How to eliminate my desire to have a baby at 17?

[Anonymous]

I ask because I have a boyfriend and I love him and he tells me he wants a baby, to be the fruit of our love and I am very maternal and I want to feel what it feels like to be a mother and have the little fruit of our love inside me.
It is an idea that makes me think of beautiful things, but the thing is that neither he nor I have economic stability and we still live with our parents, so the idea cannot be realized.

but I really love my boyfriend and I want to make him happy!
I'm obsessive with my ideas and I can't get the idea of ​​getting pregnant out of my mind

[UdontNeedtoknow]

Thats actually beautiful and stupid at the same time. You know that both of you are not ready. Keep using protection and focus on getting a good job so that you guys can make that happen eventually. Just stay faithful to each other and know that the day will come when the 2 of you have a beautiful family.

[Adam1978]

Just put in the condition for it to happen in the equation. Ie finish school, get a house/apartment and a solid economy. And let him work towards it. Rewards comes after accomplishments.

[Daniela1982]

Think of this. If you have one he will dump you and you will have no life after.

[SnakeBoop]

thats a big red flag. wtf, tell him to get a fucking hobby.

[EaterPeter]

Too soon dear. Just look around for teen moms and become friends with 2 or 3 someone may be willing to help you. Just observe them. Make sure they are smart ones.

[driven159]

real simple way too young you need to live life before you are stick with a child to take care of start a career and live out your young years you don't get to be young but once

[Shamalien]

If your boyfriend isn’t earning enough to support you and the baby then it should be out of the question

[TOQGYDL]

Don't do it. I know few people that had a baby in high. Some didn't finish school at all. It will set you down a hard path.

[LegendaryIcon]

you're too young to not only have a baby, but a boyfriend as well. why your parents let you, i dk

[In_Trance]

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