Men and women are not the same. People like to disagree with this these days, but it's true. Psychologists know this. So do evolutionary biologists.
And that's why in their papers you can read that when men cheat they are More frequently doing it out of pent-up frustration or some distraction, but not an emotional connection. Whereas the vast majority of times when women cheat it's an emotional connection
Logically and rationally they are equally bad. Sure both genders have different psychology and whatnot but doesn't make the magnitude of cheating any worse for one of them.
I agree cheating women are worse. It all comes down to biology. If a woman is a cheater than a man can never be sure if the children she bears are his or some other swinging dicks. With a man, he may father a child with another woman but the woman never has doubt about paternity (unless she takes a lot of cock).
@HedwigInABox Yes, but the point is we are hard wired to be concerned about paternity and in many countries (like France) paternity testing is OUTLAWED to protect whoring women... go Feminism.
So let's say you don't live in the only country that bans paternity tests, a man can absolutely be sure whether his kids are actually his by taking the test. So in almost every country a guy technically doesn't have to raise another dudes kids if he has the brains to get an paternity test. Especially if his wife cheated. And the law doesn't exist to protect women. It exist to protect kids. They are seen as the most important partie by the law. More important than the mother and father. So their right of an intact family is above the right of the parents to know who the actual father is. It's a terrible law and I don't agree with it but it was not made to protect women. Even though they definitely benefit from it.
So basically childless couples, or people on birth control shouldn't have to care if their partners are cheating cuz it does not matter as long as babies aren't made 😂😂😂
@HedwigInABox Actually you are wrong. Inost western countries, including the U. S., the non-biological "father" is compelled to pay child support until he proves the child is not his. Proving paternity is an expensive process whereby the non-father has to retain an attorney and do several filings with the court. During this time the non-father can be JAILED for not paying the support. Once the papers are processed the non-father can finally be released.
Does the whoring mother face any penalties? Nope. She goes off scott free. Paternity fraud should be a FELONY.
I agree that it should be a felony. I know in my country it costs around 200 Euros to get the test done. It's not that much in my opinion but I realize that it can be much more expensive in other countries.
I don't think cheating is exclusive to a gender but I do think that whoever cheats is scum. Also, women cheating would usually have some emotional attachment, whereas the same can't be said for men all the time. Sometimes some men cheat just cause they want to have sex, no feelings towards it. But I believe women cheat for deeper reasons.
Women have more of a biological imperative to be loyal than men so it is more disgraceful in my opinion there’s a reason our culture has traditionally slut shamed women more than men. Women hold the whole culture together through their sexual selectivity, this is the only way to keep male sexuality in check for 90% of dudes. Both genders are equally immoral in cheating though, it’s the same wrong and I’ve no issue calling both sluts
Yes. Both genders cheat for the same and different reasons. The reason (s)? Well, it depends on the individual, not their gender. We really need to get rid of those man-made generalized traits. They're useless and dumb
Both are bad but for women the only thing they have is honor and respect for the man. Without these why date a woman. Meanwhile the things men bring are things like finance and protection.
Downvoted for the shitty logic that because men give women things like finance and protection that loyalty is somehow less important.
There are many reasons why your comment is problematic. I am not saying that you mean the following but it could easily imply: - that as long as a man is financially providing it is ok if he cheats. - that if the woman in the relationship is financially independent or maybe she's the breadwinner then she should be able to get away with cheating
Neither is true. It doesn't matter who earns how much and who provides for whom and all that shit. Cheating is wrong no matter what.
Math time... you have two people one has 3 duties the other has only one... let them both fail at one duty each... congratulations you had one job and you fucked it up!
The consequences of women cheating are greater than men cheating because you can't be certain who she's pregnant with, you just have to take her word for it.
Because naturally only men cheat and never women. After all women are perfect and never ever harm men or betray them and act like they are gods gift to the world, by say acting like they are never in the wrong even though they are as likely to cheat as a man is but pretend like they are not.
@hellionthesagereborn The THEY referred to the particular men we were referring to, not men as a whole. And my comment included MEN AND WOMEN. Cheaters are all the same. They think they are fabulous and they deserve to have as many people and as much stuff in their lives as they can fit! They're greedy. Why? Boy, that's a 800 page mental health tome.
Then my comment is rescinded. It seemed to be implying just men which is what I had issue with (because for some reason society likes to act as if only men cheat).
Entirely. My brother was (probably still is) a lying cheating a-hole - not just towards his partner, but in general - that's all he was capable of. The women that I have known to be that way - very similar, more or less useless trash (some had more capability as far as my opinion goes, but never used it/were happy to be sluts living in almost slum conditions)
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Cheating is cheating doesn’t matter if it’s a man or a woman!
Men and women are not the same. People like to disagree with this these days, but it's true.
Psychologists know this. So do evolutionary biologists.
And that's why in their papers you can read that when men cheat they are More frequently doing it out of pent-up frustration or some distraction, but not an emotional connection. Whereas the vast majority of times when women cheat it's an emotional connection
Logically and rationally they are equally bad. Sure both genders have different psychology and whatnot but doesn't make the magnitude of cheating any worse for one of them.
I agree cheating women are worse. It all comes down to biology. If a woman is a cheater than a man can never be sure if the children she bears are his or some other swinging dicks. With a man, he may father a child with another woman but the woman never has doubt about paternity (unless she takes a lot of cock).
