So on my show, this woman has been suffering post partum depression. She really didn’t want a second child since her boyfriend didn’t help her with the first. But she’s married him and he’s knocked her up a second time. She’s given birth and is basically taking care of the kids alone again while her husband is acting like a big kid. He’s sick at the moment so she fixed her hubby some warm tea to soothe his stuffy nose while he lies on the couch playing Xbox. He told her they’re invited on a double date with friends later that day. She said she was going to be busy raising their two kids and she started feeding the baby its bottle. Her husband snapped at her that he understands that she’s a mother but that she also needs to learn how to be a wife. Then he stormed out the house mad. (Clearly he isn't that sick.) Lmao i hate that little mf I tell ya. So guys, how would you like to be nursed back to health when sick?Girls, how would you have reacted had the guy said that to you? #FeelFreeToList#HowToBeAWifeAndAMotherLmao I think this person’s tweet states it best
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Wow this guy is truly an ass. So he's sooooo sick but he ran out to join his friends on a double date. His wife told him earlier (when he was laid up on the couch playing xbox and she was making him tea) that she had to handle the babies and could not go out. Yet he's even more mad now that he showed up to salsa dance with the other couples and she texted him “not gonna make it” 🤣 They have 2 kids and she has a job. I've never seen him work but i think he produces beats or something.
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Oh yea i left out that not only did she not want a second kid because he didn't help her with the first, but she miscarried the babies after the first kid so i think that's worsened her post partum from this one. She was just ready to be done having kids and he wants a big fam like the one he came from. She fell into a trap marrying his cokehead lookin ass 💀
Guys, what all do you want a girl to do for you when you’re sick if she’s also trying to care for your kid?
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What “show” is this, since most television is bullshit anti-male crap, I can assume it’s pushing the same old “men are lazy, bumbling idiot, children” trope seen in most media.
Men generally work their ass off to provide for women and kids. They come home broke. and exhausted. If the woman is a stay at home mother, her job is to take care of the house and kids. He pay is generally everything he makes.
Women will whine and complain and say being a mom is difficult work and it doesn’t pay... this is absolute shit. Men earn 61.5% of all income but only account for 25% of domestic spending. Women make up 38.5% of all income but control 75% of domestic spending, women on average spend 90% more money than they earn. Just to silence that crap before it starts.
Men when sick actually don’t want or need you to do shit, single men do everything fine without women, but women are nurturing and take on the mothering role which men milk because we love the attention of our partners. We like knowing that she cares, and generally we are taken for granted otherwise.
All the shit we do and provide is ignored and we are shamed and attacked for not doing more, to help her with her tasks. Even if both work, our hours are longer and our jobs are harder, and we are still given shit if we want 5 minutes of our own time. But We do not complain when she takes time to her self.
Its a reality show mainly surrounded about the male and female Children of musicians so no its not anti-male. But i think he's just used to having maids and stuff do things for him. he's practically “stay at home” himself. She goes to work and cares for his two kids. So lets not pull the feminist crap. I dont care about all that political stuff either
Personally i feel guilty im not the type that wants to be spoiled with attention in fact far from it id rather just rest up but every once in awhile be checked up on.
Some people do act different when they are sick they do or say things they dont mean i try not to take it personally my bedside manner is not the best but i can't imagine how stressful that can be i honestly dont like good people being taken advantage.
As a guy that considers himself to be one of those nice guys finish last guys it frustrates me when guys like that get the girl we crush on only to treat them like that but thats just from my perspective.
Like he's not even cute though. I don't know if she got with him because his dad was some famous 90s musician or if she truly liked his goofy personality. I don't know. she's not skinny but she's ot big. she's quite pretty in the face but i think she's insecure and just settles for him
Oh my and if the wrong guy knows a woman is insecure they can take advantage. Sad thing is she has to see this for herself its a lot like the movie mirror has two faces jeff bridges and barbara streisand. She was always settling on relationships because she thought she was ugly i won't go into the movie but it took the right guy to show her she was not ugly in fact she was smart as well as attractive but she just had to stop comparing herself to people and just be herself. Thats a take it for what its worth kind of thing it doesn't always work i really hope your friend at least has a caring friend.
Yes i want her to leave this guy so badly but she's gonna use the kids as an excuse to stay. Shit we could coparent but i doubt he’ll ever come get em since he doesn't pay em attention while they live with him lol
It pains me im a guy thats actually wanting to be a father i find myself being jealous of people my age that already have teenagers and i dont have kids yet i know its a huge responsibility i just would love the chance tho it sux there's both moms and dads that their kids for granted not realizing what tbeyre missing my hope is maybe this guy will look back and regret his actions but according to how he is portrayed he doesn't seem like the type its the kids that really get affected which is regrettable.
I would instantly put him in his place. He hires a nanny and a housekeeper, if he wants me to have time on my hands to move on his. He also needs to help out at home.
Thank God I will not be choosing a dusty like him. Choose your husbands wisely ladies.
If comes out the side of his mouth like that again I am filing for divorce.
