just a means for her to make herself feel better & potentially set him up to provide what he needs in the future.
1b. Then again maybe at the moment she said it she meant it because it's how she FELT in the moment. 2 minutes later she doesn't feel love for him at all. Form a male POV it's easier to comprehend in terms of 3a. even if that's not totally true from her POV.
Drilling down more on what I call the male pov...
1. Because if she admits that she doesn't love him it could sound like she owes him something and isn't a victim. If she says she loves him it implies that she is willing to give more than him.
2. She's saying, "I will give you 1 coin anytime you want it. That is how giving and good I am. You should be willing to give me 1 coin also." Now what she doesn't mention is that her coin is a cheap Mexican Peso and the coin she expects form you is a 2 ounce solid gold coin from the treasure box you own. If she needs help, she hopes she can get it. If you need help, here's a peso. So hedging her bets.
If she leaves a good man she probably doesn’t love him. I have left a man I still loved very much but that is because he wasn’t treating me the way I wanted to be treated. I told him that I was not happy with how he would treat me and he didn’t listen so I left. That is different from leaving somebody who does good and leaves little room for complaint. It may be that you are good but she doesn’t respect your personality. It may not be looks. If I leave a man whose is handsome, and does what he supposed to do the biggest reason would be incompatibility with his personality. Like his moral compass isn’t the same as mine, he makes racist remarks or is rude to people, he doesn’t like the things that I like, etc.
Could be a number of reasons why a woman would want to walk out one common reason is having that love sensation and when they no longer feel in love with the man but feel obligated to stay whether it's financially or because there's children involved that's when things get difficult. Sometimes love can be rekindled with some romance and commitment on both their parts and sometimes I can't but if the woman or man doesn't vocalize that they're not happy or that they're not feeling the love then how would their partner know
We can still love our partners and walk away. At the end of the day when something detrimental happens in a relationship, we have to choose to stay or leave - stay and work things out, or leave to grow for both parties.
I love (still do) my ex situation thing, but after getting put down and blatantly disrespected multiple times, I had to go. I couldn’t beat it any more. My mental health was going down the drain. I left so I could get my diploma and degree, start my business, lose weight, and learn more - all things he slowed me down from doing.
I hope and pray he’s grown as well, but tbh leaving BAD relationships is all that’s left to do.
But marriage is not about sex!! If you just want sex you get a girlfriend/boyfriend. If you want a common path in life, with constant cooperation, mutual support and, above all, official conexion with a specific person towards law, then you get married. So, as you see marriage is not about sex, at all! You can love your girlfriend. But are you willing and confident enough in yourself and do you trust her enough so to share everything with her, your everyday effort, your properties, your time?
Some people think they are ready, but they are not. And these couples are about to fail in marriage. But does this mean that they don't have feelings one for the other after divorce? I don't think so, as many divorces are the result of incompatibility in life, rather than of sexual insatisfaction or of lack of love.
You can walk away from someone and know it's the right decision, feel sad and still love the person.
But that last part doesn't count if you're taking that person to court for all of their money, restricting access to their kids, stealing their house fucking new people in it or any of that other fun stuff.
The women are gaslighting their husbands with the 'I still love you' line, but mainly they are trying to keep the door open just in case their monkey branching fails and they come crawling back to the family home hoping for a reconciliation.
When there are unresolvable issues in the partnership or needs she has that cannot be met. When there is abuse or betrayal. When he has no drive or ambition, and she can see life is going to stagnate and devolve if she remains where she is. If he is abusing or causing damage to their children. These are just a few reasons off the top of my head.
I keep forgetting not everyone takes the vows as seriously as me. None of those seem like good enough reasons that i would leave my except for the betrayal/infidelity or physical abuse/death threats. I think thats the only grounds to leave. There should be laws put in place to make sure people who are not disabled work
I think a vast majority of women leave BECAUSE their men are not 'taking the vows seriously' - they are not loving, honouring, cherishing, obeying.
I guess it does depend on your religion. Like in Christianity the wife submits to the husband and respects him. In return the husband loves his wife, makes sure she never goes without, and yes, cherishes her. Neither is allowed to cheat and both are obliged to sexually please each other whenever they want it. And in fact you can look into that last bit if you want. some guys think that means the wife comes to them but if the wife wants sex that night and he doesn't he's still obliged to do what needs to be done. Both are in servitude to The Lord not to each other.
@NicoletteXO that’s not what he meant you women just don’t know what you want
@Kvynhanma I know exactly what I want.
