Career focused women here 🙋🏻♀️ I would not mind having a partner that stays home, I would love that actually. He can take care of the cooking , I never have time plus I’m not really good at it, I’m better at cleaning lol Just make sure you always have an opinion, don’t be a yes person because you feel you have to. I hate people that are just say yes all the time. Give her a challenge , argue once in a while and always take the lead at home, she will let you. Don’t assume because you are not working you now have to listen to everything she says. Girls love a confident guy they can lead them, even if we are extremely confident ourselves, I know I do. You can be dominant in other ways, like in the bedroom , keep things interesting and fun, but lead her and she will love you ! I’m in charge of making decisions all day long, when I’m home is the last thing I want to do. Not to say I won’t have an opinion, I will, and a strong one every time. All I care about is that we come to a compromise and we are both happy. Not wrong , just what you two want to do, as long as everyone is happy, that’s all that matters. Good luck
I liked what you said. Years ago late 90s early 2000s, I was the stay at home dad. I got laid off and couldn't afford daycare with one income (daycare was expensive back then to)
@humanearth thanks! I’m sure your partner/wife appreciated you staying home, it was probably very comforting to know your kids were in good hands. It’s about supporting each other and doing what’s best for the relationship , it’s not about labeling people for doing what makes them happy. Good for you and your kids !
The way I see it's difficult to raise powerful and independent children when you yourself don't come off as powerful and independent man. If you are dependent on your wife and your three year old sees this you can rationalize to him in his teenage years that you're a strong man but what if he saw you begging your wife for allowance money he will see a man's place in this world as beneath a woman's. He has no concept of money at the age of three but he sees his father begging to his mother and this then becomes the template for his future relationships with women. I saw my father asserting dominance over my mother so I assumed that's what women wanted. Yes, women enjoy being dominated and losing control from a man because it shows that he's assertive and in control but it's not uncommon for many of today's strong women to seek out weaker men to take care of the domestic duties. I think the culture of single mothers out there means that women are accepting that many men don't grow up and stay man children their entire lives. And by staying at home you're basically teaching your children that men are meant to rely on women for their lively hood. Women lose respect for men who stay at home. Women want a strong masculine man and if they don't respect you then the children will see you that way as well and assume that the man is not be respected. I know most of this is not what you wanted me to say. I know you want to be in this house husband role. And I'm sorry if I offend you in anyway.
But why begging needs to happen? All he needs is access to the same account. He has the card he buys what he needs. Also he doesn't have to believe men are under women. He will know for sure that each couple has a different dynamic. From looking at what others are like, sees in movies and social media. Even the parents can tell him there are others ways. Women don't lose respect for a man who stays at home or think he is weak, before you ask I don't stay at home, I have a job and I am married, but that's exactly why I know this. Women don't marry you just for your money. In fact stats show that men who help around the house have longer and happier marriages.
Your choice, however same with either partner, as it applies equally 2 girls or 2 guys.
you have a single wage coming in to pay for everything.
you should have 2 wages coming in.
if you are not having kids, the amount of house work is fuck all really.
When I lived near Birmingham with my ex girlfriend, we had a cleaner come in and keep the house sorted, get shopping.
it was for a few hours a day.
i could work from home, work from office, travel etc, as could my ex girlfriend.
the cleaner took care of the rest.
we were pulling in enough from two wages to easily cover the cleaners hours.
even if you say only earned (after deductions) $50k dollars a year and $20k went on the cleaner, that’s say $30k to cover holidays, cars, better house, etc.
It's totally fine and it's up to you but I don't understand why you would need to? If you don't have children why would you need to stay at home. You have house wives because they need to take the kids to school and from school need to get them ready and sort out everything that comes with them.
If you're worried about not spending enough time together then you quitting and her keep working isn't going to sort any of that. It'll probably be better for both of you to work less hours like 40 instead of 50 or 30 instead of 40, work four days instead of five. That way you both have extra time together and there's financial security if one of you happens to suddenly lose their job. The only way I'd understand it would be if you were to have a home business of sorts where your still making an income.
No man I won’t sorry to say this but that’s not your place I don’t believe it’s either genders place anymore at this point both genders have to work to make everything work out unless one of you is got an extremely good job in a trade or stem field and you’re towards the end but let’s be frank for just a moment a man doesn’t perform like a man is not respected by neither MANo man I won’t sorry to say this but that’s not your place I don’t believe it’s either genders place anymore at this point both genders have to work to make everything work out unless one of you is got an extremely good job in a trade or stem field and you’re towards the end but let’s be frank for just a moment a man doesn’t perform like a man is not respected by neither men nor women.
