How much time do you spend with your SO and how do you spend it?

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[AviatorTom]

We live together, so we spend quite a bit of time together. We also like our own time, though, and very often I'll be in my room, watching YouTube videos or making GAG options while she is in the family room (or her room) watching a show.

We often watch a movie together, and we try to go out to dinner together at least once a week.

About half the time, we have meals together, the other times we eat separately.

What's important in a relationship is to work out what works best for the the two of you.

[FunkyMonkee]

When I had one, I'd spend LOTS of time with her but not to the point of suffocation. She''d get up in the morning and go into the library to study for several hours, in the late afternoon, I'd go sit with her and work on a computer project, then we'd go get something to eat or go home. On weekends, she worked evenings as a waitress so, I'd drop her off at work and go back 6 hours later to get her unless she found another way home. When she moved to a place I couldn't go, I'd drop in on her a couple times a week.

[jennifer_bloom]

Im single now but my dates used to last 4-6 hours usually starting around 12-1 in the afternoon or so.

[t-8900]

A better time for dates most times too

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

My SO died 8 years ago, do that would be none currently

[dreamstar72]

Sorry about your loss

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@dreamstar72 Thank you

[OlderAndWiser]

24/7. She works in my office and we live together. We ride to work together. We have lunch together. We sleep together.

[Jamie05rhs]

Wow!

[OlderAndWiser]

@Jamie05rhs I'm 9 years older than her so I will probably retire before she does. We are doing well together, so far.

[Jamie05rhs]

@OlderAndWiser Did you work in the same industry before you met? Or did you introduce her to the legal field?

[OlderAndWiser]

@Jamie05rhs She was a realtor, relocated to live with me, and wanted to change fields when a job became available in my office.

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh! Okay. Cool!

[ChrisMaster69]

Not enough tbh.

she’s on hospital duties this month and a course the other week.

at moment one of us is invariably working evenings either on calls to the US in my case, or her doing course stuff etc.

Getting up at 05:30 for a run can be a challenge lol

[StrawberryShake]

Because of the distance between us we try to see each other every other weekend and that's been working out for the past 5 months. Both of us have no problem remaining faithful or satisfied with each other because of the distance. (Although we don't like having to wait)
Hell, we talked without meeting each other for about 4 months. When we finally see each other we either go to the beach or just hang out for the next couple of nights doing various things.

[Browneye57]

We are nearly inseparable - over the past thirty years. Not more than a handful of nights apart, we eat most meals together, go everywhere together. There is absolutely no one in the world I would rather be with than my beloved.
We tried separate holidays a couple of times - her family is across the country. We just don't do that anymore.

Choose wisely, treat kindly. __Dr. Laura

[Den1971]

I've been with mine for about 8 years but we talked on the phone a lot and we are living in two different cities only about 100 miles apart but I'll get a chance to see her during the week unless I'm on vacation so we spend a lot of time on the phone it's been a lot of time on video chat but it's lasted for almost 9 years well actually it's been 9 years there's 9 years on September 12

[Jamie05rhs]

9 years? Why don't you move in together?

[Den1971]

I'm in the city she's in the country opposites do a track but I haven't brought myself to move out to the country I lived out there for 5 years but then I started going to CDL school out here in Houston and ended up staying out here because my mom got sick and so now I stay at home and take care of my mom but I don't stay at home but I work here and I live here my mom just turned 79 in August hey my girlfriend understands

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh, okay. I see.

[Jaximus-Lion]

Now we work at the same place, same shift, different sections. Soooo we spend more time together, we spend it by doing daily activities, then we have the solo interess but we cook together, baking, cleaning, gardening, laundry and so on.

[Smashingdoozy]

Every other day at the moment we'll see eachother in the afternoons and one of us usually stays over every weekend

[vespid]

I spend as much time with SO as possible although we live in different houses I often stay over there nights at a time, we are always together at school but we hang out with others friends so its not just us, we also work together and we get shifts, so I always organize for us to have shifts together, we plan on moving in together towards the end of 2022, so until then I try to see them as much as possible

[katiesmuff]

We spend it doing things around the house together, golfing together, doing things with our children and normally evenings are cuddle time for all of us.

[menina]

I don't spend time with my SO because I'm single and I'm not going to date until at least 2024 or 2025.

[TrueConfection]

A lot. During the week, all but maybe 6-10 hours a day. Weekends, no time apart. We used to spend even more time together than that.

[MrKinktastic]

Which one? M I see about 2x a month for about 2-3 days at a time. R I see about 3-4 nights a week depending on our work schedules.

[Likes2drive]

It’s been years since I’ve had a relationship so it’s hard to remember usually four hours , two or three times a week from what I remember, I was married for a long time after that and haven’t had a relationship since being divorced for years

[Anpu23]

on average 3 hours a day during the week, Saturday is hers as is Sunday Morning. Just hanging out, shopping and what not.

[Andres77]

Just a couple hours a day if schedules permit.
Helping in the kitchen, watching TV, talking about bills and schedule and goals, hanging out with the kids, sex and sleep.

[Jamie05rhs]

I think three to four hours a day would be best.

[slatyb]

We play cards and go out to restaurants and clubs. In the Before Times we took road trips.

[Kayla45]

Almost every other day, because he works at night and I work during the day.

[Anon621]

I don't have an SO but if that happens then we will see

[dreamstar72]

We are different than most, have problems, anyways we are together for the most part 24/7. Plus we are happy with each other.

[Massageman]

Several hours a day. Relaxing, eating, doing household "bigger" chores (painting, garden renovation, )

[exitseven]

We spend a lot of time together when we are not at work. We spend most weekends together. We are basically joined at the hip.

[Rachelspiks]

Does "SO" mean significant other? If so, then zero amount of time, because I don't have one.

[Relux47]

If a girl on here was my SO I would spend a lot of time but not too much time with her. She gotta have some me time by herself. I would do things that she likes and I like. 50/50. She knows who she is

[Twalli]

As much as I can. Since last March watching TV, walking my dog, and having sex. Before we usually went in a date 3/4 of the time we were together.

[Raina_Leigh]

I live with him and most of our time is spent having sex 🤣 but in all seriousness we do go out and do stuff. Shopping, we go to eat once in awhile

[Interstate]

I'm single, so I wouldn't know lol.

[Nikki1989]

I live with him, so we are together every day.

[Joshua0213]

Couple hours a day cause work 11 hours most days

[Jouth]

Zero time cause she's a bitch and we broke up lol

[Shootingstars21]

Not enough time

[Iron_Man]

I’m single