@NicoletteXO to be single apparently 🙄
@Kvynhanma No, to be with a strong, charismatic, intelligent, devoted man. He can expect the same back from me. I don't expect you to be capable of relating. Your mentality is too poisoned. It's a shame.
@NicoletteXO you wanna be a man?
@Kvynhanma seems you're also illiterate 😂😂
@Kvynhanma Clearly my reference was to the character traits. Though we already know that comprehension of basic sentences is not your forte. It must be hard, when you're trying to make do with so few braincells 😂.
@Kvynhanma and the points were incorrect hahahaha 😂😂 Keep digging your hole, buddy.
@Kvynhanma just crying tears of laughter at you, little one 😂😂
@Kvynhanma hardly honey. You're broke, uneducated, lacking in life wisdom and immature AF. Also, your sexual performance will be sub-par, as little boys like you have no idea what to do in the bedroom. Please, move along before you embarrass yourself any further.
😂😂😂 you want to belittle me so bad I’m a home owner I have 2 cars I can spend everyday of next month doing volunteer work and I’ll still make more money than you make in a year I’m self employed and single and women love it I just started having sex last year my body count is already in the 30s
@Kvynhanma LMAO. You have only been having sex for a year? Wow, dude. More immature than I thought. And the fact that you call it a "body count" tells me you are a terrible lay. There is absolutely no way a man with your mentality is a home owner. Maybe you own a Thomas the Tank Engine and some dried up lube 😂😂
@Kvynhanma OMFG. Now I am actually laughing out loud. I tell you what - you could be a comedian. You are a fucking joke, that's for sure. I'm the one who has been consistently editing your sloppy comments for typographical errors... yet, you expect us to believe YOU are a copywriter? LOLOLOLOL 😂😂😂 GOLD.
You and me both, t-8900, hahaha.
@Kvynhanma a joke. Yes - yes, you are!
@Kvynhanma that person certainly ain't you 😂😂 Your statements have been roundly declared to be BS. I'm sorry you can't accept reality. Your mental illness and erectile dysfunction must make it challenging.
@Kvynhanma blee blee blooooop scroodle doo
Yup!
@NicoletteXO had a senior moment 😂😂
@Kvnnhanmaa No I was just communicating with you at the level you would understand - that of a toddler. If you're capable of higher levels of intelligence and dialogue, then go right ahead and converse in that way. Until then, if you front with nonsense rants, that's all you'll be getting back.
Sometimes in situations I've seen from the outside, the woman loves the guy but had to accept that his life choices were going to do nothing but get her hurt or worse. A few times I've seen where a woman had to leave a guy for the good of her / their kids. She didn't like it but had to look out for her kids first.
The cock carousel dark forces this is what Media and simp and people who doesn't know fact won't tell you.
The more body count the more broken heart the less pair bond it's like they have immune against morals and ethics and loyalty. That's why riding the cock carousel have consequences and that's why men should never wife them learn in a damn easy way this thing is serious some men have suicide because that hoe took everything from him and brought another dude to his bed. The cock carousel dark forces is not a damn joke
It is tho, it really is.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 yup
I mean it really is a joke.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 Get the red pill
The red pill is nothing more than a coping mechanism that is designed to say men "it's not your fault" regardless of the situation.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 SMH
Nice comeback.
I haven't been in this situation so I don't know but with variables for different people i'd guess most of the above apply
Never been married but had a girl do that to me. It is to make sure u want to kill urself I think cause that was how I felt
I want the second option without the "Maybe because of finances" part. That is not a reason why people stop loving another. If it is then there was never love in the first place.
Love can just fade out over time. Simple as that. Doesn't have to be a grand motive as to why.
Because women aren't walking and talking vaginas, if that's the only need he is meeting then he is doing a pretty piss poor job at being a husband, he is looking after himself, no woman wants to be objectified, we have so many other qualities..
The things you mentioned are superficial. Maybe that's the problem. He can work and cut the grass as a single guy. Is all he wants from her is sex? Is there any emotional connection? Is there any communication?
I'm sure they do love them but they can only take so much shit they're human just like everybody else and they don't want to be walked on so they just make a choice they say fuck you I love you but fuck you I can't take it no more by
I have no ideal why some women do this - many factors can end a marriage and sex shouldn’t be one of them. Sex shouldn’t be the answer for marriage or too keep a marriage.
Because he most likely isn't meeting her needs. When a woman has finally decided to end a relationship officially, she has already mourned the end of that relationship and it has been over for a long time.