I believe in equality so maybe, If women can be stay at home wives, men should be able to.
I would likely not want one, giving that you really need dual income to live anymore. If I were to ever have kids and it was cheaper for one of us to be a stay at home parent, I might accept it while the children are young but when they get older I'd expect him to go back to work.
It also depends who makes more, if he makes twice as much as me, then better for me to stay home. If I make twice as much as him, maybe better for him.
Otherwise I call guys like that, freeloading lazy butts.
The problem with being a house husband is the same as being a house wife. You lose all authority in the relationship, you become a follower with your spouse as the leader. You want to buy yourself something? You need her blessing. You want to plan a vacation? You need her to be on board with financially. You want you buy her an anniversary gift? It will be technically her money buying it.
These details might seem trivial but in the long run will result in her holding that power over your head, just like men used to do to their house wives half a century ago.
So if you're willing to be this submissive to someone by all means do what you gotta do, just know it's not sunshine and rainbows
When did I say it was ok? I'm simply laying out the reality of it. As a perosnal opinion I am not into women who's only aspirations are doing dishes, but some people are, and some women are ok doing dishes for a living however the house spouse loses power in the relationship that is a fact that had nothing to do with whether it's ok or not.
Frankly though, the way things are in this economy they better be making GREAT money to do it. It's best if both are making an income in my opinion. If you can afford it though and your spouse is ok with it, then there is nothing wrong with it.
Then ehy woukd she have a problem with that? It was HER idea. Look, if you love her, she loves you and both of you respect each other, then thered be no problem at all.
I've been a stay at home dad of 3 since my lay off during early covid 2020. My wife got a great job right around that time and we live comfortable. I'm honestly a better care giver and over all parent. Better cook. Better at house keeping. I was the one up at night feeding the kids as babies even though I had work in the morning. When she was at home for the first 4 years of the middle childs life everything was off balance. As soon as we let go of a man staying home feeling and went with it everything has fallen in place. I've started a small business during the school year as a handyman. But in I'm still home every second the kids are.
Some women would absolutelly love it! Actually any help around the house is wonderful, but some more traditional women could feel like they are needless maybe, its a natural role for some and they might feel a bit off when they couldn't do it, but I personally think its great
I have a buddy that does just that. His wife works for a large, well known, tech company and seems to make more than enough for their needs. He stays home and takes care of the house and their 2 kids. They seem happy and content with the arrangement.
I don't fk'n get it, but it's not my marriage so..
Not at all. Women love the idea of being the ones bringing home the paycheck these last two decades, just to keep bitching about it as a direct consequence. For what regards us, being able to do fuck all but take care of the house with the radio or the TV on all the time and being sustained by our other half is a nice enough change of pace. Let's see for how long this will last before the feminists will start yelling for this, too.
You do what you wanna do homie, but don't be surprised if she doesn't respect you. There's a reason why men were in positions of leadership for millenia. Don't listen to those feminists and get you a job and a house, and then search for a traditional housewife. That's my advice. However, once again you're free to do whatever.
@Subarugirl That doesn't disprove anything that I said. In the 21st century, divorce is at an all-time high, 80% of the time initiated by women, and this is with the "50-50" mindset. God help us all if men started to be "stay at home husbands".
Actually divorce is on a decline, and it’s 70% that are initiated by the wife. The most commonly reported major contributors to divorce were lack of commitment, infidelity, and conflict/arguing, or just over all incompatibility.
@Subarugirl I've had this argument before many times. No, divorce is not on the decline, it's going up. I know the causes of divorce, but I also know men are less likely to divorce and are more likely to try and work on their marriage if the wife was in the wrong. You don't have a point.
@Subarugirl Lamfao only since the pandemic, and that doesn't mean that they won't divorce later. Divorce rates have been steadily rising since the 1960s. Why? Second wave feminism, that's why. Men are less likely to divorce the worst wife our there, because we actually have something to lose financially, but women are very quick to divorce, sometimes for the dumbest shit ever. Can't tell me men are wrong 80% of the time, it sounds absolutely ridiculous. The lack of accountability is unreal.
