
What do you feel if your girlfriend threatened to sleep with another guy if you did not do whatever she wanted at that time?


That's toxic af.
Dueces! Bye 👋🏽 I ain't sticking around for that passive aggressive manipulative type person.
If we can't work on stuff, if they feel the need to leave because I don't want to do something they require, then I must let them go. Out of respect for them, if they come back with that wishy washy "you not gonna fight for me?" Type stuff, my answer will be "When you love something you let it go. I care too much for you to not get the things you so desire... go forth and multiply elsewhere"
I expierence anger and confusion of her sudden desire to control me and be in charge of relationship cus last time i checked i was the men in our relationship and she was female. And in 1year time she would know im not looking to have relationship with another guy. If she turns towards masculine side then she basically decided to end that relationship on her own and she knows it. Then i blink my eyes and keep myself calm collected and ask for next steps and plans for future to move our own ways. I respect freedom of choice.
I think I would say no then hang around and not break up with her. Just give her all the slack rope she needs to run over the cliff. If she's true to her word and does cheat, then kick her to the curb. Then let everyone know exactly what she has done. She won't ever have another relationship again after that. Give her a good amount of time, if she doesn't cheat on you, the balls in your court. Then when you get ready you can push her away to someone else and find somebody that is worth your love and attention. Good luck
Any woman that would pull that crap on her boyfriend/partner don't deserve to be in a relationship... Any sane guy would dump that immature b*tch that second!! Some women think men are so easily replaceable but fail to realize, they are too!!
Amen!! 🙂
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That is manipulation at its finest and should not be tolerated. MAJOR red flag.
That's wrong and manipulative. If they got broken up with over this, that would be understandable.
That’s lowdown I’d be packing her up and moving her straight to the door with her belongings. Relationships are investments in another person. True men do not like wasting time , energy , and money on a trifling little thot with a hateful mouth. When they discover that mindset that’s a terrible red flag. Also if a women threatens this she has it on her mind and it’s to late anyway at some point she will do just that , and will justify her action by saying “I warned that mfkr he should have straightened up “ meanwhile she bails with the new one and he’s left with his spent time , spent money , and a broken heart (sometimes ) and a woman talking crap about him to everyone who will listen to her so she can feel better about it , because after all he deserved it right? That’s the mindset of women who do this … men run from these don’t look back.
Ha! This is why many guys have girls on rotation, if they can. Or do not want to commit to one woman anymore. This sort of crap happens too often.
I dumped a girl who tried to pull one over on me and get with a new loser dude who didn't even have a car in another city.
I said "OK, GTFO," and then immediately started talking to as many other women as I could, and now I have several I talk to regularly and it's SO GOOD. Lol.
They are so much hotter and nicer than my ex. I'm loving it!
And then less than a week later, ex comes crying to me begging and calling and writing me poetry. Lmao.
What a dumb slut.
I have my eyes on another certain girl now, hot damn...
My ex had me locked down, but now she lost me. Thank God.
The most I will do now is use her for sex.
Fair is fair. She liked using me.
"Give Death and Take Death."
We reap what we sow.
Fuck her I'd break up with her right and now for two reasons.
1# Your not going to threaten me like that and exspect to get away unscathed.
2# Someone like that who would go and and so easily and casually have sex with someone else and cheat on her partner simply because she didn't get her way is a first of all a crazy bitch and secondly can not be trusted at all.
That is a lot a unnecessary anger, stress and crazy I do not need in my life. And that I will not tolerate or deal with.
Depends on the issue, if it´s something where I´m stubborn and it´s not a big deal I´d ask for time to think about it.
If it´s something that would humiliate me or break with red flags I have, I´d use the moment to break up with her because sometimes it´s better to be single than feeling used and blackmailed just to be in a relationship.
That would be very curious to find out what it is that you wanted to try. If there's trust there between you and your partner should be able to talk to them about anything at least that's the kind of guy I am. What is it that you want to try that your partner said no to don't be shy I'm not going to judge you
Relationships are built on trust always, and exclusivity whenever you're dating me. I don't screw other women, she doesn't screw other men. Threatening to break that agreement destroys the trust that she won't.
Even hinting at that would end the relationship immediately.
I'm not in this situation so I don't have to worry about all this fucking mindless bullshit!
Those that are in said situation need to realise she's only in said situation because she can't do whatever it is herself.
If she could she wouldn't need said man. But she gets with said man to get whatever she can out of him, with the least amount of effort input on her part.
If she wants something done she can do it her fucking self!
Well, assuming the relationship is serious, a guy with even half a backbone would dump her. She's basically saying that she's a whore & guys don't take whores seriously. If the relationship is casual then it doesn't change anything. He'd probably say, "That's nice" and go back to watching tv.
She just got herself dumped. No one threaten their partner, that level of disrespect lead her to a life on the streets. Whatever her goal was, she failed miserably to get it. If you want something from someone you get on their good side not their bad side.
It's hardly a threat. She's only a girlfriend, not a wife. She's not legally bound to anything and can walk out the door into a gangbang for all the law cares.
I always find it funny how Americans get so caught up with the "but its my girlfriend/boyfriend!" Like it actually means anything. You are cohabiting individuals and your relationship is not legally or socially binding to anything.
(I've never been in a relationship, so this is a What-if)
"Well, go ahead! In fact, you can fu-- him for as long as you like! It won't matter to me anymore!"
