It is definitely true that a woman who cheats is worse than a man. Why? Because it is largely women who scorn cheating and hate it like crazy when men do it. Women are the ones who put the heaviest emphasis on morality and infidelity.
So when they turn around and do it - especially when they're actually proud of it being unknown to a guy and brag that they're better at cheating - it most certainly does make it worse for a woman. She is much more of a hypocrite than a man.
He's a loser and #NotAllMen. A cheater is a cheater. If you cheat and then you get cheated on you had it coming. Cheaters dont deserve relationships. They dont have the heart, the mindset, the discipline, for true commitment. There is no "I" in team and that's what a couple is.
Because it’s another way of hating women and letting men get away with murder.
Cheating is wrong but anyone can have the same desire to sleep with others for lustful reasons. People make out like women are frigid and only cheat because of emotions. No many women just fuck because they need to fuck and find the guy attractive.
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Emotionally cheating gives a reason. They're overcome with emotions, and lose themselves. While cheating for lust shows a different sort of lack of self control. It could be because I'm a woman, but if a man cheats on me without a reason other than, "I was horny" that would be more painful than, "She was lovely" because on one hand, his love for me was so weak that he couldn't be bothered to have physical self control. On the other hand, he got twisted in emotions and feelings for the two of us. Though regardless, the relationship is over in the end. The excuse also that men have less options so it's better... that doesn't make sense to me. Wouldn't it be harder for women to resist, since they have more choices to pick from? So if anything, it's impressive that women turn down men better than their partner every day; to go by that awful logic so many of you are pointing out.
In other words, you want to ask why some people are two faced bastards.
The answer is simply that they have no honour or reliability themselves, but demand it of others. This is why these kind of people are always the type you'll find in the thick of problems.
I am not sure i agree with the premise of the question. Comes off as sexiest... a cheater is a cheater and men and women both do it, and both get away with it.
But in a man's defense, testosterone is why. Men have been genetically engineered to spread their seed as much as possible.
I think cheating is wrong either way, but it does affect men way more than women. It’s not uncommon to hear of a man killing himself over a cheating woman. How often do women kill themselves over cheating men?
Also, women are more likely to forgive a cheating man if he provides them with a good life. Plus men who cheat usually get caught. Women are better at hiding it and taking it to the grave.
Imagine being a man proving for n protecting a woman, pretty putting you’re entire life into her……and she turns around and cheats? You’re world would be over!
I don’t think a man cheating is acceptable. I do agree we can all be vulnerable. I can forgive a woman for cheating. The more I read into cheating I see that there are two kinds of people. Those who want only one person and those that still want that one person but still need to play the field. I read over and over that it’s not the act but the betrayal that hurts so bad. Do men have a stronger ego and the thought of another man sleeping with your wife or girlfriend stings a little harder? Probably. How about this…. if either of you are the type of people where one person is not enough ( about half of us according to statistics) just have those conversations before you step out. Will some people flip at first? Yes but if you continue to communicate openly and share your weaknesses you may find such a deep connection through very open conversations that you wouldn’t want to cheat in the first place.
I don’t necessarily agree that it’s worse but men and women tend to cheat for different reasons.
Usually men are being immature and are scared of commitment so kind of check to see if they’ve still got “it.” It’s trying to reclaim their masculinity/youth.
Women it’s usually because something is wrong in the relationship so it might be a little harder to recover from than a guy cheating so some might consider it “worse” that way.
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Because women are a possession to be owned. She is suppose to do as she’s told, while the men can do whatever the fuck they want because they are not owned. Sadly, when men who think this way realize it’s not true, as was admitted to you, they can’t handle it.
It is true. Women are a possession to be owned. And men can do whatever the fuck they want. I have evidence of this... because many women agree with this and follow it just as much if not more than men.
It ought to be a deal breaker regardless of which one cheated.
But there is one key difference. If the guy cheated a year ago and it comes out, the woman can always walk away clean. If the woman cheated a year ago, and got pregnant from it, the man is gonna be on the hook for 18 years of child support after the breakup. That's a hell of a big difference in terms of damage done.
men aren't responsible when they cheat. i have two female dogs and a male, 1 lets him hump her all day, the other aggressively doesn't let it happen and it doesn't. Its the same in humans especially because there are anti rape laws. Women are responsible for ALL sex that happens. That isn't a lie by the patriarchy to make women feel guilty or inferior, but maybe they should feel that way
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Weirdly, I understand and agree to a certain extent. I mean, most of the men I know that cheat- there’s nothing behind it except “she’s cute, I wanna have sex”. Women on the other hand will cheat but it’s not because he’s cute, it’s because he has potential of actually being their mate.
yeah because women are lonely and single... they get on their period and get horny, and need a mate ASAP. the easiest way to do it is to cheat with a man who's already proven himself. the easiest way to spot a mistress/hoe is that they'll treat guys who already have a girlfriend as more attractive
1. Retardation/Idiocy: an IQ lower than Patrick Star's.
2. Hypocrisy: it's okay when 'I' do it, Rachel! 'I'M' the funny one!
3. Bigotry: I don't date within my race... though I do find it annoying when others do the same.4. Lunacy/Insanity: Daffy Duck forgot to take his fuckin' meds again. Personally I'd go with all of em.
