I am pregnant,(19) want to abort, boyfriend doesn't?

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We are together half an year, and my boyfriend got me pregnant and our relationship got really bad agter I want to abort because I think my future and my boyfriend want this kid very badly.

he calls me a murderer mother, and he told me why are you going to kill him only because the law give you the option to not get punished. He violently took my hand and told me kill me too, you won't be punished by law if you kill me and it will look like suicide!

I keep telling me him I dont want to be a mother and he begs me to not kill the fetus and tell him that this is his kid, and just give it birth and we will breakup and he will take care of everything. Just leave the kid alive.

I dont know what to do and I dont want to feel a baby 9 months!

JacobJordan · Accepted Answer

Well medically and scientifically you have 26 weeks before nerve endings and a heart beat are available at which point medically and scientifically it counts as a living thing. That being said an abortion is not birth control. If you don’t want to be pregnant don’t have sex. You should also know that getting an abortion could result in you being infertile. So may want to consider that. You could very well end up never being able to have children. Your choice and regardless your relationship is over but you know that already.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You decided to spread your legs and have sex. Now you’re selfish and want to kill your child and take fatherhood away from the father of your child.

You are a murdering mother and selfish. Your the type of person who would throw a baby in a dumpster

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

If you don't want it don't have it... but take care of it ASAP.. and don't have sex with out a condom and birth control next time..

HelpfulWoman · Accepted Answer

Ermmm. run from those red flags and abort. any future kid will thank you for that.

boggboss · Answer

At the end of the day the choice is yours either way sounds like this relationship should be finished

exitseven · Answer

If he wants this baby get an attorney and make sure he lives up to what he says he will do. He could decide at the last minute that having a kid isn't really as much fun as he thought it would be and he will leave you to take care of it.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Blue anon. And pregnant. Are you a F to M trans? Sounds like your relationship is over. Move on. Get an abortion. Never contact him again

slatyb · Answer

Your boyfriend can get someone else pregnant. Terminate.

LiamJHayden · Answer

So you are a pregnant girl but have a blue account and are asking this anonymously? That is quite sus.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

It's rough trying to remember which account to log in as isn't it?

EmmaMary · Answer

So got your gender wrong yet again! lol

Anonymous · Answer

Tell him to marry you and if he won't you'll abort you 'll quickly see his true color.

Anonymous · Answer

what an awful situation. i'm sure your mother would know what to do.

Anonymous · Answer

Then give it to him when it's born. It's only 9 months you'll be fine.

In_Trance · Answer

You posted as a guy  Are you one of those lesbian fellows?  Gtfo

Anonymous · Answer

Have the baby for him to take care of. You should probably change your profile to a woman because it was confusing at first

Benedikt_lol · Answer

he forgot to switch accounts 💀

Anonymous · Answer

Wasn't aware blue accounts could get pregnant.

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