Don't you wish you can force anyone to be with you?

Question

I wish it was possible for the guy I like to be with me through forced/arrange marriage. He'd have no escape & I'd be able to get my little hands on him then 🤔😏👍😬

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Hmmm. Force, no. If I was offered, say, the power to get women to "feel" love, or affection, it'd be tempting. A part of me, though, would probably have some kind of issue because I wouldn't know if it was "real" or not. It'd feel like a crutch.

The only thing would be if I was looking at this power as, say, an equalizer... other guys have good looks, money, they're good at talking to women, they're taller... things that make women able to look past their faults. I don't have any of that... so why not use that advantage?

But... ultimately, no, I wouldn't want that... as tempted as a part of me might be to use it (or to misuse it)... I think I'd either choose not to use it (if I had it and could turn it on or off), or not to have that power at all.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

Well that kind of sounds interesting and hot but no I was going to force anybody to do anything because if you force them it's not real. And then they're always whining and complaining because you're forcing them to stay there no I would rather didn't like me for who I am and they would rather be there with me their choice I see where you're coming from though you could have some fun doing that

FlutteringFeelings · Accepted Answer

I don’t. I believe that everything happens for a reason and when we want something that isn’t working out that reaction is from our pride and ego. I always remind myself that if the thing that I’m wishing for is meant for me then why isn’t already in my life? The headache and misery with that individual that’s down the road is something I cannot see and for that reason I am being protected from the things that I cannot see.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

No I wouldn't want that.. That's not love if you have to  force  someone to be with you. They wouldn't be happy, but deep down, neither would you.. Being in a one-sided love relationship would be worse than being alone.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I’m not stupid. I know every guy is replaceable if you want a replacement, but I have a concern for the guy I like so am choosing not to let go.

BossThe2nd · Answer

No, not at all.
If anything, I want a person to feel desperate to be with me.
Having to do convincing on my end to any extent, that would totally turn me off.

I express my interest in someone, and if it doesn't seem returned or valued adequately in a reasonable time frame, I lose all interest in them.

Shortman70 · Answer

Would you really have a good relationship? You mite grow together and fall in love. What happens if after awhile he turns into someone you don't really like after all? Then you're stuck with him forever. You can't make him love or desire you. If it happens, it happens. If you try to force something, it never seems to work out for me anyways.

Andres77 · Answer

No because they wouldn't be with me because they wanted to. It would never be making love, it would always be rape.

Anonymous · Answer

I must say, it didn't sound so good on the receiving end, but that's actually really hot! lol Mainly because I've seen your posts before, so I know your pics and character, so I wouldn't mind being your forced husband and sex slave. LOL I quite like the idea of a woman wanting me SO badly she'll do anything to get me, as long as she's not a psycho.

little_rose · Answer

No, because there must be a reason why they don't like you (maybe you are just incompatible and you can't see it rn because you are head over heels for him). So forcing him to be with you by any means will just make things worse.

I understand where you're coming from but nope

JosyJosy · Answer

No... cause as much as you'll have him for yourself... you'll know deep down that something's missing and that's his affection towards you.

MrNameless · Answer

Nope. I have a conscience. I want to be with someone who likes me for me. Mind control or keeping them as prisoner is just evil.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course not! I wish I could get them to see what c they'recrejecting/passing up sometimes.
But I don't get upset because if it didn't work out it was usually for a reason. I have a habit of being attracted to some women who turn out to be trainwrecks.

penneva581 · Answer

No I'd feel guilty. I'd wonder if they would've felt happier with someone else. I like things to flow naturally

CurlyGirl42 · Answer

No.. the nice part about being with someone is that they chose to be with me.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No, I'd lose interest in someone who didn't want me.

dustybiker · Answer

Why would you want to be with someone you had to force to love you? There are 7.8 billion people in the world. Just keep looking.

MindYourEyes · Answer

Nah that would be fake as fuq and zero effort XD  boring.

Somegirl408 · Answer

yeah like i have this guy on snap i wanna date but he won't reply to my messages, its a shame i guess he ain't rlly desperate like me

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Nah, that doesn't sound like fun at all.  I'm not really into forced relationships

Anonymous · Answer

You are going to eat him alive, yes?
Eh, well, it is a fun little fantasy but in practice it's a terrible idea. It'll cause him trauma if it's not in his interest and you probably don't want to hurt him like that.

Finchie40 · Answer

Then that won’t be love , love can’t be forced , only guided

Phoenix98 · Answer

No becaues that's not real. A real relationship, a real marriage, love, etc is a choice if it's forced then it's not genuine or real.

Anonymous · Answer

Amazing what you can get away with as a woman.

Its actually astonishing to me that you didn't filter this.

You had this idea that you wanted to be the worlds first 'Super Rapist' and werent the slightest bit uncomfortable with sharing this news with the world.

Would you have a caped costume as is traditional? (For supers, its not a thing with rapists as far as i know)

ChiPaPa · Answer

No. I just want someone interested in me and I her.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

I don't waste time wishing for the impossible but yes of course I want a harem consisting of Jennifer Lawrence and Emma Stone. I'll pass on Amber Heard.

Anonymous · Answer

Pretty disgusting forcing someone to be with you even in an arranged marriage

pleasestopthis · Answer

No, that's just sad. Having someone I love being by my side only by force would make me miserable.

clampfan101 · Answer

I don’t want to marry someone who doesn’t want to marry me. What good is marriage if they don’t love you back? What’s even the point?

Morgador · Answer

Absolutely not, why would you want to be with someone if they don't want to be with you? Hell no and if you are like this you have issues

WowwGirl · Answer

Are you okay? Why would you want a hostage not a husband? No I never thought that

Babygirl_S · Answer

I don't because forcing anyone to be with me is a huge turn-off. I want someone who wants me as much as I want him.

es20490446e · Answer

Why would I want to be with someone who isn't attracted to me?

Justneedtokno · Answer

No because if I force them then I know it’s not real

Twalli · Answer

I would prefer someone come to love me over time. I wouldn't want her to resent that we have to be together

Nerdvana · Answer

Yes, especially considering how much I am in love with you.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Absolutely not... If they are not with you, that's for a reason.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

No, if anything that’d make things worse. No Bludhunder

Justaguy30 · Answer

I'd like that. But can you do it to multiple people

Relux47 · Answer

No I don’t wish that because that’s stupid and it sounds like rape

spartan55 · Answer

What's the thumb do to him? 😳

NoGamePlan · Answer

People are not possessions.

dray995 · Answer

Yes but would it really be worth it?

Wiredone · Answer

I could never do that to anyone

rcljr · Answer

There’s a word for that, it’s called Slavery.

Jerre · Answer

I would never force myself on a woman

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

A single-use superpower? No thank you.

tomtom05131 · Answer

I think how you out it is very hot.

Wise4myage · Answer

That's a nice fantasy, but no.

Anonymous · Answer

I gotta say I've had a similar fantasy very often

TallAnon · Answer

Not at all, that would make it way too easy

Anonymous · Answer

No, I would rather they want to be with me.

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

def not.

EaterPeter · Answer

Nope

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Yes i do

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