I don't think this is a gendered thing at all, it's just a case of people being more defensive about the group they themselves belong to. Haven't you seen any of those posts or tweets by women blaming MEN when a woman cheats? The "She cheated because you didn't give her what she deserved" attitude. This goes both ways. It's a double standard simply because some people are incapable of holding themselves accountable for their own actions.
Because men don't like women who have several partners. There is social stigma against women for having different partners still. It makes the woman look worse because women can get sex much easier than men.
This goes regardless if it's emotional or sexual in my opinion.
So if u cheat that relationship should b done and the person that cheated regardless of gender did a piece of shit move and they should feel bad. That being said typically when a girl cheats it is worse. And the only reason I say that is cause when I guy cheats it is all about gettin go a nut… he has no emotional connection to the person he cheated with… women not so much. in most cases.
I don't think that is the case across the board. Mainly, just in this guys mind. Bottom line, it doesn't matter what the cheater thinks. It is up to the cheated on to dump them or stay with them. Any cheater deserves to get dumped.
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It is definitely true that a woman who cheats is worse than a man. Why? Because it is largely women who scorn cheating and hate it like crazy when men do it. Women are the ones who put the heaviest emphasis on morality and infidelity.
So when they turn around and do it - especially when they're actually proud of it being unknown to a guy and brag that they're better at cheating - it most certainly does make it worse for a woman. She is much more of a hypocrite than a man.
He's a loser and #NotAllMen. A cheater is a cheater. If you cheat and then you get cheated on you had it coming. Cheaters dont deserve relationships. They dont have the heart, the mindset, the discipline, for true commitment. There is no "I" in team and that's what a couple is.
Because it’s another way of hating women and letting men get away with murder.
Cheating is wrong but anyone can have the same desire to sleep with others for lustful reasons. People make out like women are frigid and only cheat because of emotions. No many women just fuck because they need to fuck and find the guy attractive.
Emotionally cheating gives a reason. They're overcome with emotions, and lose themselves. While cheating for lust shows a different sort of lack of self control. It could be because I'm a woman, but if a man cheats on me without a reason other than, "I was horny" that would be more painful than, "She was lovely" because on one hand, his love for me was so weak that he couldn't be bothered to have physical self control. On the other hand, he got twisted in emotions and feelings for the two of us. Though regardless, the relationship is over in the end.
The excuse also that men have less options so it's better... that doesn't make sense to me. Wouldn't it be harder for women to resist, since they have more choices to pick from? So if anything, it's impressive that women turn down men better than their partner every day; to go by that awful logic so many of you are pointing out.
In other words, you want to ask why some people are two faced bastards.
The answer is simply that they have no honour or reliability themselves, but demand it of others. This is why these kind of people are always the type you'll find in the thick of problems.
I am not sure i agree with the premise of the question. Comes off as sexiest... a cheater is a cheater and men and women both do it, and both get away with it.
But in a man's defense, testosterone is why. Men have been genetically engineered to spread their seed as much as possible.
I think cheating is wrong either way, but it does affect men way more than women. It’s not uncommon to hear of a man killing himself over a cheating woman. How often do women kill themselves over cheating men?
Also, women are more likely to forgive a cheating man if he provides them with a good life. Plus men who cheat usually get caught. Women are better at hiding it and taking it to the grave.
Imagine being a man proving for n protecting a woman, pretty putting you’re entire life into her……and she turns around and cheats? You’re world would be over!
I don’t think a man cheating is acceptable. I do agree we can all be vulnerable. I can forgive a woman for cheating. The more I read into cheating I see that there are two kinds of people. Those who want only one person and those that still want that one person but still need to play the field.
I read over and over that it’s not the act but the betrayal that hurts so bad. Do men have a stronger ego and the thought of another man sleeping with your wife or girlfriend stings a little harder? Probably. How about this…. if either of you are the type of people where one person is not enough ( about half of us according to statistics) just have those conversations before you step out. Will some people flip at first? Yes but if you continue to communicate openly and share your weaknesses you may find such a deep connection through very open conversations that you wouldn’t want to cheat in the first place.