Marriage is at the lowest it has ever been since 1867. Divorce is high. You gave some bullshit circumstantial evidence that has to do with the pandemic over the discussion of Divorce. With the millennial generation? Less marriage = less divorce. Boom. Not impressive in the least. 53% of marriages still end in divorce, so that's not encouraging in the slightest. Why are "people" bad at choosing partners? 🤔 Not women? See, it's hilarious because when women get treated like shit they blame the man, but if God forbid his wife treats him like shit, he chose badly? Double standard. I say let's fix that. Men don't complain when they pick the wrong girl, because we know that vetting your partner is very important, and you can only blame yourself if you get screwed, which explains the hesitancy over marrying 304s. WOMEN complain about guys who do them wrong, instead of paying attention to signals and red flags. Men are less likely to divorce, not because we aren't decisive. Men are more logical and decisive than women, but if we apply the cost/benefit analysis, it's too much of a risk to lose 50% of your net worth over a divorce, and that causes plenty of men to try and fix their marriage instead. Of course if the wife was the bad one and she wasn't willing to come to the table, you cannot save a broken marriage by yourself, so it's better to be very careful who you mess with. Women? Women don't have anything to lose. They will take your shit and leave, and then complain like they always do. 80% of the time, and you really think it's always the men's fault? You have to be delusional. "Irreconcilable differences" is not a reason to get a divorce, yet it is very common nowadays.
@Subarugirl What this shows is that young men are waking up and putting themselves first, whether to get a prenups done, avoid feminists or not get married. Prevention is better than cure. I for one am an advocate for marriage, just not to those man-hating feminists. You want this young man to be a stay-at-home husband? Nothing you say surprises me at all.
I want this young man to be able to live a fulfilling life that makes him happy and if that is being a stay at home husband than so be it. I support that choice because I support the equality of the sexes, equal opportunity, regardless of race, sex, or race.
@Subarugirl Then why did you reply to my comment, genius? I said you can do whatever you want, but my advice was to be the head of the household and be the masculine one, since he asked for opinions. Instead, your reply was "I rake it you're not married... lol" like a troll would. If you think he should do whatever, point out to me where in my answer I said he must only live one way that would be more fulfilling, when I clearly said he has that choice, but I gave my opinion. What I said that probably triggered you is my point about feminists, which I know for a fact you are a feminist from all your talking points, but you kept beating around the bush and trying to prove a point. They call it S. I. G. N language (Shame, Insults, Guilt and the Need to be right) and that last one is you. All your arguments where circumstantial at best, and you didn't attack my talking points, but you went straight after my marital status, knowing damn well I'm not at a point in my life where I'm looking to get married due to my age, but that doesn't mean I don't know what to look for. My parents are still together, happily for 26 years now. I know exactly what works and what doesn't. Keep up the attitude, and you might find yourself in divorce court in 10 years time.
If you can’t handle having your stance challenged, maybe you shouldn’t be here lol. And just FYI I am not a feminist hun, I support gender equality. You aren’t married are you? My point was, how well can you really understand something that you have never experienced? All you can know is what you have been told and what others have shown you of their relationships. I was married by your age.
@Subarugirl You never challenged my stance, because you didn't address any of what I said. For your info, I'm not looking for a wife any time soon, as I will probably become a board certified physician about 11 years from now, so I'm trying to focus on my studies for the most part. That doesn't mean that I don't read about topics from time to time. Men and women get married at different ages by the way. For me to be the provider in the household, that means I first need to earn money to support the household, and I'm not there yet since I'm in university. Women don't have to worry about that, so they can get married at a younger age, so you comparing your situation to mine is absurd. Secondly, men approach women, not vice versa. If I'm not dating a girl yet, it's because I haven't talked to any yet. If a girl isn't dating, that could either mean guys aren't approaching her, or that she turns down every guy that approaches her. If we take that second scenario, women have options, but men create their options, and I'm not looking. Thirdly, it's not about "experience" it's about communication. Just because you are married to someone, that doesn't mean it's a great marriage. That has to be the dumbest point ever. It takes maturity on both ends to be able to discuss topics and have great communication, and there are single people with that level of maturity that lack the "experience". Experience alone is like someone who gets divorced and remarried 3 times, and then always blames their partners for their own shortcomings. I have eyes and ears, and I have a very good example (my parents) on what to follow. I am willing to bet that's much more important than your "experience".
