Have you ever been ghosted by someone you thought was close to you? (Page 2)
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yeah it fucking hurts. but im better about dealing with it now then ever. all i can tell you is time will be your friend evventually. you will get over it.. maybe not completely but enough to wear they don't take up too much real estate in your brain
Yeah, last man I dated, that was how he eventually ended it. However, I knew it was coming to an end, so I did not bother more than a last farewell message and then I tried to let him go.. did take like a year, even though I only knew him for half a year.
He was very bad at dealing with conflicts, so not a huge surprise. Will stay away from someone like that in the future and hope that I am not unlucky to date a ghost again.
Once by someone in my friend group she got a boyfriend and befriended all of us, we hated her boyfriend for obvious reasons he was controlling. And now she doesn’t talk to us known her since I was 12 so I was pretty hurt …. found out she got married and literally lives in a random place with her husband and talks to none of her friends or family lol. she's always the first to look at my Snapchat post.
I felt sad for a time. I wrote a letter, not even sure it arrived. When I got no response, I accepted it because I had no choice. I wasn't going to let it turn my life upside down. That's just the way things go sometimes in life.
Yeah, once. I was friends with a girl many years ago for like two years. We made arrangements to go to a convention. But yeah long story short, she ducked me after I paid for her ticket, made me not want to be there so I wasted money on not only her ticket but my own and my hotel. Then she even lied to her friends saying I threatened her, when I would never have done that. That hurt so bad. But I just surrounded myself with friends I could actually rely on and got me through it.
Had a couple of drinks and wallowed for a good hour. Then deleted any pictures they sent and their number
Yes. Recovered in time. That and reminding myself what that says about them. Immature, disrespectful and selfish. Not someone I want in my life anyway.
Nope. Never been ghosted. The thing is. I never pressure anyone into wanting to speak to me. It's all a matter of choice. I respect choices people make..
Without pressure there is no reason to disappear.
Yes I was ghosted by my ex best friend. But now I know her real colors. So it didn't hurted that much. Currently I'm being ghosted by my cousin brother because I played a prank on him. Well I hope he forgives me.
oh i sure have i hated it and it hurt like hell :(
i guess i moved on in time, i mean i can not make anyone talk to me.
i have been blocked a few times and that hurt too but i guess they were not mature enough to talk to me about it. and that is a shame.
I was ghosted by someone I thought was close to me. It really hurt. The way I healed was I cried a lot and ate lots of ice cream. I then wrote about it in my journal.
Yes, what hurts is I cried all the time over them, but since Aug 2011 the last email I got from Sarra I've learned to go on with life and it took a long time to recover see I have an issue where the girl starts to be clingy
I don’t know if i have been ghosted or not but if I have, it would certainly be my fault cause sometimes I was too insensitive and unintentionally caused pain to people.
Yup, time heals all wounds. It’s not the easiest path but it’s the best path. It hurts but it just shows how much of a strong person you are compared to them.
I just learned to move on and be thankful for the times we had, they came back though after over a year, I just remained optimistic about it all
Probably but people come and go so I don’t really take those things to heart so can’t really remember a specific time.
Yeah, but I didn't have very high hopes for her anyway. Gal was kind of a brainlet. I felt sorry for her, more than anything.
It's just like, oh well, so much for that--bye bye, then.
It can cause a few heart twinges but it's definitely not something to dwell on.
No, when I had friends ghosting wasn't even a thing. I have had people who I considered friends just suddenly blow me off for no apparent reason. It made me sad but I figure it is their loss.
Once.. I was on match. com over a decade ago.. and we hit it off really well for a few months talking... we were supposed to meet up and she ghosted me... I got over it fast, I wasn't involved emotionally