I don’t necessarily agree that it’s worse but men and women tend to cheat for different reasons.
Usually men are being immature and are scared of commitment so kind of check to see if they’ve still got “it.” It’s trying to reclaim their masculinity/youth.
Women it’s usually because something is wrong in the relationship so it might be a little harder to recover from than a guy cheating so some might consider it “worse” that way.
Because women are a possession to be owned. She is suppose to do as she’s told, while the men can do whatever the fuck they want because they are not owned.
Sadly, when men who think this way realize it’s not true, as was admitted to you, they can’t handle it.
It is true. Women are a possession to be owned. And men can do whatever the fuck they want. I have evidence of this... because many women agree with this and follow it just as much if not more than men.
It ought to be a deal breaker regardless of which one cheated.
But there is one key difference. If the guy cheated a year ago and it comes out, the woman can always walk away clean. If the woman cheated a year ago, and got pregnant from it, the man is gonna be on the hook for 18 years of child support after the breakup. That's a hell of a big difference in terms of damage done.
You whine too much. And you read too much garbage. You buy into way too much bullshit.
The truth is, cheating is pretty well split 50-50 by the two genders. But women are better liars so the stats are skewed to men.
And the other truth is that cheating is the ultimate betrayal - the worst of it not the fucking, but the lying.
And finally, happy couples in love don't cheat. You fuss and whine too much.
A lot (most) of people believes in “It’s ok for me, but not ok for you”
Below is a stronger statement, but it hold true for the question
A lot of men view studs and sluts as being different, where as most women view studs and sluts as same.
men aren't responsible when they cheat. i have two female dogs and a male, 1 lets him hump her all day, the other aggressively doesn't let it happen and it doesn't. Its the same in humans especially because there are anti rape laws. Women are responsible for ALL sex that happens. That isn't a lie by the patriarchy to make women feel guilty or inferior, but maybe they should feel that way
Weirdly, I understand and agree to a certain extent. I mean, most of the men I know that cheat- there’s nothing behind it except “she’s cute, I wanna have sex”. Women on the other hand will cheat but it’s not because he’s cute, it’s because he has potential of actually being their mate.
yeah because women are lonely and single... they get on their period and get horny, and need a mate ASAP. the easiest way to do it is to cheat with a man who's already proven himself. the easiest way to spot a mistress/hoe is that they'll treat guys who already have a girlfriend as more attractive
@pillarofhell except we are not dogs. Not even close.
We are indeed responsible if we cheat. We 100% are.
Dogs brains are more similar to humans than chimps
We have more in common with dogs than chimps
Being more similar than is not the same as being equal. We are still miles from them.
Also the animals we share more DNA with are bonobos.
It could be a number of reasons.
1. Retardation/Idiocy: an IQ lower than Patrick Star's.
2. Hypocrisy: it's okay when 'I' do it, Rachel! 'I'M' the funny one!
3. Bigotry: I don't date within my race... though I do find it annoying when others do the same.4. Lunacy/Insanity: Daffy Duck forgot to take his fuckin' meds again. Personally I'd go with all of em.
I don't think this is a gendered thing at all, it's just a case of people being more defensive about the group they themselves belong to.
Haven't you seen any of those posts or tweets by women blaming MEN when a woman cheats? The "She cheated because you didn't give her what she deserved" attitude. This goes both ways.
It's a double standard simply because some people are incapable of holding themselves accountable for their own actions.
It's a shitty thing to do.
Why it can be perceived as worse can have multiple reasons.
1. Female's have a prosona in society that she should be loving and caring, inorsent.
2. Female's have a high tendency to become toxic when cheating. not all. blaming, entitlement, justification... and so on.
3. It's a matter of from what side it's seen.
Because men don't like women who have several partners. There is social stigma against women for having different partners still. It makes the woman look worse because women can get sex much easier than men.
This goes regardless if it's emotional or sexual in my opinion.
Its not a stigma. Its reality that women can pass of bastards and make a man financial responsible for raising another mans child
So if u cheat that relationship should b done and the person that cheated regardless of gender did a piece of shit move and they should feel bad. That being said typically when a girl cheats it is worse. And the only reason I say that is cause when I guy cheats it is all about gettin go a nut… he has no emotional connection to the person he cheated with… women not so much. in most cases.
I don't think that is the case across the board.
Mainly, just in this guys mind.
Bottom line, it doesn't matter what the cheater thinks. It is up to the cheated on to dump them or stay with them.
Any cheater deserves to get dumped.