Have you ever heard of paternity tests?
@HedwigInABox Yes, but the point is we are hard wired to be concerned about paternity and in many countries (like France) paternity testing is OUTLAWED to protect whoring women... go Feminism.
So let's say you don't live in the only country that bans paternity tests, a man can absolutely be sure whether his kids are actually his by taking the test. So in almost every country a guy technically doesn't have to raise another dudes kids if he has the brains to get an paternity test. Especially if his wife cheated.
And the law doesn't exist to protect women. It exist to protect kids. They are seen as the most important partie by the law. More important than the mother and father. So their right of an intact family is above the right of the parents to know who the actual father is. It's a terrible law and I don't agree with it but it was not made to protect women. Even though they definitely benefit from it.
So basically childless couples, or people on birth control shouldn't have to care if their partners are cheating cuz it does not matter as long as babies aren't made 😂😂😂
@HedwigInABox Actually you are wrong. Inost western countries, including the U. S., the non-biological "father" is compelled to pay child support until he proves the child is not his. Proving paternity is an expensive process whereby the non-father has to retain an attorney and do several filings with the court. During this time the non-father can be JAILED for not paying the support. Once the papers are processed the non-father can finally be released.
Does the whoring mother face any penalties? Nope. She goes off scott free. Paternity fraud should be a FELONY.
I agree that it should be a felony. I know in my country it costs around 200 Euros to get the test done. It's not that much in my opinion but I realize that it can be much more expensive in other countries.
I don't think cheating is exclusive to a gender but I do think that whoever cheats is scum.
Also, women cheating would usually have some emotional attachment, whereas the same can't be said for men all the time. Sometimes some men cheat just cause they want to have sex, no feelings towards it. But I believe women cheat for deeper reasons.
Both are equally bad. The girl is a slut who goes from guy to guy and the guy is just a male whore who can’t keep his cock in his pants.
Women have more of a biological imperative to be loyal than men so it is more disgraceful in my opinion there’s a reason our culture has traditionally slut shamed women more than men. Women hold the whole culture together through their sexual selectivity, this is the only way to keep male sexuality in check for 90% of dudes. Both genders are equally immoral in cheating though, it’s the same wrong and I’ve no issue calling both sluts
Both are at the same level to me. A really low level
Yes. Both genders cheat for the same and different reasons. The reason (s)? Well, it depends on the individual, not their gender. We really need to get rid of those man-made generalized traits. They're useless and dumb
Both are bad but for women the only thing they have is honor and respect for the man. Without these why date a woman. Meanwhile the things men bring are things like finance and protection.
Since you wanna downvote me tell me what do men want from women?
Downvoted for the shitty logic that because men give women things like finance and protection that loyalty is somehow less important.
There are many reasons why your comment is problematic. I am not saying that you mean the following but it could easily imply:
- that as long as a man is financially providing it is ok if he cheats.
- that if the woman in the relationship is financially independent or maybe she's the breadwinner then she should be able to get away with cheating
Neither is true. It doesn't matter who earns how much and who provides for whom and all that shit. Cheating is wrong no matter what.
Math time... you have two people one has 3 duties the other has only one... let them both fail at one duty each... congratulations you had one job and you fucked it up!
Cheating men just get sex.
Cheating women can commit paternity fraud.
Who different ballgame.
So you think women are worse
The consequences of women cheating are greater than men cheating because you can't be certain who she's pregnant with, you just have to take her word for it.
To me, a cheater is a cheater and everything bad, disrespectful, degratory etc that follows about the cheater is independent of their gender.
Exactly. They think they're god's gift and can do what they like regardless of the people's feelings they hurt.
Because naturally only men cheat and never women. After all women are perfect and never ever harm men or betray them and act like they are gods gift to the world, by say acting like they are never in the wrong even though they are as likely to cheat as a man is but pretend like they are not.
@hellionthesagereborn Nobody SAID THAT, Hellion. The ones who cheat male or female are equally bad.
How you wrote it implied at least to me that you were suggesting men think they are gods gift to women. IF not I rescind my comment.
@hellionthesagereborn The THEY referred to the particular men we were referring to, not men as a whole. And my comment included MEN AND WOMEN. Cheaters are all the same. They think they are fabulous and they deserve to have as many people and as much stuff in their lives as they can fit! They're greedy. Why? Boy, that's a 800 page mental health tome.
Then my comment is rescinded. It seemed to be implying just men which is what I had issue with (because for some reason society likes to act as if only men cheat).
Generally yeah but the motivation is usually different. Men cheat to have sex with different women whereas women seem to cheat to find a new man.
Cheating women and cheating men are both the trash at the bottom of the trash bin, all wet and the worst.
yep, cheating is cheating, no matter what your gender is. if you cheat your an asshole
NO ONE 'cheats' by themself, doesn't matter 'gay' or 'straight'...
the underlying motivators remain the same.
A cheater is a cheater, no matter the gender. Women have it easier, but it doesn't mean men are better for doing it. Cheaters are garbage
Cheating is cheating, it has no gender distinction.
Right.
@serious Thanks.
Entirely. My brother was (probably still is) a lying cheating a-hole - not just towards his partner, but in general - that's all he was capable of.
The women that I have known to be that way - very similar, more or less useless trash (some had more capability as far as my opinion goes, but never used it/were happy to be sluts living in almost slum conditions)