Damn thats savage though. I would hope we could talk about it long on advanced. Why can't people just be upfront about what they want? I mean if everyone just talked things out more people could decide how to proceed as a couple. I'm blessed to be in a relationship where we talk about the everything and both of us give and take and make boundaries clear. Sometimes one person wants more or the other wants more but we work it out and come to an understanding. We keep ourselves honest with each other and I like that. It's the first relationship I've been in with the girl being upfront with me on things and I don't feel I she's for doing the same for me. I got a good one and she makes me happy.
I would say that it's because emotional needs aren't being met.
Women are lot like children in that way smh
@Kvnnhanmaa Coming from an unmarried.. Emotional intimacy is just as important if not more important than physical intimacy in a relationship.
And if you can’t get it how you want it you just leave like an emotional child
@Kvnnhanmaa you don't have kids either do you? lol
Probably lmao
She not in love with that man nomore but still loves him as the father of your child or u have no kids and she just loves u as a buddy lol shit happens people grow apart sometimes... just move on and keep your head up!!
Because you can love someone and not be "in love" with them.
It's possible to fall out of love or realize you weren't "in love" like you thought you were.
They never loved them in the first place, they only loved their money and the resources they could provide, no more no less.
Some husbands might be abusive so the wife leaves to protect her or her kids but wants him to change
But what if he isn't abusive and she left? Ever thought of that? Because other wise, you'd just be justifying her bitchy behavior towards her boyfriend by assuming he's the abusive one.
Also acknowledging the fact that both gender abuses each other. But I don't think he's talking about that kind of case.
Correct I'm talking about when the girl leaves because "the marriage isn't exciting anymore". Like we get older, we work hard and our bodies break down. You marry for life to take care of each other through sickness and health for better or worse. But people don't do that anymore and that's why fewer men commit. Or just because he lost his great paying job. Instead of working together to make it work, live more frugally until her can find new work, many split.
I don't really think you'll find many who actually do split solely for these reasons. If you are in an otherwise thriving and happy marriage, and your man loses his job, you won't leave - you'll do everything you can to support him. But if you've been in a quasi-abusive or absent marriage for fifteen years and your man loses his job, then starts blaming you and being a dick - that job loss may be the icing on the cake of the failed marriage which would cause a woman to leave. There's a massive difference. Also, I don't know anyone who would leave because "the marriage isn't exciting anymore". They might leave because their man has a stagnant and unevolving attitude to life, with no desire to change or improve, which is a recipe for a a terrible life. I think you are either misunderstanding or mischaracterizing extremely important and legitimate reasons why a woman would need to leave, as something superficial.
Whack partners lol they created divorce & it's mostly in women's favor they really have no reason to cheat if unhappy in a marriage they can leave at anytime their are no excuses in 2021 it's very pro woman
Because some people don't want to carry around dead weight. Sorry but that's the truth.
They can't stand the daily fireworks about whatever. We have had enough. The best daily blowjob does not make up for it. We just want peace and quiet.
Because it’s easier and pays to initiate a divorce than to stick around, seek therapy and actually attempt to fix the problems in the marriage.
They were probably gold diggers
Yuck 🤢
Because sometimes we have love for them but are no longer in love with them. Probably because of growing apart, or the woman is sick of asking for the bare minimum and not receiving it.
Same reason men cheat yet say they love their spouse
Because women don't marry for love they only marry for financial stability and wait long enough so when they finally divorce you the court system will force you to lose everything you spent your whole life working for.
That's the 'he can still pay me' (to get back with him - no money wasting on buddies and whores)
Simple they love thiers husbands... paycheck which thanks to family court they are still receiving
Probably the biggest one is greed
They can love them as people, but just don't find them sexually exciting anymore.
most women are prostitutes read the bible
Did you know most women are prostitutes?
None of these reasons.
1. They weren't emotionally and personality - type - wise compatible. Perhaps one was heavily extraverted and the other heavily introverted. Maybe their communication. styles that much heavily differentiated that they realised they fight even about discussions about previous arguments they were trying to annalise to get forward and over them. They realised they exhaust ech other emotionally and too rarely have moments of peace and contentment. It's better to leave this kind of impossible to handle relationship than insist on few moments of physical attraction, appreciation and love that happen from time to time.
