Guy friend is being distant?

[Anonymous]

I have been good friends with a guy since we were 18, we saw each other and talked everyday. We hung out this past week, and became extremely intimate (making out, sex, etc etc.) This isn’t the first time we have became intimate, but this time was different, like way more intimate. Now, he will not talk to me. I text him, he doesn’t respond. This hurts a lot because I felt nothing had changed but clearly something has changed on his part. Did he just want to sleep with me one last time and be done? Is he tired of me?

[Guy13]

Back off…guys don’t want to get emotional with woman after something like this. Emotional text bombs 💣 will make it worse. Give him distance to deal with feelings. He will get back when ready. Leave him alone and maybe Monday…Sunday he reaches out.

No contact from you unless you want too much ghosting 👻

[Asker]

I’ll give him space. I haven’t brought anything up but have been trying to continue conversations as normal and he won’t respond.

[Avicenna]

He's probably confused as to where he stands with you. That doesn't excuse him for not asking, but he's not sure what to think or do.

[Asker]

This is true. I just wish he would at least talk to me.

[Avicenna]

You can try reaching out to him to see how he's doing. You are a friend, after all. If the convo goes well, you can bring the subject up if you are both comfortable discussing it.

[boobliker]

he may have a more locol girl in tow

[boggboss]

Only he can tell you

[In_Trance]

call him