When you get into a new relationship when do you talk about boundaries, kinks, and other important things?

[poneglyphs]

Also, when do you know that's it's getting serious and not just for a couple of months 🤔

[NathanDavis]

that's not something I bring up right away, not when we're new into relationships...

boundaries means the extremes of situations... so is just not wise to push it all the way to all that right when you met someone

if I really intend to be with someone, my priority is to get to know that someone well, and if you want to do that right, they you should dedicate some time to it and just go with the natural flow of the relationship, which can always vary from one person to another... and then, eventually, and more naturally some of the topics for these things will come out sooner or later...

[RobT312]

Hey dude congrats, so are ya dating now?
for me I always know it’s getting serous when you have strong feelings to always be around your partner and can’t stop thinking about her. You’re bragging about her, you want your family to meet her, etc

talking about sex with her gets fun when you continue to get more intimate and open up to each other. For us it was about 2 weeks. We had sex starting at date 2 and I’d say we got right into talking about sex... but let it happen naturally... no need to rush it!

[poneglyphs]

Cool, and thanks but no just wondering I do have a date with a girl but she's not my girlfriend. Just a first date but I think we like each other but who knows

[RobT312]

👍👍awesome

[poneglyphs]

When do you know it feels right to be intimate with her?

[RobT312]

For me, I need a connection. Either mental or physical.
Sometimes it’s first date, sometimes it’s a little longer. I don’t think there’s a right or wrong but that’s just me.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, I see so I shouldn't expect it to happen soon or in 3 dates. But naturally and just have fun

[RobT312]

Yes. Why pressure yourself with expectations... it’s supposed to be fun!

[AvaOneLasTime]

This can be subjective. For some people, its better to 'align' at the beginning. Other people try to be compatible later. Some succeed. Some not.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Eventually. Not right away.

[poneglyphs]

OK just wondering

[Gwenhwyfar]

Wait till you’re ready to have sex for that

[poneglyphs]

Kk, when I do have sex what kimd of positions should I go for?

[Gwenhwyfar]

Her on top (cowgirl) is always fun

[Slut4Joy]

every relationship is different. for example boyfriend A may not want to talk about that stuff for a while whereas boyfriend B wants to talk about it in the first month. just when you’re both comfortable is when you start talking about it

[RealMarek]

If you’re in doubt wait for her to bring these up. Try to discuss any relationship dealbreakers (not just sexual) before having sex.

[exitseven]

No, I never did. I am not one to really talk about feelings and such.,

[Kiss_Me]

BEFORE you get into the relationship. Duh!

[jahaims]

I discuss my goals, values, and morals right away.