Engagement and living together?

[Anonymous]

If you were engaged to someone would you expect to be living with that person?

Updates

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They are engaged but they do not live together because she states she wants her freedom?

[DizzyDesii]

Yes. I prefer not to live together until at least engaged

[DizzyDesii]

Update— if she wants freedom then she doesn't want marriage. Get un-engaged from that hoe

[Asker]

I did yesterday. No she keeps saying that I don't trust her and I am trying to control her. I really can't win.

[DizzyDesii]

I’d tell em i dont trust em since they wants so much freedom. And im just naturally bossy so they wouldn't be wrong to assume i’d be controlling

[Asker]

Im easy going but not a push over. I do have my moments when I'm bossy but that's when things aren't being done. I've said that if that type of thing is good for one person its good for both. To that she replied so you play tit for tat. Again I said no I don't believe in double standards and received the good old reply of your being argumentative. I asked how is that argumentative but no reply so I've said take as much time have as much freedom let me know if they want to meet up and ill see if I'm free. Only to be told that my tone if offensive.

[DizzyDesii]

she's just not for you. End the engagement with her. She doesn't love you like u love her

[Asker]

Thank you

[Fireguy17]

That would depend on the circumstances.
I was, we lived apart, her job was closer to her house, and there was more to do around her house.

[Gingerguy33]

I would it’s better know how both you and the other person work together around the house before getting married then after..

[Asker]

My thoughts exactly.

[ItsMeElliana]

No, not until marriage

[Asker]

I don't mind helping as that's what you do when you care about someone but this has now become more I help the more they want.

[exitseven]

Nope. some people do not believe in co-habitation.

[In_Trance]

Yeah