The main words for all this are Respect, Consent and Trust (and context).
If my girlfriend consents to it, the other person is respectful to her and the fact she’s not single, then I trust her, she also trusts me not to be a jealous arsehole because someone she may have known since school gives her a hug and a kiss.
I’ve seen far too many people overreact to very minor things, all down to insecurity rather than jealousy or lack of social experience.
Do I care, on a way yes, however only for my gfs wellbeing, I am observant and will watch for queues.
Ditto her with me, a lot of my girl friends are very much cuddle and kiss type.
one of the first times she met them, it was to have two girls give me a big hug and a kiss oh and a slap on my ass, the girls in question are lesbian and dating, hence the context.
Also she is used to nights out in town and dealing with guys out on the lash, she is capable of handling situations.
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Naw not at all. I don’t really get jealous. We should be able to be friendly, affectionate etc. with other people without issues. I think jealous people in this case may be insecure about their relationship, or their relationship isn’t that strong
Yes! But only because he's a player. One time we were on our way out to go somewhere and this lady comes up to him and threw her arms around his neck for a while. I was standing right next to them and he didn't pull her arms down or introduce me as his fiance. I was so upset, mad, and shaking that I had a car accident! He never said a word about how he knew her. And never apologized to me.
Anyone who thinks they're going to kiss my husband is fixin' to get both of them shot. Just sayin'.
Talking? Hugging? I couldn't care less about. Kissing is on a different threshold than the other two gestures.
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I don't understand the question.. You asking if I will I get jealous if someone starts kissing my girl?
I have never gotten jealous, but I will feel disrespected and make a huge scene over it. This scene will likely involve a few fists being thrown and a ton of blood.
I don't mind someone thinking the women I'm with are attractive or pretty.No I don't because she does not have enough time with anybody else and even if she did have time then that is fine I just ask please let me know so that we could end this deal on good terms... unfortunately she lied about it and I don't trust her anymore.
Her on the other hand she gets extremely jealous and honestly it is ridiculous and makes me think less of her , I think she is like that because she realizes how easy it probably is to get into her pants I don't know but at this point I'd be fine if she ran off with someone else and honestly I kind of wish I wouldn't have caught on to her and my friend last time making secret plans to go hang out because I could leave her ass without feeling bad because no bullshit sob story would be able to argue it.I do sometimes get jealous with just talking and playing, just when she starts with people who are into more the same shit as her. I can talk/play with her too, but when she's around people who are more into it than she is they all start going on a different level, and I kinda fall behind. That doesn't happen too often though and I've gotten a little better about it.
Touchy shit likes hugs and kisses I don't get jealous about, cause she doesn't do that and doesn't like that with other people. She wouldn't let someone else get touchy with her.I don't have time for jealousy. I trust my g/f implicitly. She knows also if anyone crosses a line and she needs me to step in, I'm a 6ft2 rugby player that won't hesitate to put them back the other side of the line if that makes sense.
Yes, a little, but I realise it's my own insecurity that I need to work on.
a guy puts his lips anywhere near my girl or hugs her and grabs a body part... he's going to be cane shopping! ^^
Yes I get jealous. But not excessively. If they make you feel secure and you have no insecurities yourself, you shouldn’t have any reason to worry.
Not really. I am not a jealous type.
I promote it I actually want my girls to talk about other guys.
Close family friends don't even normally do that. What you describe is actually something else
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