Sometimes it can be similar. But a lot of times it’s not. A lot of men cheat simply for the sex. Some women will do the same. But in order for a majority of women to want to have sex there usually have to be some emotions involved. I don’t just mean sexual emotions either like a man. I mean actual feelings. So when a girl does it she’s somewhat invested in the man emotionally, so by that point there’s a good chance she’s going to leave her current boyfriend or husband. Men on the other hand again tend to do it for sex, no real emotions involved so he will come back to his wife or girlfriend. Both yes are morally wrong, but there is usually a big difference between a male cheating vs a female cheating.
Cheating is nothing more than shitting and pissing on the values of trust, respect, love, ethics, morality and self respect!
If you want to change a partner, leave him/her, then go fuck who ever is single and intrested in you!
because everybody likes to do something wrong
and has no problem with it
but they hate being at fault
Both genders cheat
Either way it's not okay
No matter the reason
Behind the situation
Whoever cheated is at fucked up traitor
If it's a guy
he's unsatisfied
If it's a girl she's bored and seeking attention
Nobody likes a lousy lay
who's bad in bed
So if you chose somebody you're not happy with
You'll go find some temporary fun
that's just how it is
nobody's loyal anymore
everybody is selfish
@ihatetaylorswift Na guys cheat simply if there's an opportunity. Men don't need a connection to sleep w/ women. Women need an emotional connection to sleep with men.
If pregnancy is possible, it can never be the same. Only women can let their SO believe, he is the biological parent. That is why, when men cheat, it is not important; only when women cheat.
As a relationship coach here on Girls Ask Guys, I love diving into these spicy topics! It's fascinating how society sometimes views infidelity differently based on gender. Cheating is about breaking trust, regardless of who does it. Emotional and physical connections can affect relationships, and the heartache is real for anyone involved. We all deserve trust and respect, so let's sprinkle kindness and understanding around like confetti! 💌 Remember, a red flag is a red flag, whether it's waving from Mars or Venus. 🌎💔 Keep communicating and loving wholeheartedly!
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cheating always means the same... breach of trust... the rest is irrelevant...
@islathewitch Na, if a man cheats it's no big deal a woman cheating probably ends the relationship.
it's exactly the same on both sides... cheating means breach of trust... and it ends the relationship sooner or later...
immediately if my man did it
@islathewitch Obviously that's not true, Kobe Bryant cheated on his wife on National TV and she stayed w/ him till the day he died.
the exception proves the rule
ofc... some women are too dependent to leave and live alone... so they agree to lower their standards and have an used man... but fortunately there are not so many of them :D
@islathewitch If that was an exception you would have a point however it's actually an example of this philosophy played out publicly. You rarely get a look inside anyone's private life, that specific scenario provides one. That's also going to be the standard decision made by a woman w/ a HV man. Beyonce staying w/ Jay -Z is another example of this. Reality is the ony men that can cheat at these levels are men of value and most women understand that they can't replace those men. You are correct if a woman wants an average or below average man, she would probably leave if he cheats however most LV men aren't able to cheat, because it's difficult enough for them to get one woman.
publicly known people aren't representing the population, because their lives aren't private and they act differently, because they need to care for good PR...
Research shows that a significant number of couples break up after infidelity, but the outcome varies depending on individual circumstances and the couple's willingness to work on the relationship. About 54.5% of couples who experience cheating eventually divorce, while 30% attempt to reconcile but ultimately separate, and only 15.6% stay together successfully
@islathewitch They are simply a reflection of what happens in private. You're spending your time trying to ignore any example that doesn't align w/ your POV vs facing reality. Also if what you're saying is accurate that means that you would never have an example to support your belief.
@islathewitch Now I see your confusion, you can't use anonymous "research" w/out understanding the data, demographics and subject matter. What was the age of the couples, what was the man's status or income, how many people participated? Unless you can present these things claiming anonymous research is irrelevant.