2. They were feeling great together when they were in relationship, but when they got married, they started to live together only then and realised they never can function together. At least one was immature with certain expectations of roles, and from being together in same apartment all the time. One girl and guy were together for 7 years, got married finally, ended up divorcing after 3 months. Did they still love each other? YES! But they discovered they aren't the perfect person's for each other afterall. They met certain parts of each other's personalities better as they started living together. No drama, but they did divorce.
3. Husband emotionally neglected the wife and expected her to stay always at home and loyal while he just worked worked worked. That's not a relationship, that's burdain and cage. She's not a pet which you once in a while feed and just let her be. Even pet is petted. Taken for a walk. Many such women end up cheating or getting children to feel less alone and miserable. Then they project loneliness on children and become overly exhausting mothers for they are trying to get romantical affection from children, which neither mother nor children are aware of unless they end up at psychologist who discoveres what actual reasons behind her constant causing drama with children is. Such women also More easily become abusive mothers. All in all, even if they still love the person, it's better to divorce. It's a lifetime of bitterness, loneliness, misery. Especially if she indeed is in love. And believes he still loves her. Tbh, I also can't bite he does love her enough. Who loves, cares for feeling of another. Also. They might even become "Karen" type or simply disillusioned and yelling. Like my friend says "when nobody loves a woman, she turns into a witch when she's old". It's better to divorce early. Later in life, there's higher chance she'll be just overly bitter to get any satisfaction from getting divorced.
4. They were more open minded when they were younger, so were keen on accepting differences between them. As getting a bit older, they grew to be less capable to deal with major differences such as significantly different lifestyles, significantly different religions with different sets of beliefs for same issue, and so on. It's even more important if they have children, because then they discover they can't teach a child cohesive philosophy. They themselves to a degree, also feel more unstable and confused. It's time to get liberated from this what used to be a spice, and now is a burdain.
5. Trust is lost. He spent to many days on bussiness trips or working away on field work. She thinks or knows he cheats. Maybe she still loves him. He denies cheating. No nerves for drama and exhausting living in a constant wondering "if-what", she decides to leave.
6. There are certain type of toxic families and especially mother in laws, that can ruin any relationship, no matter how strong it is, if the couple is constantly exposed to them. This typically happens when there are no housing options other than living very close or in the same house with toxic mother in law or other relative. It's usually his relative, his mother. She wants to treat her son like a baby, she's jealous and possessive, unhealthy emotionally, challenges, provocates, offends, hates the daughter in law and is making her life miserable every single day. When there is drama she caused, she patiantely waits wife to react, and THEN calls her son to point at her and say "look what you have married. She disrespects me". Such and other stupid and selfish scenarios, scenes and drama are common in many southern European countries. Probably in some other parts of world too. It's wisest for a woman to leave. Maybe she loves the man, but there's no way to work this out, she will end up on psychiatry, in bed. There are very few very strong women who can order around to mother in low and kick her out from their lives. Usually everyone just tries to be polite. But that never works with such.
7. They realised over time they have or have grown to have completely different life goals. Especially if it's about career. If one doesn't want to move for the other to other city, state, country or continent so that the spouse pursues career, it won't work. Especially to highly professional people who indeed love their job and feel they would shrink not working it or pursuing their best job option. Maybe they still love each other and care endlessly. But there are times when one or both simply can't compromise. This can happen in any combination : man want to develop or upgrade career, or woman, or both but in different places where their opportunities showed up.
8. He has very low emotional intelligence and communication skills. She grew tired of explaining everything 246 times before he messes up or offends her with complete lack of tact and decency anyway.
9. One wants a child and the other one decided they don't want it anymore. Whoever wants it, will leave the relationship no matter how much they love the person.
10. Many other possibilities. Human lives are complex. Far more complicated than the simple offered answers above you offered. It can be far more complicated than even what I wrote.
They do not love by heart, only bluffing each other
they have lost love but stay together for the kids seem to be the reason that it happens.
Women are cunts and they don’t know themselves because they’re ruled by their emoluments children
it's a lie. if she really loves someone she will not leave. common sense
There are probably like half a dozen cases of this in a country of 330 million people.
Mind and perspective are very complicated things. To tough to understand often.
Any number of reasons
None of those sound really accurate
Because the marriage has a lot of problems and sometimes love just isn’t enough to overcome them
All is fair in love and war
She has driven him away with nagging.
This is why women get raped smh🤦
Female shit test
Hormone issues.
Hypergamy.
Terrible liars.
Crazy bitches downvoted me. Bet they'll marry and then divorce a guy and take half his money and still say they love him.
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