Since he's told me, he's been a little distant, takes longer to message back, leaves me on read etc. Im trying to not take it personally as he has no idea I like him. I haven't told him because we're long distance and he's hung up on this girl so I'm happy to be friends with him. I like that he's in my life and want him to take a permanent residency (even as friends) but I feel he's going to leave it (soft ghost). Not sure how to keep him interested in just being friends and not leaving me. Do I continue to just be there for him, distance myself or tell him that I like him?
I'm aware I could get hurt which is why I'm keeping my emotions in check and reminding myself LDR are too hard and rarely work so a relationship with him is off the table. Also, he may not even like me like that so keeping that in mind also helps. I kinda wish he didn't tell me he found me attractive.
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