Ok so I am in the process of leaving my husband, unfortunately he got covid and the flu and got myself and my 2 boys sick with covid as well. It has been 5 days now and things are not going well. My husband gets off on calling my son (his step son) names and treating him like shit, my youngest which is his bio child repeats everything that my husband says to my oldest and instead of talking to our youngest my husband laughs it off and says that my oldest needs to grow a pair and that our youngest us only 4. Well this gets me going and I step up and defend my oldest because that's my job to protect my kids from bad people. I tell my husband that he is being an asshole and how can he be ok with treating my oldest like that. He would then look at my oldest and ask if he is happy now that he got me yelling at my husband. It's sick really. Then he plays victim, like he didn't do anything wrong, and that my oldest and I are together in making him out to be the bad guy. I try I do, I try to explain to him what he is doing or saying is hurting not just our oldest but everyone else in the house as well. I bring up scenarios that have happened in the past and he claims I'm lying and making it up. We have to quarantine for another 7 days. I don't know what I'm going to do. Please any advice at all would help.
In quarantine with a verbally abusive husband. What can I do? And how can I protect my oldest from this as well?
