My exes always marry the next girl after me? Why

[cakes0329]

I have always been in serious relationships, that last more than a year. Lately, the guys who I have dated, after we break up ends up marrying the next girl. Am I fluffing these guys for the next girl, or is there something wrong with me, that they are not choosing me as their lifetime partner?

[ShootingStar5]

I think it's just coincidence. I can understand you doing something that would make guys not want to marry you. But I don't see how you could do anything that would ALWAYS make the guy marry the next girl.

How were your relationships with them? Happy, miserable, somewhere in the middle? I know with my ex I was so miserable with our relationship and he was so perfectly wrong for me that I knew exactly what I was looking for after we broke up. And now with my current boyfriend I'm fairly sure he's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. Maybe it's something along those lines?

[cakes0329]

Just wish I knew what I was doing so that I can stop the cycle. My relationship with my last ex was boring. I am a fun, outgoing person with a lot of energy. He on the other hand was stuffy, didn't like to do much. But we seemed to be somewhere in the middle. My ex was a minister of a church and I think I was trying to be someone that I was not. Thank you for your comment.

[so-it-goes]

Same thing with me!!! It's our honesty. We are too honest. The next girl they date refreshingly plays their games so they hang on to it like it's their last breath. Really hope to find a man who can handle me. Good luck to you, too, and keep being yourself. You're too much woman for all the boys out there, believe it or not. Don't downplay and settle.

[moloz]

Maybe.

Might have something to do with your career/religion/morality/views on sex and ofc, children.

[cakes0329]

I really don't think that my career has anythin to do with why my ex's end up marrying someone else. I am in Insurance Agent, and most men that I date usually have a good profession. I am a Christian women and date christian men. A lot of my friends tell me that I am a bold person. If I see that someone is lying or the story doesn't sound right, I will call them on it. I don't know, what it could be . But, I thank you for your comment.

[amatuer_zombie]

lol this sounds like charlie from the movie"good luck chuck"

[shweta]

Looks like v both are in the same boat :(