@Subarugirl Finally, gender equality IS feminism. Men and women aren't created equal, so we cannot be equal. We have the same human value, but we are different in nature. If you believe in equality, that makes you a feminist. If you cannot answer a question properly, don't goof off and tell others to leave a platform that you don't own, because that makes you sound less intelligent.
Gender equality is when people of all genders have equal rights, responsibilities and opportunities. Men and women are not the same. That’s pretty obvious. Also I approached my husband, not the other way around. And my point still remains, how well can you really understand something you have never experienced?
@Subarugirl You haven't read my first of two comments. Allow me to reiterate: Gender equality = feminism. You cannot say you're for gender equality without saying you're a feminist. Men and women can never have the same responsibilities. Wanna know why? Women give birth, men build. Women take care of the kids, men create. Women educate the next generation, men protect. Women inspire, men innovate. We ARE different. Men and women compliment each other's differences. If men and women were the same, we would hate each other. Two similar poles on a magnet repel each other, it's that simple. I don't know your guy, but I know that women have men hitting on them at all times, so it's definitely a red flag if a chick goes out of her way to talk to you, because it suggests masculine behavior. You sound arrogant in your talk, another red flag. "How can you know something you haven't experienced" when I clearly gave you examples. Experience is not more important than COMMUNICATION, or else you would be jumping for one marriage to another. Communication requires a level of maturity (which you seem to lack) and chemistry between both parties. Maturity means you are able to have an open-mind and compromise with your partner to make things work. However, it also means you trust his leadership to be the head of the household, as has worked for millennia. With you it seems like you like to call the shots, since you clearly disagree with my opinion on the man being the leader. RED FLAG. You cannot change the laws of nature, and you will probably find out in 10 years.
Oh I have no issues with men or women being in positions of leadership. I do have an issue with being discrimination based off of sex. Also the literal definition of gender equality is “ the state in which access to rights or opportunities is unaffected by gender.”
@Subarugirl Do you not pay attention to what I ever write? I was talking about your RESPONSIBILITIES. Equality means literal equality. Equality = everyone gets treated literally the same way. Equity = people are treated differently regarding their nature, and provided with what they need to succeed. Gender equity I have no problem with. Gender equality IS the problem. Being a "team" us you saying whatever he can do you can do as well and vice versa, which is simply not true. You're not a "team" in a relationship, you should be more of a unit when you compliment what the other can do rather than try to do exactly the same thing that he does.
@Subarugirl Team: you both cook on different days, you both clean on different days and you both work. Unit: you cook, he does the dishes. You clean, he throws the trash. You raise the kids, he works to provide for the household and pay rent. See the difference? Men don't want a roommate, they want a wife.
Lol oh honey that’s not how marriage works. We both cook, both clean, and support each other. We both raise our son, we both work to pay the mortgage. A successful marriage isn’t 50/50 it’s when you are both in 100%. Being a team doesn’t mean that you have the exact same rolls in that dynamic. A team is defined as a group of people who perform interdependent tasks to work toward accomplishing a common mission or specific objective.
@Subarugirl Both cook and both clean doesn't work. That makes you a roommate. You are very disagreeable, very combative and stubborn. Even with all the points I gave you didn't bother reading any of them. Interdependence can occur in traditional, or so-called "old-school" marriages to a higher degree than modern marriages. Men on average earn more than women, so we don't need a source if financial support. Adults regardless of gender should know the basics if survival, that are how to cook and clean after oneself. If I was to apply both to the equation, that means that technically a man doesn't need you, since you don't offer what he would ask for. Now let's pause for a second. I know you have a man, but it's about what caliber of man would let his wife boss him around and set the rules around the house, is a man that doesn't have backbone.
