I think you can love someone but not be entirely fulfilled in a relationship. This is where communication is key in a relationship, try to fix the situation with the one you love before cheating
u telling someone that you love them... is not exactly loving them
lying to someone... is not to love someone
cheating on someone... is not what love is about
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If you can cheat on someone that you think you are in love with , then you honestly don’t love the person you are with period , they only like the convenience of the person they are with, cuz the cheater is selfish, and a user , it’s a selfish act cuz the cheater only really cares about themselves. The cheater doesn’t know what love is , and is wasting their time going back to someone they cheated on and living a complete lie. if someone can’t sacrifice for you and remove selfishness for you like they sacrifice and remove selfishness for them , then love will not grow, Bottom line most people can’t admit to themselves that they were wrong , When a cheater is busted they make up every excuse in the book as to why they cheated and try to play a victim or they can’t admit that they were wrong period and will continue lying holding the guilt that they are a piece of shit , which in time will eat them alive , A cheaters best move would be to admit that they were wrong and move on from the person they cheated on and realize they don’t really love and value their partner and allow their partner o move on to go and find true love and to not be selfish by stringing them along , If I commit to someone then I stay committed, if I cheat on someone then that is my answer that I don’t love and value the person I am with , so why waste my time and theirs. Life is too short to string someone along that you truly don’t love and value. Most people today think Grass is greener on the other side , but if they actually stayed on the grass they already planted and watered it they will realize that grass will become just as green has the grass is on the other side. Love only grows when 2 people remove selfishness and sacrifice for one another, things will never be perfect but Love will conquer all.
I don't think so. If you loved someone, you could never hurt them like that. It's better to tell them it's over before cheating. Cowards who don't want to deal with consequences cheat. People with no respect for themselves or those they supposedly love cheat.
Can you both love AND respect someone?
The only proper response to cheating is to OWN UP to being a piece of trash. That doesn’t mean you are beyond redemption morally but it means making zero excuses for your decision.
Call me sexist but I all too often see women trying to justify and rationalize cheating. It pisses me off.
I don’t think so. When someone cheats, I personally believe it’s cause they don’t want to lose the social title of being taken, since that means you are desirable.
And it’s caused by them being selfish and keeping their dead relationship while doing the very thing they could do while single only in this case they’re going to emotionally fuck up the person they are in a relationship with
Thats obviously not love, but lies and manipulation. Unless that counts as love in your world. Love is respect, so cheating is disrespectful towards partner meaning its opposite of love. Thats why its called cheating, cus it breaks trust bond that love is built upon and then there is no love anymore.
Love is overrated. You can never know if someone loves you. All you know is how they treat you. If someone treats you well, does it matter if they say they love you? If someone treats you poorly, and puts your health at risk by cheating on you, does it matter if they say they love you?
Yeah it is possible based on logic but in my experience of being in love, I lose all interest in other people. That is when I am emotionally in love. I think many people have fallen out of love and the don't realize it. You cannot retain being in love with idleness. It's like drugs. If I do drugs I feel like I love drugs. But if I stop doing drugs. I do not love drugs anymore. If I like meal #1 and I eat it 3 times but then I don't want it anymore, I have fallen out of love emotionally. We say we are still in love though. Emotional involved with the emotion of love or enthusiasm is what it means to love. Hard to explain
I can't see how, these stories I've read about spouses, men or women having years long emotional and sexual affairs and no intention of leaving their spouses and then ending the affair like nothing happened.
Then going through their life like no big deal, what he/she doesn't know won't hurt them... the guilt would eat me alive.
I have no doubt if I cheated, I'd fall for the new person and want to end it with the old fast as possible.
I don;t know. I have thought about this. I did love somebody and I did cheat on her. It was a crime of opportunity and only happened once and my girlfriend never found out. I still loved her and decided I would never cheat again which I have not.
Unfortunately yes, ur correct... I believe this happens more than we would like to admit !! Especially us guys are a bit weaker than girls , sooo if it's flashed in front of us with no consequences, to us it's just smashing, we don't need feeeeelings !!! 🤷♂️
Nope. Most people say they "love" each other as a form of manipulation and control. Just speaking from lived experience. Love is bitter. Love is hopeless. And love is blind.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=72DCIpQbjl4
Cheating often comes from seeking something that isn't in your current relationship. It doesn't mean you don't love the person you're in a relationship with. It just means you want something that you don't currently have.
Yes just because I love you doesn’t mean I stopped being a man
actions speak better than words
I don't see how that's even possible.
Yes, this is gaslighting
Yes i have!
I think so.
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