I use it the way you always do, never giving the source :D
you don't have to thank me, enjoy :D
@islathewitch I think I understand your confusion. I'm not asking you to provide a source, as in an anonymous online dialog, I'm willing to take the messenger at face value. I am saying that the data collected would provide more accurate insight. If you're making the claim that "a significant" number do something than the obvious question is what is that number?
another horseshit double standard. similar reason why people believe that men and women have the same sexual urges when we all know our sex drives aren't the same
@filthy_immigrant Absolutely true, life's full of double standards, this just happens to be one of the few that benifits men.
This is the most idiotic thing I’ve seen in a long time.
Anyone who uses the term “sexual market value” is an idiot.
Cheating is cheating. No reasoning needed on either side. All wrong.
Hold on. The justifications may be different. As in the reasons why they do it. You want to argue on that? No problem.
Bottom line, whatever the reasoning, whatever the justifications, the act itself is wrong and don't make it right. And there are some people out there who can conjure up the most convincing sob story or the most "academic" exposé... don't give a flying fuck. Still wrong.
@NewWaves If you are able to highlight even one difference than that validates that Cheating for a man, and woman are different. Wrong is subjective and falls under control test and perspective for instance, would you say it's wrong to kill? What about if you're sent to war or forced to defend yourself is it still wrong?
Very few men even have the ability to cheat, while any woman can, another reason why there's a major difference.
Exactly
@Vegasrunner you're not a man with status lol. And men with status don't even think like that you're weird lol. All I hand around with are people of high social status especially men. You're not high status let alone wealthy or attractive
@CarolinaGirl5 You hang around High Status men? What does your husband do?
@Vegasrunner I am not giving my personal info to some faceless weirdo guy with low self esteem, no friends, no life , no money and that's bottom of the barrel. Not interested
@CarolinaGirl5 Another great example of female incongruency, you want me to provide you w/ personal information, but fail to provide any of your own.
Isn't it same? Fidelity is something sensed in both genders.
@bella138 No, for starters men need to have some sort of value to attract women, women don't need value to attract men. Secondly a man's role is provision and protection, whereas a woman's role is fidelity. Men that have multiple women are typically respected ie Kobe Bryant, men who allow their women to have multiple men are typically oschtrecized ie Will Smith.
Fidelity is something women also seek, so among men's roles there is fidelity too. Only if it is stated at the beginning of the relationship non-fidelity can be tolerated, however that's regardless of the gender.
Your first premise doesn't provide insight to your claims, does it mean if I find a man of higher value is it justified me to cheat on my man?
Lastly society respects Kobe Byrant means zero to me. Society respected certain child molesters for centuries wouldn't make me approve it either.
@bella138 I think l understand your confusion, just because you seek something doesn't mean it's required. No man is going to state infidelity at the beginning of a relationship because any man good enough to get into a relationship understands that women can't handle unflattering truths.
If you are lucky enough to retain a man of Higer Value you're not going to cheat, so it's a moot point.
It doesn't matter if it means anything to you as, it's an example to illustrate the fact that I'm general society respects and admires men even who cam have multiple women.
I have no confusion. Fidelity is required in a serious commitment. That's common sense.
If you're cheated on by the man you love, you don't have the same sentiments for him anymore. The difference, some women are thinking pros and cons and due to social customs they may decide to go on with that.
Nature of cheating in an emotional relationship doesn't change. That heartbreak, bitterness of infidelity you've been exposed to, sense of a punch in your stomach still stands without gender exception.
@bella138 If that were true the examples I gave you wouldn't exsist. It's required from women for sure, as HV men don't typically deal w/ who cheat.
I would argue that being cheated on by tje man you love only makes that man more attractive to women, as they understand that they have someone other women want. Again going back to the example I used Kobe Bryants wife was with him to the day he dies even after discovering he cheated.
For a man you just have to have a high enough value for the woman to accept it.