@Subarugirl Then you go on the "we both give it 100%, not 50/50" bs. Let me explain to you why that's not true:
If we were to say that your effort and his are at the ratio of 1:1, so they are both equal, technically a ratio of 1:1 is equal to 50:50, but it's the details that matter. What do I mean by that? Your overall contribution to the relationship can be 50, but maybe 30 in some areas and 70 in others, or it could be 50 in all areas and it would still give the same ratio. If it's 50 in all areas, congratulations you are a masculine woman. You believe you can do whatever men can do better, even when that's totally false, and you also believe he should do your wifely duties for you, and because he doesn't have backbone, he's OK with that. If you are cleaning the countertops, that doesn't mean you're not doing your 50. If he's working hard everyday, it doesn't mean he's not doing his 50 if he doesn't cook, because he does other stuff. You taking care of the household allows him to work harder than he usually does, and motivates him more. You giving him household responsibilities will decrease his overall productivity. Simple. Of course you don't care about his productivity, because you also have a job, and that's what feminism has told you to do. You only hear what you want to hear and don't give a damn what a man thinks, because you believe that makes you "strong" when really it shows an intellectual weakness on your part, the inability to see the other side. I see your side and I try to understand it often, but it never works as has been proven with the decrease in marriages and the high divorce rate, so I don't follow it. So go ahead and be stubborn, it won't win you anything.
Well first of all my husband has a doctorate and I don't boss him around, we make decision together. I support my husband as he supports me. lol I don't give him chores, he is a productive member of the household. I would assume that if he wanted a meek passive woman that doesn't stand up for herself, I am sure he would have picked one, but at the end of the day he chose, as I chose him. Interdependence occurs in modern marriages too We just don't let outdated gender norms dictate our relationship. The point here which is what really ticks you off is that I don't care what a teenager thinks about my marriage. I work because he wants me toand because I want to. In fact I was the sole financial provider while he was in grad school. In this day and age very few people are able to solely financially support their family on just one income. If you do end up graduating med school, passing you board exams, and residency you will have the student loans that go along with that. You are young, and one of these days, if you do get married you will learn to appreciate the support strong woman. I care about his productivity, because I care about him, and his career as well as the financial welfare of my family. This whole concept of a "traditional" marriage with traditional gender roles doesn't work for everyone, not everyone has the privilege to be able to chose that. What I can tell you is that if it weren't for me, he'd be in a hell of a lot more debt, would still be paying rent instead of a mortgage, have the career opportunities he has now, me, or the son he adores. So before you start being a judgmental asshole, realize that I gave up my education, and the career I wanted to support his, to support him, and our family, to put them first. It's notmy inability to see the other side, because I grew up seeing it. It's that no one gets to tell me how my relationship between my husband and I should be, besides my husband and I.
@Subarugirl Let's set something very straight: YOU wrote under MY post bullshiting me when I gave the young man MY opinion, so I'm not sorry if my honesty hurts your feelings. You came in talking about your marriage, but when you get pushback now I'm the asshole teenager and you're the wise one? Yeah, bet. You're delusional and self-absorbed. Your man has no backbone. Sorry not sorry. A doctorate degree doesn't mean shit for most people, and the fact he let you pay for that means whenever you guys have an argument, you can bring it up to shit on him. Weak. I might end up taking debt, but I will never rely on someone else to pay it off for me. I am responsible enough to understand that medicine is a commitment, and a tough one both mentally and financially, but I do what I do for a reason. You gave up your career? Don't wine about it. Women throughout the years have given up much more than you have, and the results most of the time are truly wonderful. My mother is a pharmacist, and so is my father. They both used to work, but we never got any time as the kids, so they hired a maid. What happens? The maid was terrible. She was abusive and bad in all ways imaginable. It took me older siblings telling my mother that after YEARS of enduring her bs for my mom to kick her out, and then my mother quit her job and became a stay at home mother. That was much better for us afterwards, and my parents are still together. When I tell you about stuff, I'm not just speaking out of my ass, because I lived it. You think you know it all because you're older and this and that, but in your 24 years of life you haven't learned that wisdom doesn't come from age. I never claimed to be anything, but you act like you're the only one who knows how shit works. No you're not.
@Subarugirl Gender norms have worked for centuries amongst different groups of people around the world, and that's no coincidence. You're never going to change how nature works on a mass scale. If you want to do that in your life, go right ahead. Don't cry if it doesn't work, and most certainly don't push your ideas on those who don't agree with you. Remember, you commented, so miss me with that I am "telling you what to do" bs.
@Subarugirl "When you grow up and have an adult conversation" typical answer from a narcissist like yourself. by the way, it's "waste" not "waist". Go troll someone else weirdo.
no, it's a pretty good gig I'm living right now as my girlfriend has the career. I did though have a long career and not sure what young woman would like that. but I suspect a woman who is a high achiever who wants support, like maybe a ceo or dr might like having that support at home to care for the kids while she works. probably narrows your field down, but not to zero. Then again, a lot of women like men who have goals and purpose, so have some aspirations helps. interesting question.
