Guys, Guys who have been dumped or cheated on, how we're you able to get over her?

[certifiedalphafemale]

And what was/were the reasons why she cheated?

[Fireguy17]

I found my 1st wife in bed with the landlord.
I walked away.
I drank more than usual, distanced myself from others, if I found that I was getting close to someone, female I would run, jumped in bed with anyone with a pulse.
I got over it, I got involved with racing and it turned out I was pretty good at it, and it made me feel better about myself, so I cleaned up my act.
The second time it happened with an ex, I didn't want to believe it at first, but once I put 2 & 2 together I left and moved on.
I handled it much better that time.

[OlderThanILook]

Not really dumled but she chose another guy over me. I had known her for months and she met him and replaced me in a week. I got over it by doing typical after-rejection guy stuff. Max out everything at the gym, listen to motivational Eminem songs, sleep early, masturbate 3x more, etc.

[TwistedSukuna]

My ex didn't cheat thankfully, but getting over her was hard as I'm usually alone and think a lot. I started playing competitive shooters and other games with friends to take my mind off of her. Gaming has been my primary escape/coping mechanism for a long time, and after putting my focus on it for a while as well as school she eventually just naturally left my mind.

[loveslongnails]

The only reason I was a mess for a while was because I couldn't admit that I really didn't want her anyway, I was just sad to be alone. Turned out being alone wasn't so bad, because I could date and meet new girls. So I got over my ex by getting "over" a new girl :-D

[Anonymous]

I met another woman and fell in love with her, then she turned out to be married.
So I was cheated on then, I became the other man and had to end that relationship.
Why was I cheated on? We weren't spending as much time together anymore, we weren't getting along and a guy at her job capitalized on that. He started f! irting with her while our relationship was struggling.

[AnthonyJ01]

I just a thought moved on. I could have done some really underhanded thing to cause her and her family some major legal issues, but didn't. I could have gotten her mother fired from a place after over 30 years working there, but I didn't. Fact is that they weren't worth it.

[AncientWisdom]

Easy walk the hell away from her. When a woman cheats I look at it as a betrayal I’m not sticking around for that crap.

[noohair]

I don't know why people cheat. Men have this caveman urge to procreate. We are supposed to have intellect and control out libido, but many can't. I very quickly feel that I do not want to be with people that don't want to be with me.

[unwokewoke]

I think because many western societies toy with the libido. They tempt the libido and say strip clubs, nudity on tv, and looking at someone sexually is okay as long as you do it briefly, prostitution can even be okay in some countries including America, but you should then control yourself man or woman. They egg people on to look at all the beautiful fruits around, but you only get to eat one. Maybe people would not cheat if they weren't thrown it in their face. Meanwhile, the rich, the famous, the powerful always do what they tell others not to do and they do it in your face so the common people start to think our leaders are doing it so maybe I can do it too.

[Dan_cColt]

Moving on with my life, gym, living my own life. Also she cheated cause "it was an accident" yeah okay

[Jouth]

Be awesome. Get better.

Practice doing things that make me awesome, workout a ton, meet new people make new friends and have a great time.

[Anonymous]

In time and with caring prostitutes.

she dumped me for a richer man. Most likely she also cheated on me but i didn't witness it.

[2021biguy]

It takes time to get over a broken heart. I don't know why women cheat and then try to come back.

[TsAubreyKate]

Immediately fucked the next girl at my job who smiled at me

[Anonymous]

I went out and had a rebound, it helped a lot.