My guy friend is a bit distant to me. He used to be so close to me and we act like we are brothers and sisters. I can feel that he cares a lot about me. The last time we talked we had a video call because I got panic attacks. He was very helpful and talked to me for an hour and even joked around then said he was doing that because my problems were too heavy and so that he can lighten things up. He also asked me when i am traveling to his city to which i replied i'll be there few weeks later. The next day i did not notice but he did a video call and i was not able to answer it because i was sleeping so i asked, did you call then he did not respond. He still comments on my stories and posts. He is also a very commitmentless person. So for those who think he has a new relationship, i dont think it would affect our friendship because in the past, if there's someone new, he still prioritizes me or gives me time. But lately he's being weird and a bit off. I called him and he's like i'm going to the gym, why? Or he'd be like i was busy, what's up? I did not do a thing to him. He could have issues but normally he just vents to me in person so his treatment is way off. It's like he is putting barriers. I dont know if i should laugh that he's doing this or if I would feel hurt or a mix of both. Why is he like this?
Sadly im not able to look into heads and neither are you. We can only make assumptions.
Here are a few of mine:
1. He really is just busy rn and you just happend to have some missunderstandings
2. He could have catched feelings and is trying to distance himself now
3. Maybe he is in a down rn. Light depression makes you push people away
4. You really did say something or acted in a way that hurt him.
Best solution would be to talk to him about it and see what he says.
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You talk about him like he is your boyfriend, which he is not.
He won’t always be non-committal honey. Maybe that’s how things were in your youth and even 20s but you’re getting older now and at some point there’s going to be a woman he gets serious about. To where she’s more of a priority, and even if that hurts, it’s just life. Not saying that is the case here, but it could be.
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he could be only busy
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