By that logic, wouldn't it be a good thing for a woman to cheat if she has the chance to sleep with a guy that's genetically superior over her partner and become his child to guarantee better offspring?
Alright, I disagree they have psychological issues, they just like sex and are more free than they were before. If that was true then majority of women today have mental problems which is pretty wrong.
@HedwigInABox Obviously it is harmful to her partner and greatly limits his passing on his genes to future generations. However, it benefits our species and that is why it is universal for all species or else cuckoldry wouldn't have evolved to such a great extent. Here is an interesting article:Cuckoldry is the fate of males the animal kingdom over. In study after study of species after species, the idea that females are naturally devoted to their one and only mates have fallen to growing evidence that many of the world's supposedly monogamous females, including human females, are guilty of their share of indiscretions. Yet in spite of these findings, many biologists, especially male biologists, held out hope that some males might be immune to this kind of treatment by their mates -- particularly the exemplary, hard-working fathers. But research reported in the Proceedings of the Royal Society shatters that dream. Although the diminutive males do everything to care for the young of their raucous, beefy females, these males are cuckolded. Under some circumstances, the researchers found, males had a 74 percent chance of raising another male's offspring, a mistake in the evolutionary race to perpetuate one's own genes. “It's about as bad as it can be for these guys,” said Dr. Peter Wrege, a behavioral ecologist at Cornell University who wrote the paper with Dr. Stephen Emlen at Cornell and Dr. Mike Webster of the State University of New York at Buffalo. “A male stuck with doing all the parental care should have a very high certainty of paternity, but in fact, that's not the case.” Dr. Patricia Adair Gowaty, behavioral ecologist at the University of Georgia at Athens, who described herself as having made a cottage industry of writing about mating behavior from the female perspective, called it “absolutely fascinating,” “The females are really in the catbird seat,” Dr. Gowaty said. “They seem to be getting whatever they want.”
madam, you are a sexist
This very inacurate women can get sore too easily suck at sex too.
@israelisevil what does being sore have to do with anything that I had said? And did I claim that women dont suck at sex? Nope. Clearly didn't. Stop trying to read between the lines to find conflict when there clearly isn't any.
I couldn't agree with you more, clearly those who say no are most likely cheats or would cheat themselves...
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I WISH the one and only responsibility for a woman was to 'not cheat', life would have been a million times easier.
@CubsterShura Well it is so life is easier (in the west anyway). They are no longer expected to cook or clean or obey their husbands or even have sex with him, even suggesting she should is considered "sexist". yet for some reason expecting him to slave away to provider for her, do all the physical labor and to protect her at his expense is just him not being a deadbeat (and he is considered lazy if he doesn't do the cooking and cleaning too). This is the case for most societies to be honest, women just don't like to admit it because it would mean they would have to start contributing just as much as he does (which statistically is not the case (studies show not only is he providing the bulk of monetary gain (70% of global spending is done by women despite them being less then 30% of global earnings meaning she is spending all of her money and most of his), as well as showing that he statistically does slightly more work then her if we take into account paid, non paid work, and child rearing into account).
I wish I wish 😂💀
@CubsterShura Well all of that was statistical data so it wasn't a "I wish" it was an absolutely this is the case as per multiple studies on the subject. In all likelihood you don't realize this because you are protected from it and have society telling you how much harder you have it when in reality that is the opposite. Society always caters to women, its our biological inclination (neotenous biological traits and things of that nature).
If my girl wasn't making money or at least trying to shed be out the house if she cheated she would be too.
Also I define cheating as any consensual contact with the genitals. If it goes to that point then it’s the point of no return. However there are different gradations of cheating. Staring at someone from the opposite sex, “emotional” infidelity, kissing someone, etc. All of that is bad however it can be forgiven depending on the circumstance. But all out sexual contact is the point of not return (or forgiveness) for me. However I know some women have this weird thing where they are more damaged from a guy having an emotional connection with another woman vs. him having meaningless sex with her.