Well first of all I look at it like this the kids comes first she needs to get away for awhile for the day or something because of postpartum that is tough I would not wish that on anybody and I would take care of the kid because the kid is my kid too and I can do just as good or better I'll just make sure that I keep doing fluids and do what I need to do to get better but she doesn't need to suffer If the child doesn't need to suffer and I'll make myself B, ok no matter what and at night i got up to change diapers and feed my kids so if she has postpartum she doesn't need to be getting up my ex-wife had that and that's a lot to handle
Honestly I feel very happy at any kind gesture :) I'm so used to being alone. I'm mostly concerned about other peoples expectations. Social interactions are basically too much for me to handle. I've crafted a scaffolding for myself with a lot of observation and analysis and trial and error to get through daily life.
But in situations that are more complex or rare I feel very lost and I have no clue what I'm supposed to be doing what the other person expects what the socailly acceptable options of my responses are that I can chose from what the subtext is in this situation etc etc. So people think I'm disinterested or so but I'm really just out of my depth and probably have anxiety and just wanna go home.
So I'd be grateful for clear communication and a lot of patience and understanding if I was married ^^. I don't get sick a lot and I don't need nursing but I'd appreciate the effort :)
I would like her to do what it takes for her to stay healthy. She can keep distance for sure! I'd appreciate if she could provide me something to eat and drink if I'm too weak to take care of that myself. And the same of course for medication: I'd hope she'd go to the pharmacist for me. Finally: some encouraging words would be welcome. Who know "GET OUT OF THAT STUPID BED YOU FAILED COMEDIAN!!!". Oopsie 🤔
I would appreciate all those things being done for me but wouldn't expect it from her. If this guy has the energy to play X Box than he can bath himself and make his own coco (tea 🍵☕ and other caffeine products not recommended for sick people) and help her out with the domestic responsibilities of maintaining the house.
And that girl above was doing way more than that. He never appreciates her. I think she feels stuck because they have kids together. But thats no excuse
I wouldn't need her to take care of me. I've been sick enough to know what I need. She can tend to the kids and I'll tend to myself somewhere far away from them. But if she did have downtime, she could check in on me and see how I'm doing. I generally appreciate when women make the effort to show they care.
But man's on the couch playing Xbox and has the energy to storm out? Oh lordy, is this guy 12? What shows do you watch?
Exactly like he got the strength to get some kills in on the xbox but fussin at her for stopping a second to check on the kids! And he can storm out! And he wanna go out with friends later that night? 🤣 He ain't too sick apparently. I watch reality shows
All I want from her is Love and Homemade Food when I'm sick. I know how hard it is to handle yourself , your partner and your kid (s) so I wouldn't put any pressure on her from my side so that she can manage her and our kid's life without stressing too much.
Gimme an "I love you" and then leave me alone. I want sleep and for you not to catch whatever I am claiming is some rare tropical disease that is killing me. (I tend to exaggerate symptoms when I am feeling sick)
I would probably take care of myself unless it's something which actually makes me very sick and breaks my body. Even in that condition I would try to be less burden to anyone, I have mostly been alone and hate being a liability to someone.
This sounds like something I'd read on the reddit AITA rooms, which I do a lot. It's sad how common it is for the husband to push for kids and then refuse to help raise their own kids.
And the worst part being that they'll brag about babysitting when they watch the kid once, like dude it's not babysitting if it's your child, that's parenting
Whatever she feels compelled to do. I'm a grown person and can take care of myself. Anything I get outside of that I consider a gift and am grateful for.
I don't think it's sweet I think it's just how people should be. People don't have to love you. And care about you. If you have that you should consider yourself lucky. I think some people in this world don't understand when they've already got it good.
Well if im dating them, they do need to love and care for me but to an extent. Im Not expecting unconditional love nor am i expecting to be pampered when sick like the dude above
XD but that BJ is instant heal = for real , orgasiming really remove all the cold symptoms. and if it was a wake up one : it will lead to sex for sure hhhhh. its also the best way to say i love you so much even when you are sick i still desire you.
I dont want her to do anything for me, if i am old enough to have two kids then i can take care of myself, she is my wife and mother of my children and not my servant
Marriage is not easy. They need a baby sitter that they can trust with the babies. This is why i believe having grandma/aunty living close by can be a great asset.
Thats what he got mad about because he hired a babysitter but she cancelled them because she was already going to be late for the date due to work and she couldnt fit anything because she just gave birth like a month or two ago. He was supposedly sick that morning but running around by that night asking her to join a triple date.
That's why its better to have a reliable family member around. I've been in that situation before. Both of you are tired of being stuck in the house. both of you just want to feel like a adult again and have fun. Men and women can process these feeling differently. It doesn't make him bad or her. There just frustrated.
Yea not many of his family is near. He lives in L. A. and most of his fam is in N. Y. C. He has a sister who i think loves in LA too but she has her own kid to look after. This guy does nothing daily but smoke and run around with his boys so he doesn't need a babysitter. He needs to sit his ass at home and be a husband/father
In the early seasons, he was in the studio helping produce beats but i haven't seen him do anything but lay around, party or snap at his wife for the last few seasons
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