This just sounds like code for: I want to play video games all day and have a woman come and bang me and take care of ally expenses. Here's an idea, get remote work from home. But do more. You said you aren't even having kids. Exactly what are you bringing to the table? Yes this should be asked of both sexes. I do house work and take care of my dad and want to look for better paying work. I think all men should have a paying job.
No, it's not wrong if you are doing all the household chores and she is fine with it.
I want a career focused housewife and I want to be a career focused house husband. basically split household chores, and a work at home business where me and her are the two bosses (and the only employees). No kids ever, also we both retire this way.
no. you do you. i mean we live in probably the best time for that to maybe become a reality for you. but good luck finding a woman who actually wants that kind of dude. everyone will tell you how great and "quality" provoking this is. but no girl wants that type of guys. ideal worlds are different to real words.
Currently, my wife is in a position to earn more than I can, so she is working. I cook 95% of the meals, do the laundry, pack the dishwasher, manage the budget, mow the lawn, etc. She hand washes the oddball dishes and a lot of the garden clean-up. She also puts-out the garbage simply because she is the last one home on the night before garbage day, so she just wheels it out after emptying the small cans in the house into the big one. It works out.
I don't know dude. Women tend to like higher men than they are.
A career focused woman may only accept house husband when he was superior to her in career and despite that he left his career to become a house husband.
Eh. Eh.. yeah, you should be main income, otherwise don't expect to have any say in financial matters. In the other way around, due to our nature, we have that say plus we as men tend to care more about our wives' opinions more than out wives' about ours so she still will have a say. Both work or you work alone. I don't advise this and it can cause issues.
If your partner is ok being the bread Winner there’s nothing wrong with it only if you all have children. If you don’t have children it just makes you look like a lazy man.
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Yeah its bad, she's gonna be wearing the pants in the relationship and your just gonna be going along for the ride. Woman usually want a guy that takes charge so you’ll probably be doing all the housework while she lays with other guys cause she “had to stay at the office all day”
Ironically I met another anonymous user who is female who is exactly looking for a househusband. Maybe the both of you two might eventually meet up and if not, there are tons of working women who is looking for househusbands.
It's not wrong at all. Just that your old lady will probably subconsciously end up being resentful and developing a grudge against you. No matter how much of a modern feminist she claims to be.
thats basically my thinking for most career women tbh and... in order to support this type of thing you'd have to be career driven in the first place as the wife. It seems like a self defeating scenario long term.
Hey I totally get it. I don't care if she's got a spectacular career but I care that she works and does it honestly. The reason? Simply put I can actually relate to a working girl. We share house hold duties 50/50 and as corny as this sounds I find the idea oddly romantic for some reason. Same reason I like a girl who's faced adversity in life, I can relate. Does that sound weird maybe? 😂
Some might, but they will probably not want a relationship of equals. You also make yourself financially vulnerable if you split up.
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It all comes down to your self esteem. If you can handle that (I couldn’t) than I’m sure there is minority but very specific set of women who would love that.
But your career woman will likely be controlling in other ways. I’ve encountered a few women who thought they could do this shit to me because I’m a “nice guy”. Well I’m a nice guy until I’m not. It got old real quick.
Nothing is wrong with this in principle (though it's not something I would do); just seek a career oriented wife who would understand and accept you as you are.
I thought that only happened because of circumastance... I dont think I've ever heard a dude say anything like this before 🤔. Although i am aware it happens
I don’t think it’s wrong. As long as you do your role as a house husband, you won’t have problems. I find house husbands and career wives attractive when they’re in a relationship (no homo).
I have lots of friends who are white guys who have trouble finding someone to date because so many of the women they meet only date black guys, and there's a reason for that. Big dicks and porn star sex like Kylie Jenner and Kim Kardashian have. It's all trendy BS! So ironically my white friends tend to end up with black girlfriends.
You actually think some woman will let you sit home all day while she works? That's not going to happen. Now maybe if you've been together awhile and you have kids and the two of you decide that you'll stay home with them, yeah (but most women still won't go for that).
Awesomeness; stay home and no friends because you’re busy pleasing ur man and watching the kids. You want a job? Tough shit, child care is nasty and no one will available to watch them while you’re working. But good thought 💭 👍
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