I know a lady who was beaten by her husband for years. She cheated, gained the courage to leave and married the other guy. In some cases, people have every right to cheat.
My experiences have said the polar opposite, but hey we all believe what we want to believe.
Getting laid is a choice for women?I wish dude, I could only WISH. My goodness it's 2020!
@CubsterShura In the US the fattest most repulsive women can get laid. Maybe not by Prince Charming but she can definitively get sex if she wants (just not with Leo DiCaprio or Brad Pitt). Not so for men. America is a prudish country.
Am pretty sure no ordinary good-looking woman would get laid by Leo DiCaprio or Brad Pitt either.
But it's exciting in a way. I have much better sex with my hubby, but the excitement getting and other
It's not nice to say or hear , but that's my experience
Have you ever heard of paternity tests?
@HedwigInABox Yes, but the point is we are hard wired to be concerned about paternity and in many countries (like France) paternity testing is OUTLAWED to protect whoring women... go Feminism.
So let's say you don't live in the only country that bans paternity tests, a man can absolutely be sure whether his kids are actually his by taking the test. So in almost every country a guy technically doesn't have to raise another dudes kids if he has the brains to get an paternity test. Especially if his wife cheated. And the law doesn't exist to protect women. It exist to protect kids. They are seen as the most important partie by the law. More important than the mother and father. So their right of an intact family is above the right of the parents to know who the actual father is. It's a terrible law and I don't agree with it but it was not made to protect women. Even though they definitely benefit from it.
So basically childless couples, or people on birth control shouldn't have to care if their partners are cheating cuz it does not matter as long as babies aren't made 😂😂😂
@HedwigInABox Actually you are wrong. Inost western countries, including the U. S., the non-biological "father" is compelled to pay child support until he proves the child is not his. Proving paternity is an expensive process whereby the non-father has to retain an attorney and do several filings with the court. During this time the non-father can be JAILED for not paying the support. Once the papers are processed the non-father can finally be released.Does the whoring mother face any penalties? Nope. She goes off scott free. Paternity fraud should be a FELONY.
I agree that it should be a felony. I know in my country it costs around 200 Euros to get the test done. It's not that much in my opinion but I realize that it can be much more expensive in other countries.
You sound like a doormat
Ha! it's not so far away from your own opinion @JessieBellll, only with reversed gender bias.
Since you wanna downvote me tell me what do men want from women?
Downvoted for the shitty logic that because men give women things like finance and protection that loyalty is somehow less important.There are many reasons why your comment is problematic. I am not saying that you mean the following but it could easily imply:- that as long as a man is financially providing it is ok if he cheats.- that if the woman in the relationship is financially independent or maybe she's the breadwinner then she should be able to get away with cheatingNeither is true. It doesn't matter who earns how much and who provides for whom and all that shit. Cheating is wrong no matter what.
Math time... you have two people one has 3 duties the other has only one... let them both fail at one duty each... congratulations you had one job and you fucked it up!
So you think women are worse
The consequences of women cheating are greater than men cheating because you can't be certain who she's pregnant with, you just have to take her word for it.
Because naturally only men cheat and never women. After all women are perfect and never ever harm men or betray them and act like they are gods gift to the world, by say acting like they are never in the wrong even though they are as likely to cheat as a man is but pretend like they are not.
@hellionthesagereborn Nobody SAID THAT, Hellion. The ones who cheat male or female are equally bad.
How you wrote it implied at least to me that you were suggesting men think they are gods gift to women. IF not I rescind my comment.
@hellionthesagereborn The THEY referred to the particular men we were referring to, not men as a whole. And my comment included MEN AND WOMEN. Cheaters are all the same. They think they are fabulous and they deserve to have as many people and as much stuff in their lives as they can fit! They're greedy. Why? Boy, that's a 800 page mental health tome.
Then my comment is rescinded. It seemed to be implying just men which is what I had issue with (because for some reason society likes to act as if only men cheat).
I don't know how to explain it. But I’m NOT saying that if a guy cheats it’s ok. It’s just different