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Boyfriend doesn’t want our baby anymore. I don’t want to abort, what do I do? (Page 2)
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Whether you see it or not , it's a blessing to have a child. I don't know what you plan on doing but I urge u to keep it. If you can't raise it then you can give it up for adoption. at least give the kid a chance, you never know what he or she could become 🙏
You keep the baby and tell your boyfriend to fuck off and make him pay child support. Or you can have the child and put them up for adoption so that someone who has the means can raise them. OR you can go through with having the abortion and accept that neither one of you is ready and try again another time (Hopefully with someone more reliable).
I think it’s more important to think about the future of your baby. Is it smart to bring a child that you can’t financially support into the world right now? Also if your boyfriend is unhappy there is a chance he could leave you and not support the child, making you a single parent.
I know getting an abortion is a hard decision and it would make you feel guilty. But wouldn’t you feel even more guilty having a kid and not being able to support them the way you guys should?
It's a sensitive topic. Is abortion even legal at this point in your country and state? I think you people need to visit a therapist ASAP to work out exactly why he doesn't want the baby now and what is the way forward. Because if the baby is planned then he should pay for child support.
Her going to therapy isn’t going to work out why the father does the things he does.
That’s not how therapy works.
15 weeks pregnant is pretty far along like that’s second trimester. At this point the baby isn’t just a few cells and you’ll be able to feel him or her kick soon. I believe this is something you will regret for the rest of your life and many doctors won’t even perform an abortion after 12 weeks unless it’s medically necessary.
I’m not sure one more voice in the matter will make a difference, but if you really don’t want an abortion. Don’t. Having a child when you aren’t ready is hard. But most people are never ready to have a child. If you want the child and will love the child, that’s all that matters.
You're both adults. You shouldn't be relying on your parents. Don't put it on them.
You and your boyfriend made this baby, it's your responsibility to ensure it's provided for. If you're not able to do that then it maybe best to terminate. You'll be surprised though, you can provide with limited resources, picking up essentials secondhand.
It's only a decision you and your boyfriend can make.
You don't just have a baby with anybody. You find somebody who is ready, willing, and able to be a man and a father before having a baby. You should have got the morning after pill. I'm not going to tell you to have an abortion because that's the easy way out, and you will probably feel guilty. I think you should have the baby so you two dumb asses learn the hard way about making poor life decisions.
Tell him to man up.
He had his time to say no. Yet, he remained supportive and you even named the kid. That ship has sailed now, even if still legal.
Sorry to say you most likely picked a shitty man. As you see women, choices matter a lot. Don't just make a baby with a "cute/hot" guy.
Most likely you will be a singlemother, hopefully not. He might still pull through. Let your father talk to him.
Keep your baby... men will always change their minds... A human Life is not subject to mood swings...
is he suddenly scared? so what? is he afraid of responsibility? again, so what? is he Not mature enough? so what, he will get there eventually, with or without the child... Follow You Heart, not his insecurities and fears and selfishness... Good Luck and God Bless
Hm, I remember my mom telling me how she was pregnant without the father in the picture. This was at a time when it was frowned upon to be unwedded and pregnant. To such a point that one would get an abortion to avoid the shame.
She told that no matter how hard it could and would get to raise a child alone, getting an abortion wasn't the answer.
Buttttt, I'm a man, so apparently that's moot.
I think there's support for women in your situation, and the people at the abortion clinic can probably help you with that. I'd explain all this and your situation to them and ask for help. Your boyfriend isn't going to be there for you, but it doesn't mean you can't still get some support/help. I'm just not sure exactly where, but the clinic should know.
Give your baby up for adoption. It will hurt but better than aborting them.
But the other girls on this question gave very good advice too
That's what happens when a woman gives herself to a man before marriage...
Also don't say that this guy is a man cause he's just a male!
A good man will hold full responsibility of his girl and baby, it's not like he can choose between the girl and the baby, both are his responsibility!
A baby if a gift from god and the seed of love between a man and a woman, it must be a happy event, the man should start preparing for a celebration, feed his girl all the goodies and takes good care of her and make her happy and comfortable, at night he can kiss the womb of his wife, hug her, kiss her and for sure cover her well to be warm and she will take his hand and put it on her heart to show him that her heart is beating for him and that a new life will be coming to this world who will be loved by the mother and father and that's why they are called a family 😌
You should really dump your boyfriend. He has demonstrated his incompetence of being a father.
I recommend abortion if you plan to get into another relationship. Single mothers are as wanted by the opposite sex as are financially broke men wanted by women.
Your stupid ass boyfriend should have thought about all of this before he blew one in you.
If you can handle the baby and raise they alone, keep him... but if you can't raise they without father and you can't support they financially keep they then place him to adoption, and anyway leave your fucking boyfriend who treats you as a private whore want only to fuck you and don't take the responsiblty!!
(And the next time use birth control)
Tell him that's fine, he can pay child support for 18 years then. He should have thought of that before he chose not to use a condom.
Keep it. Sue him into the dirt for child support. Nobody should ever pressure you like this and the asshole needs a swift kick in the nads.
meh, if you want to keep it, then have him sign off on he doesn't contribute anything and gives up parental rights.
Um, you do know you can have the baby and drop it off anywhere no questions asked right? Your parents will help you, the answer is easy. Drop the dbag boyfriend and keep it, or stork the baby to any of many drop off locations.
Upon looking at other replies, at least the libtarded of most are not rearing their ugly heads touting "my body my choice" bull shit.
Lmao…. the “libtarded” didn’t bring up “my body, my choice” so you felt compelled to do so?
😂🤣
@UCrayCray Yes. It's refreshing.
What is the libtarded to do? Make an ass of themself? They do it with regularity, then you throw out emojis that say I've got my pronouns hidden away too. I mean, what is it that you are saying here? Obviously you want the baby dead. Or at least to say, fuck storking to people who would gladly accept it, just killz it and be done, our body our choice, while you sick bastards are telling us to get jabbed so you cannot weed out us idiots, because the irony is so thick and the hypocrisy so sloppy you feel you are superior.
Refreshing? Lmao
So refreshed that you just had to bring it up yourself?
What a fucking joke.
Going off on pronouns and COVID vaccines just shows how triggered you are by all things you classify as “libtards.”
Then, you apply all those things you hate so much to me so you can claim that I’m the one who feels superior?
And I bet it all makes perfect sense to you too, huh?
@UCrayCray Yet here we are.
Yup! Here we are, on a post about a woman’s personal struggle with abortion, and you’re talking about vaccines and pronouns, all while boohooing that you had to be the one to bring up “my body, my choice.”
Yeah…. yet here we are. 🙄