Guys, He locked the keys in the car but he's mad at me?

[Anonymous]

My partner locked the keys in the (my) car this morning with it running. OKay no big deal. I have triple a so I called and they came in 8 min but the whole time he was sulking and said that this ruined the whole day. I honestly wanted to tell him to stop being a little bitch. no big deal man. shit happens and I handled it. i didn't say that but why is he so pissed at me for? i got the silent treatment all day. he's been talking about having a baby.. how can I have a baby with someone who is acting like a baby and leave me to handle things when shit goes wrong... male insight pleaseeee. he's 29 I'm 32.

[Oigit]

If you start getting angry it's best to cut off contact tell you both can calm down. Sure he was throwing a fit like a child. But calling him out for it would have set him off more. Don't want to chance him losing his crap and kicking the car before AAA gets there. Though if him throwing a fit like that is a established pattern I'd consider talking to him about it. Also I would consider not having a kid with him. Simply so you don't end up with two children to take care of.

Also some people do their bast to take their mistakes out on others. In a weird attempt to make it someone else's mistake instead of theirs. That way they don't have to own up to what they did. So he could have been attempting to make it your mistake instead of having to take ownership of his mistake.

[Asker]

but if i clearly said its no big deal which it is why be so fucking mad. he's done it before and I had the same reaction. no big deal.

[Oigit]

Then the guy clearly has some issues controlling his temper. That is something you need to watch out for. It also becomes a really big issue if you two do plan on having a kid. if the mistake he made with the car keys today causes him to lose his crap like that, you have to wonder what dealing with a kid will do. Because dealing with a kid isn't stress free or easy. You don't want to chance him getting all worked up at a kid.

[Asker]

Update... he's still in a mood

[DryGermanGuy]

Basically, you already described everything that could be described here...

[Asker]

i guess im looking to know what can I do to help the situation. how can I say stop being a little bitch withoutsaying that

[DryGermanGuy]

Well, don't. First of all, he is not mad at you (typical female overthinking), he is just pissed at himself. Next, when he is in a better mood and openly communicating, just tell him "shit happens, get over it and cut the drama!". Also you could start mentioning the vastly changing priorities when having children. That should set him straight.

[driven159]

First, he is a spoiled brat and doesn't take responsibility for anything that means raising a child find a better guy i would say man because he acts like a little buy get out before you waste more time than you have

[slatyb]

He's not ready for a child. It sounds like you may be ready for a change.

[jahaims]

He is emotionally immature and took the situation out on you instead of thinking rationally.

[Anonymous]

i left my keys in the car and i had to call AAA because i didn't have a slimjim or a coathanger to open the door with it's no big deal

[noohair]

He is a drama queen. Getting shot at ruins my day.

[Wise4myage]

What a loser, lol.