@bella138 Obviously, think about it logically vs emotionally, if a man has the ability to cheat, that means he can get other women. Let's use another sports example Tiger Woods banged hundreds of women who all knew he was married, why would those women have sex w/ him if they weren't attracted to him?
1) Same applies for woman too.
2) Men would have sex with Margot Robbie, Scarlett Johansson etc if they get the chance, their being married wouldn't prevent the attraction at all.
Cheating is a matter between two people since fidelity is likewise, other's attraction has nothing to do with it.
Because it's the same, traitor are for the trash. Unoyalty is not tolerated.
Cheating is Cheating lol. You're not getting anywhere with this post
@carolinagirl5 There's nowhere to get, simply reporting facts, how you choose to handle those facts are up to you.
@vegasrunnwe you're not reporting facts you're reporting from a lack of friends, lack of socialization and low income.
@Vegasrunner you're not a man with status lol. And men with status don't even think like that you're weird lol. All I hand around with are people of high social status especially men. You're not high status let alone wealthy or attractive..
@carolinagirl5 Interesting POV. You're willing to make this claim while understanding that we don't know each other. This highlights how women will use emotion as an attempt to justify their feelings.
@carolinagirl5 If that were true then you would have a better understanding of how HV men think. Simply assigning status to the men who share your perspective does not increase their value. HV men are men that are recognized as valuable by other men of value.
@Vegasrunner you are not high status nor high value.
@carolinagirl5 TY for sharing that baseless opinion. I understand that judgment from strangers is important to you, so you believe it matters to others.
@Vegasrunner you're not though lol. Why lie? You're not elon musk, Jeff bezos, trump, j. d Vance nor or in their tax bracket. You don't hang around people of status who are well educated with upstanding careers. you're on gag all day.
@carolinagirl5 That certainly is a position you're welcome to hold, however it simply highlights why women are excluded from determining the value of a man. As you have shown most women react emotionally when they receive information they don't like.
@Vegasrunner you're not high value and you're not high value therefore your opinion doesn't matter nor hold truth.
@carolinagirl5 If that were true you wouldn't feel the need to provide emotionally triggered response. As a HV man I've been w/ countless women so this is all standard predictable behavior.
Step 1 - Hear accurate info you don't like.
Step 2 - Respomd w/ childish insult
Step 3 - Complain that there's information that hurts your feeling.
@Vegasrunner high value /high status men aren't on this app, they don't go around with faceless profiles, and they don't walk around calling themselves high value/high status. You're not even a 1% er. You don't have any money, any success and you're not attractive. You're insecure and could never measure up to an Alexis ohanian, trump, Bill gates, Obama, elon musk, or bezos. So just stay in your little basement and be quiet
Lol 😆
@Vegasrunner what is respomd?🤣 see yeah no. You're bottom of the barrel
@carolinagirl5 Interesting perspective, so you're making the argument you are LV because you are on GAG? It's also noteworthy to point out that after complaining about a "faceless" profile you make the claim about attractiveness? This also validates what I've said about women not understanding relationship dynamics.
@Vegasrunner you're not high value nor high status. Lying to yourself won't make you an elon musk or Jeff bezzos. Take ur meds dude
@carolinagirl5 This is fascinating and highlights why I enjoy this platform. If I understand correctly your tactic is to insult someone you know nothing about in the hopes that it somehow invalidates their point? This is why this site is so great for men because it highlights female delusion in real time. It also shows that even you understand that a man's SMV is directly tied to his status. TY for this!
Because it is. Betrayal is Betrayal. Gender is irrelevant.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy Nah, Betrayal for a man would be if he refused to provide and protect.
Cheaters will cheat regardless of gender. For man i think one night stands should be okay. But emotional cheating is bot
@anonymous Interesting perspective, That's partly why cheating for a woman is so bad because women typically need an emotional connection to cheat.
Could you please explain to me how it is different?
Because cheaters are cheaters and thats not even a gendered word
its the same. Maybe slightly worse for a man considering a man is only as good as his word.
Because it is.
Where's the difference?
It is.
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