Why did NO girl want my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

As in why didn't he make a girl his girlfriend in over 8 years?

From MY understanding no girl "wanted" him... yet when we are out all he does is get these looks from all type of women so I dont believe it. Should I believe him?

His family also rave how he's such a good man lol I feel playedd

[JCrockett]

Women like men who they know other women find attractive. Your own post is evidence of this. You are concerned by the fact that he hasn't had girls before. So much so that you even doubt it's true. Something about the claim just seems wrong to you. A guy would be more worried if a girl had a lot of previous boyfriends, because that would demonstrate some recurring incompatibility she has.

He probably did not get much attention from girls before now. Now that you're with him, other girls find him more attractive. And his family is excited that he's finally found someone.

There's nothing for you to worry about. It's called "When it rains, it pours."

[Asker]

My boyfriend is smoking hot. Yes I'm insecure in the fact now that he has these eyes on him he might have that grass is greener syndrome. Yet he always reassures me as well

[JCrockett]

You can either worry about it, or you can do something crazy to prevent it that ultimately sabotages the relationship anyways, or you can not worry about it.

[Asker]

Lol I choose not to worry about it
. thanks for your help🥺

[JCrockett]

Good thinking.

[Phoenix98]

Women looking at you doesn’t mean anything I’ve had a lot of women look at me over the years.

Never had had a single woman ever come up to me and ask me out or for my number.

I've been single 6-7 years.

a lot of women treat guys like window shopping they look but that’s all they do.

and there are women out there who don’t pay attention to guys until that guy has a girlfriend. Then all sorts of questions start going through mind.

[Asker]

Exactly

[Changiis07]

I can only speak for myself but we don't ask for guys numbers. We might look and think a guy is really cute and really hope they grow balls enough to talk to us and ask US for our number, men are the pursuers so if they like a woman they should put in work and risk getting rejected. The right one will eventually math your energy

[Phoenix98]

@Changiis07 Sometimes guys don't always want to be the pursuer kind of gets tiring after a while.

Which I mean I'm not complaining about women not approaching I wasn't looking for anything anyway ( bad breakup ) so I don't personally care but I know there are guys out there that do.

[Changiis07]

True I get it. We try to do our part and smile or hint something lol but it's hard as well I get it

[Phoenix98]

@Changiis07 Yup.

[Changiis07]

Just because women are looking at him doesn't mean he wants them or is what he is looking for. That's why you have to get to know him and see how he truly is because that is what dating is all about. Marriage is one of the biggest decisions you will make so it's good to see how he truly is and that he isn't out talkign to anyone else

[Asker]

How do I find out he's not talking to someone else.. I do my best to trust him and not go through his phone.

[Changiis07]

Then just trust him that he isn't. Don't be out looking through his phone if someone wants to cheat they will. Trust that he chose you and let things flow, if you have doubts communicate with him

[Asker]

K thank you🙏🏾

[slatyb]

Either he puts women off somehow when he approaches them, or maybe he's just not into women and turns them all down.

[Asker]

Very interesting

[LegendaryIcon]

He likely never brought them home, and never likely approached them. It's one thing to get stared at, it's another, to act on it

[J3LueMooN]

if there's prostitution in his soul... it is normal everything