(Basically a counter with that I'd rather break up with her if that were to happen. 'cause if there's one thing I wouldn't tolerate in a relationship, is ANY form of control (possessiveness/manipulation/etc.)
That’s pathetic and any guy who doesn’t leave in that instance is an idiot
I'd dump her as soon as she said that, regardless of whether she followed through on the threat or not.
She wants to sleep with another guy? Fine, but she never gets to sleep with, talk to, or see me ever again.
I would hope the dude would break up with that toxic bitch. ultimatums only kill relationships.
I'd tell her to go have sex with the other guy... because we are through. That indicates a completely negative relationship, and the guy deserves better.
I'd say its time to break up first, because that just means the future holds that over you forever and ever, with every new topic in the future.
I'd kick her to the curb, faster than a shitty pair of underwear on garbage day.
What kinda low life women would even think that a goid idea? What kind of manipulating, bush wracking, bull shit is that?
I would feel like I'm dating an immature, selfish, bitch. Hell, I've popped off with things I regretted saying later (calling him an asshole etc...), but what she said... I have no words. Let her go if she feels so little about your relationship.
That's immature nonsense. Only children and imbeciles make idle threats like that. I wouldn't even be with someone like that in the first place. Those kinds of women are easy to spot way before you start a relationship with them.
Jesus that's sick, boyfriend or girlfriend... if you have any self respect you would leave that motherfucker.
I'd break up with her because that's just some toxic bullshit right there.
If a relationship with a girlfriend/boyfriend gets so bad that threatening to cheat is involved then it'd best to just go separate ways.
OK, bye.
I don't do well with ultimatums, and especially one like that.
If that is all your relationship means to her, I'll call the guy and let him know she's on the way and he can keep her.
I’d leave them immediately. They obviously don’t really feel love for me if that’s something they’d threaten to do. Why stay together if they’re making those kinds of threats?
Could be the heat of the moment kind of thing. But...
1. Toxic2. Manipulative. Once a person gets away with doing that, either guy or gal, they will keep doing it. I would run.
Is she asking me to have sex or she will get it somewhere else? Or is she asking me to take out the trash?
I'd dump her ass on the spot, as that's a ref flag, she would have ruled herself out as girlfriend/wife material.
I would say hold on 1 min I will go get what you want I would go down to the ho. rless shelter find a guy take him to her and I would leave
Lol. Really? Is this question for real? *facepalm*
She'd be gone (meaning I'd be done with her) before her jaw could hit the floor.
I feel like I should call her and thank her for doing that. I don't know how further things would have gone if she didn't cross that line when she did. I wonder if she's even still alive though.
Lol what an immature brat. I’d dump her, it may be sad because you’ve been going out with her for a year, but it’s completely necessary.
Instant break up. Are you kidding me? That's a huge red flag, a dealbreaker, and an unforgivable offense all in one. Kicked to the curb, immediately.
That’s her being a manipulating bitch the girl wouldn’t like it if it was the guy saying that shit like to her
anyone that pulls that crap needs their asses kicked to the curb
I'll deliver her to her guys doorstep and tell him "There. She's all yours! Returns are not accepted. Have fun."
And then I block her and wash my hands from the filth I have touched.
Then she wouldn't be worth keeping as a girlfriend. Give in once and she will always be demanding.
I'd leave. The end. Door slam. Never talk to her again. Good luck with some other dude, bitch. Good riddance.
Say see ya , Don’t let the door hit ya in the ass on your way out
I don't submit to blackmail. I would kick her to the curb
If it came to murder, or 3somes, or some outlandish thing along that order, I would say no.
sex, i would agree with her there, after all, I'm not a priest.
It’s very manipulative. It would be like if a woman is insecure about her body and the boyfriend says he’ll just find someone with a better body if she makes any mistakes.
I'd break up with her for even making such a threat.
I don't tolerate manipulative behaviour like that.
Dump her.
Why would I want someone like that in my life?
Do myself a favor and break up with her in the spot. If someone is willing to say such a thing to you, take their word for it.
She can have that poor sap then. I will no longer be dealing with a girlfriend who threatens to cheat on me if I don't capitulate to her every demand and she will be his problem.
Only a no-good manipulative whore would say such a thing so I’d laugh at her attempt and that would be the end of us.
Id just breakup right there and not even tell her. She told you she was cheating and now i wouldn't be wrong to sleep around either. Relationship is dead the second someone says something like that.
I would say go for it hun and don't ever come back too.
If someone needs to threaten someone in a relationship then that relationship is already gone
I’d say go ahead. And I’d laugh.
You’re 18? You look a lot older if that’s your real photo
I’m 18 and that’s my real photo!!
Alright.. I’ve messaged you. Let’s talk some bull shit.
I would feel that she's immature, manipulative and a psycho.
My reply would be
Bye bitch, I'll get another girlfriend better looking
I would say Bye.. no girl gonna Run me. Let her go. Make her go.
Then she's not my girlfriend, she's just a whore who thought she could manipulate me.
Stupid cow.
I'd say farewell and tell her to have fun with the other guy. I've been cheated on before and I'm not gonna stick around for that shit again
I'd tell her to go ahead, and then break I with her. That's a big red flag.
Easy. Break up with her. I'm not going to be with someone that threatens me with infidelity.
I'd tell her to get the fuck out. Homey don't play dat.
Throw her ass out that very second, what else is there?
I will tell her to do it and so i'll leave this bich 🤣
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