Unfortunately I had to experience the worst possible situation in my entire life because of this scenario. The only person I truly cared about above all else did the worst possible thing she could ever do to me. She was the only person I ever completely opened up to. She was the only person I was completely honest with. She was the only person who knew the real me. She was the only person I loved more than life itself. I thought she was trustworthy and caring. I thought she was loyal and only had eyes for me. I thought she felt the same way about me. She acted like she loved me just as much as I loved her. I thought we were soulmates and would be together forever. She was the only person in my life that truly mattered to me. I thought she would never ever deliberately hurt me. Unfortunately, I thought wrong. I cane home from work one day and found her in my house, in my room, in my bed with her ex boyfriend. I told her I don't tolerate cheating and I would never be ok with her still talking to any ex boyfriends. I told her romantic relationships are the most important thing in my life. I tend to care far more than words can explain about my significant other so I take cheating very seriously. I knew that being cheated on would be an actual traumatic experience for me and I said that to her. She knew she would ruin my life of she cheated but did it anyways. So I found out, in that moment, that she lied to me about everything and never even loved me. She apparently still had feelings for her ex and didn't intend for me to find out that way. She was basically just acting and using me as a rebound for our entire 2 year relationship. When I saw her I was so furious and hurt that I literally dragged the ex out of my house and told him to never set foot in my house or he would suffer the consequences. I threw my ex girlfriend's clothes out on the street and told her to get out for good and never return. I also said she could go burn in hell for intentionally ruining my life. We were over for good and I blocked her from everything. What she did made me go from loving her more than anyone to hating her with every fiber of my being. She knew what she did would destroy me and chose to do it anyway, for our entire relationship. So now I am slowly recovering from the diagnosed depression and PTSD she caused me to have. I wish I never met her and could completely forget that event. I was a generally content person before I met her and now she destroyed my faith in relationship. It will take a lot of personal healing to be able to trust another person again. All I wanted was a close and loyal romantic relationship but sadly life doesn't always turn out that way. I guess I'll just have to hope I can meet someone actually genuine and loyal someday.
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As for me being a guy I e been in both those places.
I know what you're trying to say with the picture and it wasn't in that way
The things that happened to her a positive thing and so flipping funny I mean funny funny so I've been in both of those positions but not what your picture is saying but some other reason and I would do it again in a heartbeat. It is funny
I could imagine that's how it went when all my friends went to that weeb convention that I didn't get to go to lmao
? I honestly didn't understand what's happening there. Could someone please explain it to me?
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I was Husband watching through the window, and there was more than one guy.
I was young and heartbroken and didn't have the courage to confront her yet.
I didn't handle it well.Yes, I'm the one who walked in on my drunk roommate having sex on my couch. (As in, the couch I bought used.)
I was the guy in bed when the girl's boyfriend walked in.
when a guy walks in on you trying to sleep with a shirt on that says 'I'm with stupid' on it? all the time!
My young son walked in on us one morning. I told him we were wrestling which we sort of were.
Cheaters are human garbage and deserve everything bad that happens to them.
I feel like I've seen that picture somewhere
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is that the kid that sees dead people?
Nope, I'm so glad lol
I was the kid that walked in on my parents. 😱
yes, I cover my nipples like that guy
No, and hopefully it never will.
Why is the guy covering his nipples?
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No thank goodness terrible
Yes, mom walked in on sis and I
I've walked in on things more then once
Uhh no, fortunately.
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